Such a boyfriend, should I cherish it or give it up?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This man's stinginess can be forgiven if it is considered from the perspective of learning from the housekeeper, but if you don't let you go home to visit your parents, it will be too much to say, too selfish, you will be so domineering, why is he still so domineering, it's just too much machismo, think about it yourself, such a man, you are with him, do you love him, love him, can't extricate yourself, or get used to it, and don't want to change, but in the future, you will enter the door of marriage, you think about it yourself, is such a man worth spending your life with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Does spending money mean that he loves you?

    This society is in dire need of bread!

    It's really worth considering if you break up.

    Think more about yourself.

    How many years after that, I will have to live with each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think he's good, I'm also from Shandong, and he just doesn't have much money now.

    I'm sure he wants to buy you good clothes and take you to good entertainment places, but he doesn't have any money right now, does he?

    You can also give up, but you still think about it before you say it.

    Don't think about breaking up at every turn.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    With him, you won't be happy, you won't be able to stand it, sister, you should give up!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you'd better break it up. Although he is good to you, you have many different habits after all. It's still difficult to live together for that long.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Speechless. There is love and ruthlessness in the words.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    + Like a hammer.? Choose to be together and sneer. _.There are different opinions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you love him, you shouldn't give it up. But if there is a contradiction, it must be resolved.

    I'm a man, probably like your boyfriend.

    I also have a girlfriend and it's also conflicted.

    I don't know how to give you advice!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No one is perfect, just treat you well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    ..In this way, there will be a lot of trouble in the future, so in the long run, it is better to calm down and not be in a hurry to completely accommodate him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe his stinginess is just due to the limited family conditions, and when he has a job in the future, everything will be fine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is unlimited, regardless of her status, age, or habits. As long as you truly love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It should be a good person, but it may not be a good husband, the two of you have different living habits, consumption concepts, and attitudes towards life, which is not beneficial to the life of the couple, and too many differences will lead to dissatisfaction with each other And do you know the situation in his family? In many cases, both parents are also an important factor in a happy marriage There is also a man who is too stingy and bad, think about it clearly, marriage is not child's play

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Or think about it, leave when it's time to go, according to what you said, people who are too lazy to take care of themselves can be good enough to go?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your boyfriend's growth experience is inseparable from his current personality and living habits, I think he should be a good person, cultured, and you are very affectionate, so you don't give up, as for his bad living habits, you have to be careful to influence him to change him, pay attention to some methods, don't blame him, blame him, for example, you can say to him every time he takes a shower and changes into clean clothes: Oh, hey, he is so handsome and changed people just now, yes, and take his friends as examples, etc,,。 As for who will be in charge of the house after marriage and how long it will take to return home, I think as long as you have the right way to solve it, as long as the two love each other, take care of each other and trust each other, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Khan, there are two sides to everything, if you like it, let's be together...

    Personal opinion.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you think this society is very simple? How do you know it's him who wrote the letter? Who do you think he's doing this for? He likes you, otherwise how would he write an anonymous letter to let you know?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No way? I'm speechless... Unless you can guarantee that he truly loves you for the rest of his life, sooner or later you will also be yin, but I think you should be cautious.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What this brother downstairs said makes sense, but if he is sinister in his heart, he should not write an anonymous letter to you! But usually people who do whatever it takes to achieve their goals, especially those who usually end up with no good results! Eat it back!

    It is advisable to think twice This person is worth considering!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Such people are indeed very scary, unscrupulous in order to achieve their own ends, sometimes we feel very incredible, very cruel, very incomprehensible, right? My colleague is also so selfish, she does all the work, and everyone else makes any mistakes. Try to do well everywhere in front of the leader, and it is very bullying for the new employees who have just arrived.

    Obvious duplicity. Maybe such a person is suitable to live in this highly competitive society? Anyway, I would never be able to do such a thing.

