Why are others willing to associate with you even though they look down on you?

This cannot be generalized, but must be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, depending on your willingness to interact and develop. A girl, when you help a lot, express gratitude and have a good feeling, is likely to become your beloved, become your girlfriend. In other words, see if this girl and boy are true love, and whether this woman is persistent love.

Then you protect her, don't do things with bad intentions, and don't be courteous just to get the favor of the woman. If you are true love, you should love a girl from your heart, love a girl with actions, and sincere love in order to get the woman's favor. Love is a consensual affair, sincerity can recognize you, it is likely to become your love, and it is likely to become your lifelong partner.

Therefore, loving someone is not a momentary love, loving someone is loving her for a lifetime. Now, you just have this foundation, and it depends on the true wishes of the other party, if the girl also has this idea, things will be easy to do, if people are politely thankful, there is no urge to love you, you think too much......

I look down on you and still associate with you. It shows that he doesn't really look down on you, but just talking.

This kind of person can only explain that he is very arrogant and casually says a few words, and he really doesn't think so.

First, he is realistic and feels that you may benefit him later. Second, face problems, I'm embarrassed to break off my friendship with you.

With you, he has a strong sense of superiority, and when he is with you, he feels that he can take advantage of you, and when he is with you, he wants to laugh at you.

It shows that he is hypocritical, and he always smiles on the surface and behind the filial piety! It shows that you have value to use, and he has to take care of the overall situation! The person who touches the manuscript like this is calculating, and he really can't get too close.

Other people don't want to get along with you because you are too individual. You don't talk casually at all, and sometimes you can choke people when you speak, so everyone thinks you're not easy to get along with. And your personality is particularly likely to be introverted, you usually don't speak, and when you speak, you don't have a light personality, so everyone thinks you are not easy to get along with.

I don't want to pay attention to you.

It could be your personality relationship.

It could also be that you can't speak.

So other people don't like to get along with you.

Oh, I think you're interesting! I don't think you need it at all technically, the main thing is a psychological solution! Oh, then my point is:

First, the mentality should be correct: everyone has merit, learn from each other and use each other, it is normal, you say that his is not actually you also use him, the same reason, not to mention that your history is there, do not do illegal things do not affect your psychological bottom line, there is no need to refuse, after all, you don't want to break yourself, you won't come to ask for advice.

Second, the heart of defense is indispensable: to prevent people from having clear defense and dark defense, it is recommended that you use open defense, simply put, it is to ask the other party out to sit down and talk seriously, show your own point of view, and at the same time express what you have not done well, and officially say that your brothers are also clear and settled, so that you will not feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't listen to you, you can say whatever you want, but you also talk about your own advantages, and what you have done and characteristics with the other party, the purpose is to make him follow your point of view, and you will also have some advantages in the next step, of course, in terms of interests.

3. There are two sides to everything, and the same is true of interacting with people. This point of view is for you to hear, remember, you must first be generous, non-principled matters do not care about it, there is something instead of secretly tired, it is better to say it to make everyone tired, anyway, your relationship is there, recognize your own situation, speak satisfactorily, do it seriously, and treat it sincerely (remember, there is a degree!). Believe that you will know how to do it.

If you have any questions, you can continue to ask me.

Blame yourself for not knowing how to control him. It's okay to cooperate, but you have to learn to take what you deserve, and beware of Maxima being betrayed by Bole.

Of course not, he's not a partner.

Maybe, depending on the situation, look at the interests, just look up to yourself, you can also look down on him.

Yes. I'm going to make him look up to me.

First, if you find out about the problem yourself, it proves that the situation is serious.

Second, if a person doesn't like you, it may be that person's problem, but if everyone doesn't like you, it's really your problem.

Thirdly, there may be many reasons for not liking a person, such as:1long ugly; 2.

poor personal hygiene; 3.can't do anything; 4. Unable to speak; 5.Bad things for others; 6.

Bad personal habits; 7.unsociable; 8.Too arrogant or too stupid or too pretentious or too stingy (in short, a bad character); 9.

There is something to be jealous of; 10.I don't know how to share.

Fourth, if it is not a matter of one or two days to change this situation, if the so-called people are not very important people, then you don't have to care, just be yourself, if it is the person you care about, then you have to pay ten times the effort, the first thing to do is to smile, the so-called reach out and don't hit the smiling person, you learn to laugh, then the first time will not make people too angry with you, and then slowly improve.

Let's analyze the specific situation, the information you provided is not clear, so I can only help you analyze it here.

Maybe you have some problem in yourself that people can't stand or don't want to bear.

Be a warm person. Be a laughing person. Be happy, just laugh, and let everyone know. When you are sad, you cry, and then you don't do anything. Be happy and know how to be happy. Live your most authentic life and be your truest self.

No one is born to be looked down upon, there must be a reason for this, is it because of something about you? Or whatever.

It may have something to do with what you've done before or what you said.

Because you yourself look down on yourself.