I m getting married, can I still be friends with my ex girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People who have this kind of thinking must not be ready to get married, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. Alas, man!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What can't you do with your wife and have a relationship with her

    But let your wife know what your previous relationship was!

    If your wife only found out later, your friend will be miserable!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, people need to be tolerant of each other, and if you love your wife, your wife really loves you, because love needs to be understood.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, you can, but keep your distance! Hee-hee.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No. Because the past is over, the past is over, as the saying goes, a good horse does not eat back grass.

    Besides, women are cautious, if you don't want your wife to be sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, even if you don't have anything, there's no guarantee that your ex-girlfriend doesn't have the slightest idea.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Vary. I can, and it has been proven.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't, unless your significant other is generous!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think of it this way: Would you like your wife to remain in friendship with his ex-boyfriend? If so, are you sure that they will always really be just friendships?

    In short, I think that I should think more about myself and the other party's situation in marriage, and it is less likely to have problems.

    You can honestly say to my wife: Can I continue to be friends with my ex-girlfriend? If you're against me, I won't, because everything I do is based on the premise of taking into account your feelings (even if it's a lie, you have to say it, you know we girls eat a lot of it!). )。

    If your wife is a reasonable woman, she will never forbid you to associate with each other.

    Interaction with understanding is open and legitimate.

    By the way, don't forget, if you go out with your ex-girlfriend, remember to take the initiative to report it to your wife to show that you are above board.

    If you just want to keep that friendship and then what do you want to do with her after marriage......Then all I can say is: I don't trust men anymore......

    I wish the landlord a happy wedding ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's up to you, it's okay to communicate secretly, but don't be found out by your current wife. I understand your thoughts, you definitely want to divide your feelings into parts, so that you are the least likely to be hurt. Go for it, let it be!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's better not to, this kind of thing is difficult to grasp, and even if you have a clear conscience, it is difficult to explain and explain to the other half of both parties.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course I'm okay with a good friend dating my own ex, as long as the friend doesn't mind.

    To be a man, we must be able to distinguish priorities and be clear and detailed. If you can't associate with your good friend for your ex, you have to cut off your friendship with others and not associate with others. Because you are you, he is him, and feelings and friendships should not be pulled together.

    Once upon a time you wished her well. Whether it's when you're in love, the vows you once made, and the good wishes you made, are all to make each other's lives better. Maybe your personality is not suitable, maybe there is a conflict between you, and finally you drift apart and end up breaking up, but if you are not lovers, can't you become friends?

    Do you have to make trouble to the death? Don't we still want each other to have a better life? And no matter who she talks to, friends and who she socializes, it is her personal choice, and we should bless her.

    Attention to friendship between you and your friend should not be mixed with personal psychology. Although you broke up, you and your good friend should also maintain a very good friendship and not see him as an enemy. He may be able to take care of your good friend better, maybe they are more suitable for each other, we should not break up a couple of lovers because of personal feelings, so it is not good for you and me to him.

    Finally, we would like to say that if you really can't stand it, then try to have as little interaction as possible, but there is no need to make a big fuss and make it unpleasant for all three parties. The best state is to love but not hate, you want him to live well and you can find a better one, if you can put the sail book and search your heart, then you can find a better partner soon, I believe that your ex will also bless you, I hope you live very well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can accept it, not only to accept it, but also to bless the group, because the matter of Chang Zhutang's feelings is the business of the two of them. You don't have to interfere too much, you just need to accept the blessings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you're a man in charge, don't see it. You understand the reason very well, don't say more.

    I'm married and my ex-girlfriend is looking for trouble.

    Such a thing can only be negotiated, see what the girl means and why she is always pestering you, and if necessary, you can find her parents to solve it, after all, she disturbs her own life. Hope.

    After all, it was a child's experience, and it's normal to think about it. It's like remembering any other experience. It's not a fault.

    The biggest regret is forgetting.

    It's a foregone conclusion, and you still think about these impossible things, is it worth it? Are you worthy of the woman who is marrying you now? So let go of these things that shouldn't be thought about and live a good life with your wife.

    The more impossible things can be achieved in dreams! It's okay! It's the brain that's in you!

    Isn't this ex-girlfriend still interesting to you?

    I want to bring you back, or do you think too much.

    It is advisable to equinox.

