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First of all, you are very young and unmarried, so if you buy a house before marriage, you must consider buying a small house. Because when my parents were thinking about buying me a house, they considered it according to a small apartment, but later, they probably felt that there was no place for the family to live and bought a two-room apartment. But after buying it, I regretted it, because the other house was basically empty, and you said that if you changed it to a study, it felt a little unworthy.
So I suggest that when you buy a house before marriage, you must buy a small apartment. Since you are buying this house only to give yourself a space, then you can buy a one-bedroom one.
And the burden of one bedroom and one living room will be less. Because you have to pay the usual property fees and heating fees, if you buy a big house, then this part of the cost will also increase. And I think this house is definitely not a marriage house, this is just a transitional house.
If you ever think about moving your parents to this house in the future, I think a one-bedroom apartment would be the best.
Whether you take out a loan or buy the house in full, it feels like your parents are paying for it. I think the financial pressure of a small apartment will be less. The other is the current pattern of real estate, and it is easy to sell small houses.
If you want to live with your parents, then you can consider buying a larger unit, but it should not be too big, less than 100 square meters. After you get married, it is easier for your parents to provide this house, and it is also very sought-after if you sell a house of less than 100 square meters.
As far as my personal experience is concerned, it is recommended that you buy a one-bedroom house, sixty or seventy square meters. When you don't live there, and you're afraid that it will be idle for a long time, you can also rent it out.
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Because you are a girl, the house you bought before marriage will definitely not be used as a marriage house, and the marriage room is all a boy's business, so I personally think that you don't need to buy a big house, just buy a small one and have a place to settle down for the time being. And girls, when they get married, they must go to the man's house to live, so most of the time in the future, their house will be empty, buy a small one can use it as their own private space, and it's good to go over and see it when you think about it.
Everyone needs to have their own private space, whether it is before or after marriage, they should have their own place to be alone. Since it is a private space, it should not be too large, and if the house is too big, and often alone at home, it will be easy to make people feel lonely, and it will always feel that the whole house is empty, without a little popularity, and it will also make people feel more and more withdrawn. A small house is different, decorating your home carefully will make people feel very warm, and you will not feel a great sense of loneliness, and it is more convenient to clean alone.
Even if you usually work from home, you will be more inspired.
Even if you marry farther away in the future, you can rent a house to a single worker like yourself, and if it is a big house, there are not many people who can pay the rent. Even if you don't rent it out, it's good to have a house where you can stay when you want to play nearby. People must learn to be content, and those who are content will be happy, and it is already a very happy thing to be able to have a nest of their own.
The so-called things are not much, just enough. And the house is the same, not in size, just enough to live in.
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Buying a house before marriage, that is, you want to buy a house yourself? Plus you are a woman, I personally think a small two-room or apartment is fine! The first down payment is small, and the second mortgage is less stressful.
And it's not a wedding room, it's basically a one-time house, usually girlfriends come to stay for two days or parents come to live for two days. Living in a smaller house by yourself will not seem empty, after all, it is still a little scary to stay at home alone at night and the house is too big. Especially when cleaning, the small house is not very tiring to clean, and it is not too good to watch TV and eat snacks at home!
Because this is the life I yearn for, if I get married and quarrel with my husband in the future, I can enjoy a quiet life with my luggage, and I don't need to go to a hotel).
In fact, I think it's better for single girls to buy a house a little younger, whether you have money or no money, you can decorate it better if you have money. In the past, I served another client, who was a couple, and the man bought a three-room house and came to see the renovation and prepare for the new house. The hostess is super temperamental, can dress up, looks beautiful, after understanding that the hostess used to buy an apartment by herself, she has always lived in the apartment by herself, living alone, because now she is getting married and living with her husband.
But I never thought about renting out the apartment, and I can still live there by myself! Even if you get married later, live with your in-laws, and want to relive the world of two people with your husband, it's not good to be at home, so you can go to the apartment, which not only avoids embarrassment, but also promotes the relationship!
So buying an apartment or a small two-room apartment is perfect for unmarried girls, I think so, if I have the financial ability to definitely start an apartment, young girls are not pursuing beauty and happiness! Here's my suggestion to refer to.
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Buying a house, of course.
Precisely because you are an unmarried parody, you always need a place to settle yourself. If you wait until after you get married to discuss whether the man or the woman buys a house, it will be very troublesome.
The other thing is that you don't know how long you want to be single, you may be single and single, so it becomes unmarried, so if you are ready to talk about it, is it better to have a house in Lun Rotten Qing as soon as possible? What's more, now that house prices have been rising, buying a house earlier is always profitable.
No matter when, as long as you have money, you must buy a house, because at present, China's housing prices will continue to grow for many, many years, if the house price does not rise in a few years, it may be that there are no resources to buy a house, you can't buy a house, find a state, so it's best to buy a house quickly, whether you are single or not, don't think about anything, as long as you have the economic conditions, buy a house immediately.
In addition, some people regard the marriage spine as their only destination, and do not cherish or cherish their single life, and do not live a better single life, which is really irrational. Take buying a house as an example, it is obvious that with a house, your single life will be more stable, you can decorate your house according to your own ideas every day, and you will not worry about one day you will finally arrange the house, and the landlord suddenly tells you, I'm sorry I can no longer rent here, I can only leave, or the rent is getting higher and higher, and you can no longer afford the cost of living......You don't have to worry about that.
You just have to work hard, improve your quality of life, do what you like at home, and furnish your home the way you want it to be, and that's it, so it's definitely better to have your own house than nothing, there's no doubt about it.
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