After having a second child, what is your biggest feeling?

Lively, tired and happy.

Having a second child is really lively at home, every day the two children are either fighting for things or rushing for food, and there is basically no quiet at home for a minute.

When Xiaobao was still young, Dabao learned to show off to others outside that this was her sister, and when she got home, she hugged her sister and kissed her non-stop, and then all kinds of questions were asked. Sometimes she can crawl in front of her sister and say a lot of words, but she is not idle, and she doesn't watch TV, so she likes to watch Xiaobao.

When Xiaobao grows up, he knows how to fight for things, you cry and I make trouble when two people fight at home every day, and when I go out and see others bullying my sister, Dabao dares to stand up and say to the person who bullied my sister that I apologize, that's not right. And my sister especially likes to beat her sister, and my sister doesn't care about her beating herself, so Xiaobao has developed the habit of beating people, when someone beats her sister, she actually dares to wave her hand to hit the big child, although she is not very good at talking, but she just knows that others can't bully her sister.

The two outside are sisters, and when they go home, they are enemies, basically the two of them are voices at the dinner table, drink my water for a while, and eat my food for a while, all kinds of noise, or you feed me, I feed you.

Dabao also learned to take care of Xiaobao, Xiaobao also learned to love his sister, the two of them basically have no mother to play at home for a morning, as long as they are given enough food and drink, people can play by themselves for a day, and their mother just sits in front of the computer, writing stories.

If you ask Xiao Ke what the biggest feeling is after having Xiaobao, then it is noisy, as well as happiness and love.

After having a second child, the biggest feeling is that there is not enough time.

In the past, when there was only one baby, the baby could eat quietly after feeding the baby, and after having a second child, there were two treasures after feeding Dabao. Wait for both babies to eat and my food is cold? I don't have enough time.

In the past, when there was only one baby, after putting the baby to sleep, you could play with the mobile phone for a while, and after having a second child, Dabao finally fell asleep, and Erbao woke up again, so he drank milk, played with, and fell asleep. I don't have enough time.

When there was only one baby in the past, Dabao was the treasure of the whole family, and after having a second child, Dabao became the one that was most easily ignored. One day, I suddenly found that Dabao had grown up, could brush his teeth and wash his face, and was about to go to school. And what about the time I have left for Dabao, why is it so little?

When I used to have only one baby, our family of three could go for a walk together, go shopping together, hand in hand, after having a second child, I haven't been out for a long time, I haven't bought decent clothes, I don't have time to dress up.

When there was only one baby before, the baby loved me the most, and it was my mother, my mother's, and after having a second child, the baby loved her brother the most, she liked to watch him sleep and watch him laugh. Dabao has become a sensible sister, but I don't have time to become a better mother for her.

In the past, I would occasionally be coquettish with my mother, because I was her favorite little daughter, and after having a second child, I didn't even have time to be coquettish. Spinning around like a spinning top every day, I became as good as my mom. However, I have less and less time left for my mother.

The biggest feeling is that the two children can take care of each other in the future, although the process of raising the children is a bit hard, but it is still happy.

The feeling is that the two children can take care of each other in the future, although the process of taking the child is a bit bitter, but it is still happy, when there was only one baby before, after the baby was put to sleep, you can play with the mobile phone for a while, and after having a second child, it was finally Dabao fell asleep, and the second baby woke up again, so he drank milk, played with, coaxed to sleep, and so on a series down, the waist has to bend, my time is getting less and less, how I hope to have more and more time to do more and more things.

After having a second child, I felt very stressed, because the first child had already spent too much money, and now it is the second child, so there is no extra money to buy clothes for them to use in school, which is very stressful.

I feel that life is chaotic, I have to take care of the eldest and take care of the second, laundry, cooking, and taking care of the children, and the economic pressure is also very great, my husband is just a salaryman, and the income is not very high, it is really a drop in the bucket.

After having a second child, the biggest feeling is tiredness. Feeling like you're not sleeping enough. From morning to night, I want to find time to get a good night's sleep.

The second feeling is that there is not enough money to spend. Buy diapers today, milk powder tomorrow, clothes the day after tomorrow......, endless spending, wallets are getting smaller and smaller, alas, the days of spending money are still to come!

The third feeling is that the house is too noisy, and it is either Dabao making trouble or Xiaobao crying all day long. I'm tired of dying.