    Life is not a Qiong Yao drama, why do you love to death, the plain is the most true love, you and your wife are suitable. Men don't think about those things because they focus on their careers.

    Most of the time you can't forget someone is because you loved her deeply and went through a lot of things with her.

    Or maybe it's just that you're with the incumbent before you're completely dead set on ex, which is very unfair to the incumbent.

    First of all, you'll have to delete all messaging and chat apps from ex, as well as any blogs you'll be connected to.

    Try not to touch anything about the other person.

    The main thing is to put more snacks on your current body.

    Observe and care more about the incumbent.

    So be it.

    Like me, I was in tears when my ex-girlfriend's wedding car passed by my house. Is there any way, just blame us for being infatuated men, rare animals.

    Dreaming is because I think about it day and dream it night. If you don't think too much during the day, your sleep is not very good, pay attention to rest, it will improve, it is okay to have faith, don't be superstitious, help you hope, thank you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.From an objective point of view, friends and ex-friends are their own business, and there is no obligation to get our approval or objection. Everyone has their own life trajectory and choices, and love is no exception.

    Our friends are not our private property, and everyone has the right to choose their partner freely. Our friends will not change their decisions because of our opposition, but may be dissatisfied or alienated from us because of our opposition. Therefore, we should not impose our own ideas on others, but should respect their choices.

    2.From a subjective point of view, we need to consider our emotions and positions. If we are deeply in love with our ex, it can be uncomfortable and painful to see our friend dating him.

    In this case, we should go through a period of self-recovery and reflection, find our inner balance and accept that our ex is no longer our own. We should also understand our friend's thoughts and feelings, and if our friend genuinely likes our ex, we should not limit our feelings to the past, but should maintain mutual support and understanding with our friend.

    3.On the other hand, if we no longer have feelings for our ex, and the previous breakup was also well thought out, then we can be more rational about the relationship between our friend and the ex-grandchild. In this case, we should show our support and understanding for our friends so that they feel accepted and understood.

    We should think that the relationship between friends is more important than that of past lovers, and we should be able to truly understand and support this decision. Some people might say, "I don't want to accept my best friend and ex because they are so familiar that I feel like it's hard for me to replace them in each other's hearts." "This feeling is real and very common.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't continue to be friends, it's not interesting, you're already married, you have to be responsible for your current family, and having fun now is the most important thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    OK. In life, why should we hold back for the things of the past? Look at it more openly, just treat your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend as an ordinary friend, don't contact too much, otherwise it is easy for your family to misunderstand.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't think so, since you already have your own family, don't contact your ex anymore, being friends with your ex will only bring trouble to the current one.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's better not to, even if you are just doing ordinary things, it is still easy to cause gossip, which will still hurt the family a lot, and it will also lead to a very insecure partner.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's okay, can't you be a lover, can't you even be a friend? What's more, now that you have your own family, you will definitely be responsible for the family, so you can be friends with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can't be friends, because the current one will definitely be angry, affect the relationship, and it's very unworthy, so it's better not to be friends with your ex.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    To avoid suspicion, I think it's best not to do it. You're married and have a life of your own, do you have to be friends with your ex? Are you trying to find something for yourself? Isn't it okay to be friends with others?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Generally no, the current one will definitely mind the previous relationship, and you yourself feel that you are friends with your ex, but your current and ex may not think so.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, this so-called friendship can easily pose a threat to marriage, and it is impossible for people who have loved each other to be friends again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You shouldn't go, you and your ex-girlfriend are already two parallel lines, you go to yourself embarrassed, and your ex-girlfriend will also be uncomfortable.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can go. Since you have broken up, it means that you have let go of your heart, so you can face your ex-girlfriend calmly.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's better not to go, and it will be embarrassing to see my ex-girlfriend and groom together after I go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you should go, your ex-girlfriend invited you to her wedding, it is because she has you in her heart, just bless her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you have already let go of your ex-girlfriend in your heart, you should go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are really relieved of the past, go to the scene to bless it, if not, there is no need to masoch yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There's no need to go, because you've broken up, don't contact again, don't bother her life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Go, of course I want to go, and I have to lead my current girlfriend generously.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't go, a qualified ex should not disturb her life.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If invited, I'll go and use it as an incentive to try to make my life better.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's better not to go, so as not to embarrass both parties.

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