    If you do it yourself, you will admit it, and if you don't do it by others, you will never impose it on others. I don't understand this society anymore. But what I want to say is that since you can't understand your boyfriend's personality, it means that you are definitely not a person like him, so there will definitely be many things that you can't think of going together in the future, and over time, there will be more and more differences.

    Life belongs to the two of you, and other people's opinions can only be references, so you have to think about it carefully, can you really be together for a lifetime? What else will he do in the future that puzzles you?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do you think he loves you? I think it's love, and what he does proves proves that he does have a brain and will fight for what he wants, but you don't agree with it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The current society is very realistic and cruel, he is good to you, it is good to be simple in front of you, he squeezed out two people, which shows that he is also very attentive to you, and everything will take you into account. Just imagine, you may think he is insidious and terrible when he is doing these things now, if he is just honest and step-by-step, helping you serve the old man every day, will you think that he is too honest, has no great development, has no brains and so on? Women are like this, it's always easy to think about something when they encounter something.

    If you don't appreciate his approach, try to communicate with him on the side, so that he can take a compromise or discuss with you in the future, but don't hold on to this thing that squeezes your colleagues away, otherwise your boyfriend will think that you don't know what to do, and he will work hard to help you make profits, and in turn you will reprimand him, so he will be sad. I don't know exactly what the situation is, but I hope it can help you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I understand that he may not be a good person, but he is very good to you, to your family, or to your own people.

    In this society, you can't be a good person.。。

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He gives up first? This shows that the feelings for you have not yet reached the point where you can't give up View the original post

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think such a man either loves you too much and wants you to choose a better life, so as not to regret it in the future, or the two places are separated, gathering less and leaving more, you and your family are under too much pressure, their ability is not enough to buy a house, and they want to give up under depression, no matter what, the key is you, how much you love him, how much can you pay for him, talk about it seriously, if you want to get married, can both parties pay some money to buy a house, now the property market is not low, don't think that buying a house must be a man's business, marriage is a family, Left and right pockets, my LG economy is not good, I didn't mention the bride price, but also out of half of the wine money, my family is not too rich, he demolished for many years and has not taken the house, married for two years has been living in my house, my mother as a son care, he also reciprocated me with love and life care, love him to try to think about him, don't force him, I always persuade him not to worry, the two work together to live better and better, next year to get a house, decorate my house and post money out, what does it matter, my mother said that as long as the son-in-law is good, just be good to me, The two live a beautiful life, and money is at the service of happiness. View the original post

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think he gave up because he thought you were pitiful! He loves you so much that he can't bear to let you suffer! Admire a man like him! View the original post

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Thank you all for the advice I gave me, it was he who gave up first, and we broke up View the original post

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you love him, you will not necessarily have a good life, but if he loves you, you will be happy. Now it's a peaceful society, there's nothing unforgettable, if you don't live together for a long time, the relationship is a very thin thing, and he may meet a woman who likes him very much outside, or a woman he likes very much. It's best to live with your boyfriend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You love him very much, and you're willing to wait, and you'll be together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The age is good. Why should you think about this, if you really love him of course are willing to wait for him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It depends on whether you really love him!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He is excellent, you love him, of course you can wait for him! But you have to think about it, will he come back to you with a million, or will he take you away? Are you sure he loves you so much that it's worth the wait?

    The outside world is very big, there are many good women and cheap women, can you resist it? The issues should be considered comprehensively. Not wishful thinking.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's hard to say, if you want to go abroad, it is the beginning of a long-distance relationship, the kind of relationship that looks at the passage of time and the relationship in situ can you really bear it? There are several reincarnations of a girl's youth, he really wants to go abroad to bless him, as for whether to wait for him not to promise him casually, just give him a contact, time will witness everything.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    When you are separated, you will know how to cherish it. Temptation: You can not contact him for a long time, and if he really cares about you at that time, he can't stand it if he can't see you, and he will definitely contact you very diligently, and vice versa......; I hope you find true love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Give up decisively, since he doesn't like you and doesn't know how to cherish you, you still have to insist on your relationship with him like this, which will only make you slowly lose your self-esteem in this relationship, and find someone who truly loves you, someone who understands you, someone who cherishes you, come on!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Give it up, it will only end up being painful.

