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Peaceful coexistence.
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1. The principle of equality.
In socialist society, the relationship between people is one of equality, and in our society, there are only differences in the social division of labor and the scope of responsibilities between people, and there is no distinction between high and low.
Regardless of the level of position, the size of the ability, or the difference in occupation or economic status, everyone enjoys equal political and legal rights and human dignity, and should be treated equally. Respect other people's hobbies, habits, and customs. Only by respecting others can others respect themselves.
2. The principle of sincerity.
Treating people sincerely is the guarantee for the continuation and development of interpersonal communication, and treating each other with sincerity can we understand, accept, trust, and unite each other. As far as life is concerned, it is difficult to achieve success and happiness by relying only on one's meager strength.
In communication, we should treat people sincerely, seek truth from facts, be open-minded, and be consistent with words and deeds. Mutual trust, respect for others, humility and prudence, civility and politeness can build good interpersonal relationships.
3. The principle of fraternity.
Chinese Confucianism has a tradition of 'benevolence loves others', and in our socialist society, people should be more united and fraternal. Take the initiative to unite others in interpersonal interactions. Those who tolerate others, others will tolerate them. Mutual respect, humility, and generosity are the keys to building good relationships.
Friendship means loving comrades, friends, colleagues, and the people. True love is about helping others and giving their strength when others need it.
4. The principle of mutual assistance.
Caring for each other, helping each other and reciprocity, is the objective need of interpersonal communication, in life, everyone will inevitably have difficulties and need help from others; At work, they also need to cooperate, support each other, and work together in their respective positions. Helping each other is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. When one person is in trouble, everyone helps; When one side is in trouble, all sides support.
To help each other is to be willing to help others, and to be enthusiastic when others need help when they are in difficulty. Mutual aid and reciprocity, a person who is not willing to help others, it is difficult to ask others to help him voluntarily. Helping each other is not taking advantage of each other, and using each other is not practicing sincerity and friendship.
5. The principle of etiquette.
Etiquette is the basic embodiment of a person's cultivation and quality, for example, to shake hands or greet when meeting; Don't sit when the other person stands; Smile and don't interrupt others; Ask the other person when you need to smoke; When ordering, ask if there are any taboos; A place to socialize, facing strangers, smiling or nodding in greeting, etc.
6. Adhere to the principle of moral bottom line.
Even if the opposite sex is intimate in interpersonal communication, it is necessary to keep a certain distance to avoid things happening; If you do business in partnership, you must pay attention to the villain first and then the gentleman, and put the rules and contracts first, and implement them accordingly; Don't do things that are on the edge of morality in your interpersonal interactions.
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As soon as the new friend met, she couldn't wait to be good to her, and she never refused to chat with her friend's request, for fear that her friend would be unhappy if she neglected it. But when he goes out to play, he doesn't call you good things, he doesn't share with you, you treat him as a confidant, and he treats you as air. Many people unconsciously fall into a people-pleasing personality in interpersonal interactions, and they are the one who hurts in every relationship.
This is an article to help you get rid of the people-pleasing personality and make you gain respect in social interactions, and it is highly recommended to like and bookmark before reading, because several interpersonal rules shared below apply to almost most social relationships.
1. Any relationship will fade. People who like to please others are, in the final analysis, value every relationship too much. However, any relationship will fade or even disappear from your life.
If you don't believe it, you can think back to the classmates who were close enough to wear a pair of pants, and now you are still in contact with a few good brothers and girlfriends who used to play since childhood, are there only a vague outline and names left? Because everyone's life and circumstances are constantly changing. Don't feel like you've lost friends, you just have different circles, and new circles bring new friends.
Any relationship comes quietly one day and leaves quietly one day. All you have to do is accept the coming and leave calmly.
Two, he's not as perfect as you think. A people-pleasing personality will think that he is good to a person because that person is better than himself, better than himself, or that person has his or her ideal characteristics. However, when you put your friend in a high position, your relationship is destined to be unequal, and he will either look down on you or have to inch in.
The water is clear and there are no fish, no one is perfect, don't have high expectations for your new friends, otherwise his performance will not be as good as at the beginning. You'll be disappointed. The best thing to do is to be open to everyone, socialize, and even take the initiative to show their imperfections.
The purpose of this is to tell the other person that you are a sincere person and want the other person to get along with each other with sincerity.
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In daily life, we should support each other and value each other. Don't approach and alienate a person at will, exchange with each other in the process, and don't let yourself make mistakes. Learn to respect each other.
Make the other person feel relatable, but not too welcoming. Interact with each other on an equal footing.
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I think that the laws of these interpersonal interactions are the principle of reciprocity, the principle of communicativeness, the principle of self-worth, the principle of protection, the principle of equality, the principle of compatibility, the principle of credit, and the principle of mutual benefit.
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We must respect each other, don't touch each other's principles and bottom lines, treat others with as much enthusiasm and generosity as possible, be sincere, don't say bad things about others behind our backs, and don't always find faults.
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