How to get along with the girl after the blind date I don t have a clue

Since she's a slow heater, I suggest you slow down. Slow-burning people mostly need ordinary and small details to be moved. Try to create touching details, like tying her shoelaces or something.

Slowly infiltrated her life. This will give you more opportunities to get to know her, and she will gradually become dependent on you. Usually, you can ask her out to meet, chat, walk around or something.

You can even ask her to go to the supermarket and buy something to cook together or something. Stick to a text message every day, whether she sends it to you or not. When she's completely used to having your days, you've succeeded.

Believe that feelings can be cultivated.

Everyone who goes on a blind date is like this, they don't know each other at first, but they have a feeling when they are cultivated, and it slowly becomes love.

First of all, the person who is on a blind date must know.

Not every blind date partner will have the opportunity to slowly develop a relationship.

Clause. First, the man doesn't like the woman, and there is no play.

Clause. Second, the woman doesn't like the man, and there is no play.

Clause. Third, the first impression of each other is not bad, which is called a good feeling, then both parties can proceed to the next love strategy.

Since both people agree with each other, they will develop further.

Then start texting, calling**, two people, there must be one person who has been looking for a topic to make the other person feel that he is very cheerful, his happiness makes the other party hot, after a few weeks, half a month, I believe that girls will have love for men, open their hearts, and there are naturally many topics, so that needless to say, everyone is already a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship......Then you can enter the development period of love......There is noise, there is incomprehension, there is sweetness, there is laughter, there is sadness, ......

Love someone, don't care too much, be appropriate.

Because you care about her too much, she is destined to be loved, and when she gets used to being loved, it will be difficult for you to feel loved.

Haste makes waste. Mr. Wang Shouren has a famous saying: If the heart does not move, act when the opportunity arises.

Men are too enthusiastic, for quiet girls, it is an invisible pressure, listen to your description, your girlfriend is a girl who likes literature and art, in fact, she doesn't care how good your writing is, how good your eloquence is, how enthusiastic you are, it is whether you can move her, not material, but in the momentary impact of the soul. You yourself are very hesitant in your heart, the girl is very delicate, and she can actually feel your hesitation. Two people get along like between countries, stick to the bottom line, open up space, and give more trust and freedom.

If you are a good girl, be brave, show your sincerity, don't use expensive gifts, so that you can only find a woman with power, good luck and happiness.

You keep emphasizing your strengths, which shows that you lack self-confidence...The first question is not how to get along with her...It's about figuring out what's really going on in your own heart....Love is not like anything else....If you don't feel each other, barely happy, think about it first, don't delay others and yourself! Think twice!

In fact, your current situation is like this, the blind date is to find your other half, but what you find is not what you want, you don't have too many feelings, you don't feel like you want it in your heart, now you don't have to force yourself to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with her, slowly get along for a while, let go of your heart, get along with each other with the psychology of a friend, so that you can make yourself a lot less psychologically burdened, and be optimistic.

If it's a slow heat, it's not that she doesn't care about you, but that she doesn't know you yet! So you need to take your time! You need a wedge to increase your affection for each other!

You can find some friends to go out to play, sing and drink, coax and play together, and the relationship will improve! Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Your personalities are a bit alike. Although you don't feel like her now, it seems that she still has a crush on you. Love at first sight is very rare, as long as you don't dislike it, I think you can still have a relationship first, maybe you have a feeling after a long time, and love is more reliable than love at first sight.

Let it be, stay for a long time, maybe it will be suitable!! One is slow hot, the other is hot, maybe it will be a good match!! Don't suppress yourself, be true to yourself, if it's suitable, it's appropriate, if it's not suitable, forget it!!

In fact, the problem in this matter is mainly yourself, and you yourself don't like her very much.

You have to decide whether you like her or not, and if you like it, you chase it, then it's no problem.

If you don't like it, it's not good if you still chase it, and show that you want to be with her.

Go with the flow, get in touch more, try to get to know her, do what she likes, care about her more, if she has feelings for you, she will definitely respond I have always believed in love at first sight, but I prefer to fall in love over time.

Feelings are cultivated slowly, and in the world, you don't need to feel inferior at all, everyone will have their own special side, it can only be said that you haven't discovered your own advantages, be confident, come on.

Let's get along for a while, it seems a little early to decide now. You have to communicate with her more to see if there will be too many deviations in your values and outlook on life. Whether you have the same opinion on the same thing, as well as hobbies, etc.

You have to continue to take the initiative to pursue and don't slow down, so that she can feel needed and will slowly invest in this relationship, in fact, she is already starting to invest, but slowly!

If you're not very old, don't waste your time.

If you don't have any feelings, it's harder to get along.

If you have that little bit of time, you might as well go and discuss with others to enhance your relationship, and chirp here from morning to night and fart.

Just think about the other person in everything.

Two people with the purpose of getting married, how do you say they should get along.

Is it necessary? People don't feel for you, why do you have to whisper and beg her, love is that both parties must have a good impression of each other, so as to cultivate feelings, otherwise it will become one party to pay, one party to gain, and then pay one party to get nothing, waste time and money.

Don't talk too much and don't talk too little at the beginning, of course, you can't talk about everything, you can talk about some interesting things around you, but you can't talk about other people's strengths and weaknesses, women hate men who are eight women.

Take the initiative to ask her out, watch movies, sing, and play.

Then you have to be assertive, and you don't need to be led by her.