    Just give yourself a chance to give him up.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    A man who doesn't know how to cherish, even if you are with him, you will be very tired. Give it up, though it's hard.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    What is delivered to the door is not fragrant, what you can't get is the best, and when you leave him, he will cherish you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Give up! He doesn't cherish you, with such a man, do you want him to spoil your youth?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Give up, because he doesn't deserve me.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Look how he doesn't cherish it anymore. You have a bottom line.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you think that your attachment can move him, and that he really deserves it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Love is a matter of two people, you are just hot and useful. If you don't let go early, you can't get along with yourself.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Understand his feelings for you, and his love for you, and maintain it, if you don't love it, try to forget it. Unrequited love is not interesting.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I'm also struggling with this issue right now, and I'm going to give up.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    "It's okay to be in love with him, but he won't marry me"You don't have to look at anything, just this sentence, just throw it off. Not to mention so many excesses.

    What kind of man deserves your love? --Dare to go through the law and public witness, and promise your life that only people are worthy of your love.

    This kind of person is just playing, be decisive. Divide!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Although love is not measured by money, there is no need for a man who has a girlfriend and is having an affair with another girl. Cherish yourself!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Why should you cherish such a man! People don't cherish you, you should say goodbye in a chic way, he said that he won't marry you, you should find a better, considerate of you, can take care of you, as a man stingy forget it, and it's disgusting to be so careless and irresponsible. I believe that your fate will eventually appear, and your current boyfriend is just an ugly stone on your life path, tripping you up, you can't kick the stone out of anger, look back, just remember the pain of falling, don't be nostalgic!

    You will find your own happiness! Let him be a slut!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It's not worth it!

    If a man treats money better than his girlfriend, it means: either the man doesn't love her, or the man isn't worth dating!

    Remember: people will experience a lot in their lives, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain!

    If you don't wake up now, then you are not responsible for yourself!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    He doesn't have you in his heart, why do he continue to do it? You know, even if you are together, you will have a very painful and tiring life.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    If you have doubts, it means that you have begun to waver, and if you can ask this question, it means that you no longer believe in him, you just lack the determination to leave him. You ask this question just to hear everyone's ...... to persuade you to quitYou give up on him, such a person is not worthy, he doesn't even give you the most basic respect! I think there shouldn't be harm between men and women, even if there is no love, you know what I mean?

    Good luck!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    First of all, your boyfriend (maybe just for you) is particularly stingy. It is special to be careful. A man doing such a thing can really be said to be a little white face behavior.

    I think it's very bad for a man to be very stingy with his woman in terms of money and ask her to pay. Again, the relationship between men and women is a bit chaotic, he loves to play ambiguously with other girls, such an undedicated boyfriend, it's really annoying, from your description, you can also see that he is very domineering but is domineering in taking advantage of you to do whatever he wants, and even belittles you with words, this kind of boyfriend really doesn't know how you get along with him, it's really not enough. He said that he would not marry you, which means that he does not intend to be with you all the time but will completely kick you away at any time, so he will prepare a lot of spare tires, that is, the women you mentioned, it is very likely that many of these women exist by his side at the same time.

    A girl's youth is very short, break up with him before you regret it, although the first time is very important, it is not all that a woman has, it is terrible to love the wrong person and pay a lot that should not be paid, and the importance of these for you in the future is something you can't imagine. Don't let him do whatever he wants, aren't you afraid that you will only be a tool to vent against him in the future? Men are a dead like, there is a first time and there will definitely be a second time, let him know that girls are not so cheap, I wish you happiness.

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