In the debate competition, civilized etiquette depends on self discipline positive or other discip

Civilized etiquette is also a way of communication and getting along that people like to see. The key points of etiquette are: 1] It is the rules for communication between more than two people.

2] It is for the purpose of creating a harmonious atmosphere. 3] It is based on the premise that there will be goodbye. These three points are loved by everyone, so the proper self-cultivation of words and deeds is the internal cause, and the experience from different environments in a cautious and humble attitude is the external cause.

As for other laws, it is a helplessness to lose self-esteem and initiative, for the sake of your own face, you can't wait for others to force you to be respected. Sometimes there is persecution, which is other temporary needs in the general environment, such as the fact that every soldier in a military parade must be trained intensively in order to be uniform in a short period of time. So, this raises two more questions:

The cultivation of living habits and civilized etiquette everywhere are the manifestations of one's own cultivation and have become habits; Environment, the need for temporary participation in the work. Civilized etiquette is the level of adaptation of the singing and communicating objects and the environment. Purpose is still the most important thing.

This debate topic is an old debate topic, so basically you can find the attack points and theoretical points on the Internet, and there must be no shortage of wonderful arguments.

I remember that this debate topic is very similar to the debate topic of the National College Debate Tournament in one year, you can go to Tudou** to see, and the gorgeous verbal attacks of the learning masters should be able to achieve the effect you want.

I haven't picked it up, what's so difficult to put it down, I've picked it up, I have a concern in my heart, it's hard to put it down.

Self-discipline is decisive, while other-discipline does not last.1

1 As the saying goes: The road is one foot high, and the magic is one foot high. If he doesn't cultivate himself from the heart, no law can restrain him, and if he wants to violate the rules, he will come up with all possible excuses to violate the rules.

2 It is as if the law binds us, yet every day countless people still commit crimes. And people who insist on justice and kindness in their hearts will not commit crimes even if there is no law.

3. I often see notices of civilized etiquette posted on the roadside, Xiaocao said, I'm afraid of pain, don't step on me, take care of the environment, start from me, prohibit open defecation, offenders will be fined 500 yuan, etc. However, if people think from the bottom of their hearts and realize that their words and deeds are not civilized enough, they may make foreign friends, compatriots from Hong Kong, Macao, and Taiwan, and even close friends sneer at us, and realize that their casual behavior will make their character fall to many levels, then presumably they will not easily trample on their virtues.

4 No matter how sound the law is, no matter how perfect it is, there are still places that cannot be managed. Regulated him on the road, in the bathroom? Controlled him in the park, but what about in the uninhabited alley?

There will always be things that you can't see and can't control, and the real ability to control uncivilized behavior is still yourself in the final analysis.

Standing on the field today, it is an honor to discuss with the opposing debater the question of whether the etiquette norms of middle school students need self-discipline or other discipline. We believe that the etiquette norms of secondary school students need other disciplines. When babies croak on the ground, they don't know what civilization is and what habits are.

It is through acquired education that civilized habits are formed. This illustrates the importance of other laws. And the maintenance of civilized habits requires both self-discipline and self-discipline.

However, maintaining civilized habits is to become a "civilized person" in the eyes of others, and it is the outside world that gives you the driving force, so it can also be said that self-discipline is based on other laws. That's why I think it's more important to be disciplined.

Since self-discipline is good, how many people have really developed civilized habits through self-discipline? May I ask the other party's defense friend, how many of you are classmates and must be friends, don't you need to be supervised by friends for your shortcomings? Blindly emphasizing self-discipline, don't you have friends?

If a friend tells you good things and asks you to improve, and you listen to your friend, isn't that the credit of your friend, isn't it the credit of his law? No one is capable of doing anything wrong, so it is necessary for others to control and help.

Human consciousness is limited: the more a system depends on individual virtues, the more the loss of individual virtues will be accelerated, because virtues no longer have the necessary institutional safeguards; A system does not depend on individual virtue, and the more conducive it is to individual virtue, the more conducive it is to the preservation of individual virtue, because at this time virtue is still protected by institutions. The same is true for middle school students to develop civilized habits.

On our campus, you can often see signs similar to water conservation, etc., doesn't this imply that your self-discipline is not enough, and you need other discipline to regulate it at all times? The error correction function of other laws accompanies us all our lives, and we are not constantly learning and regulating ourselves all the time. Self-discipline alone will not work.

In our campus, there is a road made of Lu Xun's grandfather's "more people walking", if you want to wait for self-discipline to solve, the formation of good habits of middle school students is only afraid of looking at flowers in the fog and looking at the moon in the water. Therefore, we believe that the etiquette norms of our middle school students need other laws. If everybody can be self-disciplined, then humans can be on the same level as bees and ants, because animals don't need to do it"Act"Forcing people to need it, it can be seen that without other laws, there is no human being.

The opposing side explained the importance of self-discipline, which our side firmly opposes. First of all, parents are your first guardians, so when a teenager is very naïve, of course he needs his discipline, because at that time his brain is very plastic, he faces complex times, and needs a right person to guide his growth. Only in this way can his view of right and wrong be clarified.