The cost is twice as big as when I had a child, and the thing is several times bigger than a child, so I am especially afraid that the two children will fight.

The boss has a partner, and when he has something to discuss in the future, there will be someone to discuss and communicate together. Moreover, if a child is too lonely, the pressure will be greater, at least after giving birth to a second child, they can face some things together, instead of having to carry it alone all the time. Most of the post-90s generation are only children, so they don't want their children to be so lonely and lonely.

Painful and happy, raising children is very stressful, and it takes money to raise children, but it is very happy.

All of a sudden, the elder will help with things and then take care of his younger brother. I feel that even without me in the future, the two of them can help each other and have a companion.

Life is more stressful, and the attention to Dabao seems to be reduced.

I am very happy, I see that my children have a companion, and they can take care of each other when they are older, and my tiredness is also happy.

I don't want to beat it off after I have an accident, I regret it after giving birth, I have a brain cramp to have a second child, or 2 sons, the financial pressure is high, and I don't know what to do in the future.

Why don't you think about having a second child! Isn't it enough for a child to be tortured!

It felt more busy, yet lively.

It's tiring, and it costs a lot of money.

I was busy and tired, but I was also very happy at the same time.

Not getting enough sleep.

Is there anyone like me who feels so happy and still wants to give birth? Haha

It's good to have a second child, so that your child is not an only child and it won't be so selfish.

Having a second child is definitely not as kind as a first child, after all, there is already a child.

If you have a second child, you want to have a second child because your first child may not be so satisfactory.

I know how painful this process is, but I am worried that when life comes, the joy is unstoppable.

Having a second child, you will feel that it is very difficult to have two children, and then you will feel pressure if the economic conditions of the family are average.

Having a second child is a very happy thing for me because I think children are cute.

The experience of having a second child is very happy, and I am very happy to have a child of my own.

The experience of having a second child is that the care given after having two children will be different.

I feel that after giving birth to a child, if I have another one, I will feel that I don't feel anything, and I can only feel the pain of life.

Since the opening of the two-child policy, it is very good to have a second child. Many people have a second child, because two children are better.

1. Compare the pros and cons of how many children there are If there is only one child, the family's Jingshan Buzhiji will be relatively more affluent, and the pressure on parents will be less.

If there is only one child in the family, if something happens to the child, the parents will have to bear a greater mental blow.

If there are two bad children in the family, it is relatively equivalent to spreading the risk.

There is only one child in the family, and the child is used to being the little sun in the family, and he will appear more self-conscious.

If you have two children at home, the children are generally better at sharing.

There are two children in the family, and the two children grow up together, and when the parents are old and sick, the two children can help each other and support each other.

Second, a comprehensive analysis of the external environment First, look at the mother-in-law. After all, most of the mother-in-law in the family holds the power of "life and death", if the mother-in-law does not have the idea of patriarchy, then even if there are two girls or two boys in the family, or both children and daughters, it is not a big problem. There is no need to worry about the mother-in-law having a special preference for the child.

If the mother-in-law is willing to take care of the child for you, she can also do her best, be reasonable, and be considerate of the daughter-in-law. However, in addition to the mother-in-law's side, as a daughter-in-law, you must also do your own thing, so that you can have both. Secondly, it depends on the husband.

Joining the husband is very powerful, he is a person who can do things and adjust, so even if your mother-in-law is unreasonable, as a husband, you can resolve it, which can make your mother-in-law happy and your wife happy. Funny Min handles the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and mother-in-law is naturally willing to help you take care of the children. Finally, it depends on the father-in-law.

If there is already a mother-in-law who is not easy to mess with at home, if you are a father-in-law, you will have a small belly and chicken intestines, and there are a lot of trivial things, and if you join forces with your mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law can only be more angry, comparable to a powder keg, one is more fried than the other. So in addition to the appeal of these issues, the couple's economic strength and family strength cannot be ignored, to put it bluntly, it is the strength of the family. Even if you are a good family with a prosperous family, if you don't have money, how can you raise children together, especially if you have a second child, a boy, and a boy, it is undoubtedly adding fuel to the fire.

Of course, if you have high hopes for your family's future income expectations, you can have a few children. Key tips: whether you have a good life after marriage, whether you are happy or not, with or without children, how many children, as long as you have both internal and external strength, and have confidence as a parent, I believe that there are a few children who will not regret it.