I ve only been married for a few months, and my baby is about to be born, but I m feeling a lot of p

This is a stage in life that you have to go through, he comes when you are not ready, he comes when you are not successful. But it is necessary to survive this stage.

Me too, just got married, my wife is pregnant and about to give birth, and now I don't even have a fixed income, and I need a lot of expenses for a monthly mortgage, living expenses, and prenatal checkups, and my mood at this moment is anxiety

Then you're still pregnant so soon ... In the condition of not being able to give the child good. It's better not to have children so soon. After all, they are responsible for ...

I'm so happy, I'm going to have a perfect home, what are you worried about, take your time.

This is a stage that most people go through, but the stress is not from the economy at all, but from the partner. I am 22 years old, the child is now 3 years old, although the parents can occasionally help to bring it, and then eat at home, but the kindergarten fee and other expenses are our own expenses, our salary together is less than 5000, even in a third-tier city.

However, we live very happily, because we don't care about firewood, rice, oil and salt for the economy, we will go to watch 3D movies when we are financially constrained, and go out to soak in hot springs, even if the card is only 1000 yuan, but we are very happy, my partner has given me great trust, not only fancy my potential, but we all believe in a philosophical concept, that is, happiness is the most important thing at the moment, even if we are poor in the future, there will be happy memories, maybe you will say that it is unrealistic, What about the child? Let me tell you, our business is thriving because we are "playful", on the contrary, those who calculate firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, because they spend most of their time on careful calculations, their brain reactions, imagination, and intelligence are absolutely in a state of suppression, do you think their careers will be good in such a state?

Friend, you always have to remember one thing, you have to believe in life, believe in yourself, believe in your family, happiness and the power of faith will allow you to do anything, cross any hurdle, but before that, you have to know your partner's personality type, even if you are not open-minded, it doesn't matter, fight alone, work and rest, stress?? What are you kidding, would humans who have evolved over millions of years be afraid of this big thing?

It depends on the family's finances.