If you love someone, then please be sure to accept her family

If you want to accept the existence of the other party's family and affection, at least in my opinion, you still have to accept it.

It's one thing whether the other party's relatives and friends like the interpersonal relationship or not, come up and talk about whom, who, how and how, or put on a posture of "if you like me, I will not get along with whoever I am old and dead", to say something unpleasant, I smoke this kind of person He is considered light.

If you talk about the interaction between relatives and family members, it also depends on the situation.

If you only greet a few distant relatives during the New Year's holidays, or relatives who don't interfere much with issues of principle, and say that, you should be punished by getting along with them, and you can endure it.

Comparing hearts to hearts, there are probably a few bear relatives in their own families, and there are also a few people who are too lazy to take care of and have to take care of them. Since I haven't been able to get along with each other for a long time, I still have to do what I say about face.

What's more, for the sake of someone who can't fight with him, why make yourself unhappy with the people closest to you?

If either party's family strongly interferes in the lives of the two, they want to "help you get through the day", and then blindly endure it, then it is a "bun". I am a soft persimmon, so don't complain to others if you are pinched.

Do you want to accept it unconditionally? ......Even if it is my own parents' family, I will not accept it "unconditionally".

We are all independent people. Is it okay to make suggestions, it's okay to discuss issues, unconditionally let me accept your point of view or do what you say? What kind of onion do you think you count!

It's not really that I'm picky, but if I meet someone (male or female) who "loves me and accepts my family completely", it doesn't seem to me to be any different from a domestic abuser.

And, on the question of whether or not to live together, at least I have always been of the opinion that I can give the house to my parents to live in and rent it by myself, rather than live with any of my elders.

I went to college on the ground, but I rarely went home for the night, largely because a lot of problems that weren't problems could be problems when we lived together. (For example, whether you sleep naked, how long you take a shower, etc., don't really matter...)）

It's still your own parents, and if you add the other party's parents who have completely different living environments, both parties will feel that they have made a lot of sacrifices, and no one will be happy.

That's right, it's a superficial truth.

Yes, loving her is called loving her, and if you don't love his family, that's hurting him.

Well, yes, to love him is to love everything about him, including his parents, siblings, and most importantly, his parents.

Well! If you love him, you'll think of it!

Yes, to love Him is to receive all that He has.

Of course, that's also loving him.

False: Love is mutual, and the love you are talking about is just unilaterally tolerating everything about the other party, and you will always feel very tired one day.

And love is mutually protecting, and it is a process of continuous running-in. Of course, if your love is just played, then it doesn't matter.

If you really want this love to continue and have a perfect outcome, don't have the idea of 'love me, you love all of me'.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms the people themselves, but also warms the true love of those worldly hearts, when it is to imitate the key to He can love, know how to cherish true love, is when it is impossible to love, know how to let go of the light because, let go is to have everything....

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

If you don't know, then let it never know the unruly, but if you know, you don't care, who will care about the past of the person who splits the line of love, especially the emotional problem, only 20 have 8 boyfriends, the relationship is too complicated, and it's too casual, to put it mildly, the girlfriend who is too beautiful in your heart is also a pressure, you are afraid that you can't give her a good life, and you are afraid that she will leave you and fall in love with someone else, so it's better not to accept it.

Tell me about my own love guidelines, I hope it helps-

1.A slap doesn't make a sound, but when it does, it will clap quickly, and each other's attitudes determine a dull lead;

2.Without your perfect partner, we have to learn to compromise with each other;

3.A unilateral compromise is an absolute disaster;

4.No matter what a person's past is, it is his and her past that makes the person;

It doesn't matter how many men she has had, just look at how well she loves you now, if there is love, nothing else should be an obstacle, just a difficulty to overcome. Besides, if you love her so much, then why worry about people running away with others?

How so? Don't be bored with how much you know about his past, and if there is something you can't accept, you have to try to forget about those ants to make sure that it doesn't affect your future life. If you really love to leak lead, it doesn't matter what happened in the past, it's up to you how you measure it

If you really love her, then, trust your own choice, embrace everything about her, and believe in true love.

Since love him. You shouldn't care about the previous ones. Everyone has a scripture that is difficult to read. Love her and embrace everything.

You loved her in the past.

Of course, the premise is that you really love her him, I don't dare to tell you anything else, if it's me, I don't care if their family opposes it or not, of course I want to get married, I will find a way to solve this problem, of course, you have to stand on your side and think about it, if this thing causes the girl you love to be unhappy, what use are you, and she is not for happiness, it is really not easy to get together, or grasp the timing now, but don't be like me, now I am still single.

In a world of love that is not blessed by family affection and friendship, there is no true happiness, and there will be no eternal happiness. After all, people have feelings, there are seven emotions and six desires, and there are always too many realities that make you unable to ignore your feelings. Although behind love, there are also concerns about the existence of family and friendship, but this concern is neither compromise nor abandonment, but to achieve a balance point of coexistence.

We always say that love needs to be paid, but what about family and friendship? You and I are just members of the world, how can we love regardless of the feelings of relatives and friends, regardless of the feelings of relatives and friends? To go for chase?

However, everyone has different mentalities and ideas, and what you believe in is your choice, because whether it is love, family or friendship, no one will accompany you for a lifetime. We hope this helps. This answer is provided by k ɡ

You can care about these things or not, the important thing is that you love them, right? So you don't have to pay attention to those.

Her family doesn't want you, they don't approve of you. I think as long as you truly love each other, no one can separate you. Parents all over the world who don't want their children to be happy.

You have to touch them with your true feelings, touch her with your love, and change him with your wisdom. People's hearts are fleshy, sincere, and open. As long as the kung fu is deep, the iron rod can also be turned into a needle.

Go for it with the people you love, don't give up, everything is earned by your own hard work.

Landlord, it's not a question of whether you are poor or not, do you think that everyone must accept you if you are rich?

Her parents don't accept you, did you find the real reason?

Other girls are still young, why do you want others to bear such a big burden with you?

If you really love her, to put it bluntly, if it were me, I wouldn't be stalked.

Even if the stalking is successful, if her parents don't really accept you, you will not be happy in the future.

Now this society is very realistic, do you all have your own lives**, if there is, then OK

No, then you all have to rely on your parents for food, so how can you elope, or not elope, your parents don't agree, and it's difficult to live together.

I guess so, at least that's how we try. Adopt it.

In the world of love, we should tolerate each other and be humble to each other. No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and if you spit on him because of his shortcomings, I think this is very undeserved. But don't be numb enough to indulge all the mistakes made by the other person.

Some things that should be corrected still have to be corrected by the other party. Look at how much he thinks about you. If you really love her deeply, no matter what mistakes you have made before, you can still accept them and correct them, you can tell him about his shortcomings and make him improve!

Don't compromise, love him very much, will accept his strengths, tolerate his shortcomings...

Since she can choose to leave you for the amount of the dowry, even if you are not interesting to be together in the future!

Maybe even if you get married, you will pay for food, utilities. And quarrelsome

She can leave you because of the dowry that your parents ask for and you can't take it, proving that she is also a woman who has no opinions, and maybe she doesn't love you as much as you think