Well, I'm a boy, and I've been on a blind date for about 20 times, and generally boys take the initiative to contact you if they're interested in you! So you don't have to rush! If it's not interesting, I guess I won't contact you!

You don't need a text message every day, it's just that when people come to text **, you have to be enthusiastic, this is a must, unless you don't fancy him, but there is also the necessary politeness, I said it very clearly! I wish you the happiness of finding yourself!

Don't be so active in the blind date process, when you finish the blind date, if the man is interested in you, he will take the initiative to text you, and if you are interesting to him, you will text back to others. You start with the basics (like the weather, your health, your work...). After a few days, if you think it's good, you can get to know it better.

If you don't find it interesting to get to know this person at first glance, don't contact them.

Don't greet him, it should be him who greets you to the landlord. After meeting, if the other party is interested, they will take the initiative to contact you. If you don't like it, you won't be able to hear from you.

If a relationship is formalized, you can reach out. Indicates the next relationship.

Khan, now you are still on a blind date, will you let someone else decide your fate after the blind date? Aren't you tragic then? I think it's still good before the blind date.,And you've been on a blind date ten times.,The next day you were so active.,People still think you're a nymphomaniac or something.。。。

Isn't it like this for everyone?

You can leave QQ, text messages are also OK, if you have a good impression of him, then find a chance to care, don't be too active, but don't be very cold, such as asking what he is doing, is he busy at work, but before asking, you should briefly understand the nature of his work, so as not to annoy him when he is very busy, talk about some neutral topics, see his reaction, if he is also very serious and engaged in chatting for a long time, then it means that your first step is good, and then it is more logical.

Girls should not be too proactive, if people have feelings for you, they will contact you themselves, and if you don't contact within 24 hours, it's basically no fun.

Getting along with people is actually very simple, you don't regard the blind date as your future husband, so that your criteria for judging people will change, you are strangers to each other, and you can slowly start to understand and develop from the stage of making friends.

Deal with it with the mentality of making friends, so that there is no big pressure, but you will receive better results. Slowly, you will get to know each other.

Generally, it should be a boy who takes the initiative to call a girl, send a message, to prove that he has a good impression of you, if the blind date has been over for 24 hours, he has not given you a ** or a message, it means that he is not optimistic about you, if the girl is optimistic about the boy, you can send a message to the girl, and the girl will give a message back enthusiastically. Don't take the initiative to message boys too much at first. Send a message to greet you occasionally, on behalf of your concern for him, if you have known each other for a long time, whoever sends more messages to whom will do everything, I wish you success.

Is it necessary to go on a blind date like us? Blind dates are unreliable.

At first, it was because I didn't know very well, so the girl said that, and then the chat was very good, there is still a chance, at this time you should pay attention to the frequency of chatting, before you become your girlfriend, there are up to three days a week to chat, don't chat for too long each time, otherwise the mystery will be gone, and when the atmosphere of the chat is very good, you should take the opportunity to make an appointment with this girl, and make an appointment to upgrade the relationship. After talking so much, you should understand a little, if you don't understand it very well, go to the Love Academy Forum to learn love skills, and strive to get a beauty as soon as possible.

Slowly get to know you, contact and know you for a long time, you will have a good impression of you, this is a good phenomenon, you can like to be suitable for marriage.

There are many good things, and when you feel almost, let the matchmaker talk about it....

Slowly getting to know her and taking care of her, it's easier to understand only after experiencing it, and I feel like this thing can't be explained for a while.

Feelings need to be accompanied and love needs to be cared for.

When a man and a woman fall in love, the man generally takes the initiative, and the woman has nothing special to pay attention to.

It is a very normal step to date after a blind date, and it is precisely because you are not familiar with each other that you want to date, giving each other a chance to get to know each other quickly and get acquainted. Don't worry about having nothing to say, generally speaking, the man will take the initiative to find a topic, relax a little, and naturally have something to say while chatting. And girls are generally quieter, and it's normal to talk less when they meet for the first time.

As for eating, there is no need to resist, just a meal, and there is no question of being reserved or not at all. In the first few invitations, try not to refuse without special circumstances, which will make the other party misunderstand that you are not interested in him. As for the question of active and passive, there is no need to care about it, just be natural, basically which state you feel most comfortable in.

A man who likes you will naturally tolerate you.

Beat each other** Chat about something funny.

Then it's time to watch a movie and eat.

If you can go a little deeper, you can travel outside.

It's a good way to get closer to each other.

At first, you can start by pulling hands.

Then it's a slow next step.

Go with the flow, don't put too much pressure on yourself, show your true nature, true self, so that you can also judge what that guy likes about you...

First passive, after getting acquainted, if you like him, then you take the initiative!

Anyone who guards me against arrogance and rashness, don't be impulsive at will, emotional things are like steaming steamed buns, the fire is too long and easy to dry up, and the fire is too light and too anxious. It's up to you to grasp your ability!

Thinking too much Blind date is all about finding the ideal other half. You first think carefully about whether the man meets your requirements, and then communicate further.

Be proactive!

When a girl comes to your house, don't be at home after eating, go shopping, watch a movie, etc., when you cross the street, you will hold her hand, and if you cross the street, you will not send it away, and if she does not shake you off, you will keep pulling, won't you just hold hands. If she likes you too, her hands will be sweaty.

Treat her to dinner, go shopping, and buy her what she likes.

This kind of thing can't be taught at all, it's all up to you and no one will help you.