The basic trust is gone, and there is still a relationship

I don't think I would choose to marry someone I don't like, most people who marry someone they don't like are generally out of interest or for family reasons. I think marrying someone you don't like will have a different experience, maybe some people are happy, but most people have the experience of being separated or feathered. But I think that in order to have a good experience in love or marriage, you need trust, and the reason why trust in love or marriage can bring each other a sense of security is mainly reflected in the following aspects.

Because in love, two couples trust each other to make each other's feelings truly harmonious, even if there are certain problems between each other, they can be solved well. Because the relationship cannot be smooth sailing, after getting along for a long time, you will naturally encounter all kinds of problems, as long as you really trust each other. Then these problems can be effectively resolved by the communication between the two parties, and will not have a substantial impact on the relationship between the two people.

There is also trust in love, which brings each other a sense of security because they will not be uneasy because they have been together for a long time, and they are afraid that the other party will change their minds about themselves, so that each other has more energy and time to devote to their careers.

Not only that, mutual trust in love, bring each other a sense of security, and will better promote the harmony of family relationships, so trust is the most critical and important factor in the relationship between two people, if the couple can not do enough trust in love, then there is no need to continue to be together.

Therefore, I think the sense of security needed in love should mainly be the trust of both parties, because after all, for men and women in love, there is a lack of full trust between each other, so it is difficult to maintain the feelings between each other, and there will be a lot of estrangement and contradictions between two people in the process of getting along. Specific examples, I still think that trust in love can bring each other a sense of security, which is mainly reflected in the aspects I mentioned above.

I've known him with me for a long time, and the relationship is very good, almost about to talk about marriage, but I still can't resist the word trust, people who want to spend their lives together, but we have lost the least trust, trust is like a mountain between us, and it was only later that I found out that maybe he had other women on his mobile phone, and I saw his ** turned out to be a girl he once liked, which really made me very angry, so we almost broke up, Although I feel that a woman's nerves are relatively big in love, but it still makes me unhappy and quarrelsome, I told myself, since I fell in love with each other, then I have to trust each other, don't always ask each other, go **, who to be with, whether I went out with the opposite sex, etc., trust is a very important factor, if you don't even trust what to talk about, if you are all worried about what will make him very tired, then this relationship will not go long, we understand things when we encounter things, it is better to think too much, We have to learn to stand in the other party's position, if it is me, what will I do, empathy, so that we will not always doubt each other, the importance of communication I believe we all know, if you do not communicate, think to doubt, will understand that there will always be suspicion that bad things will happen, at this time, you have to actively communicate with the other party, what is there to open your heart to understand, so that you can reduce suspicion, increase my trust with him, so that we have a more stable relationship, so this makes me understand that in the relationship, there will always be forgiveness, We have to take a relationship seriously, in fact, even if there is distrust, let him, but also let him correct, and he to open the heart to the heart of the communication, after all, the future is two people, although after all, it is discovered, but still choose to forgive trust is not only one party, but also an agreement between you and him, good luck! Thank you!