Why some students are not motivated to learn

I feel like it's because you don't have a goal, you don't have a pursuit, you don't know what you want, you just learn passively. If you don't study first, go to find a job to support yourself, don't rely on anyone to work hard in society, and then give you the opportunity to study, I think you will be motivated, you will understand the difference between having a degree and not having a degree and the cruelty of this society!!

I think it's because there is no goal, because although adults say that it is for a better life in the future, this goal is too illusory, so I ...... it

If the manager asks you to work an overtime day, he doesn't pay you overtime, but only says that it will be good in the future, what do you do?

In fact, I really feel very helpless, why is everyone different, just like some students have the motivation to learn and some don't, in fact, everyone's individual differences are different, maybe his body (maybe genetics) is not interested in learning, but he is very interested in another thing. Then he can specialize in that thing, and maybe he will succeed, but the real society does not need to be like this. Everyone always thinks that only when you succeed in learning can you have a future.

What to say? It's so helpless.

The contemporary model of education is really unmotivating.

You can only be motivated when you really think about yourself.

Because of the failure, the blow suffered was too great. As a result, it is impossible to extricate itself from the shadows.

Fundamentally, they are not interested in learning.

Because if you're lazy, as long as you're not lazy, you can find motivation, and you'll be able to learn.

I don't realize my future and learn to be passive.

Born in sorrow, died in peace.

The relaxed learning environment of universities (especially non-prestigious universities) will inevitably lead some people from relatively privileged families who lack ideals for a while into a whirlpool of enjoyment

How many people are born to do such hard work? What good students, top students, are forced out by the reality of Chinese education But they obeyed the situation, so they knew the times as the heroes, and they succeeded

There is no motivation because there is too little to see, because there is no crisis in life

Didn't experience major setbacks.

It's not fun to learn!Unattractive!It's not fun !

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Students are not motivated to learn, which may be due to the fact that parents do not give their children some encouragement.

Or there is no reward for the child, generally many children hope to be praised by their parents when their academic performance is relatively good. If parents do not praise their children, children may feel that they will not praise themselves no matter what, so it is better to be less tired and go to learning.

When the child has achieved some good results, parents can choose to give the child some praise and encouragement, which can also make the child feel very warm, and it can also make the child's learning better. If parents usually do not pay attention to managing their children, it is likely to lead to very serious harm to their children. We can also give our children some encouragement, for example, if the child has achieved very good grades at a relatively young age, then we can choose to praise the child.

However, when the children grow up, we can also buy what they want to buy, so that the children can have a motivation to move forward.

Some children are not motivated to learn, that is, there is no one to accompany them to learn together, and we can also choose to accompany our children to learn together, which can also make children's learning more motivated. And it can also make the relationship between children and parents better, we must know that in the process of educating children to learn, it can also make the relationship between each other more harmonious.

When we educate our children, we must motivate them appropriately, so that they can have a better motivation to learn, and they can also like to learn more parents. As long as you can do these things, you can make your child better.

The child understands the importance of learning, and the child does not have a very good goal.

It may be because you haven't found a study method that suits you, so you will be tired and unmotivated.

1.Psychological explanations.

Psychology believes that the reasons for the lack of interest in learning are as follows:

1) Individual causes. Individual characteristics such as emotions, will, attitudes, experiences, interests, values, and health conditions will all have an impact on learning motivation. For example, a person has a sense of the purpose and meaning of learning.

2) Family reasons. The family environment has a direct impact on a person's motivation to learn, and he includes both the objective environment and the subjective environment. Factors such as the family's economic conditions, education level, and family structure constitute the objective environment.

3) School reasons. For students, the campus environment, teaching equipment, teaching process, teacher quality, etc. will all affect learning motivation. The mode of test-oriented education, the outdated teaching content, and the rigid teaching methods 、..

4) Social reasons. Social life is an important factor affecting learning motivation, and social values have a huge impact on people's learning motivation. If society as a whole advocates the value of knowledge and talents, then it will be beneficial to people.

Lack of motivation to learn 1. Main manifestations (1) Try your best to avoid learning. reluctance to attend classes; listlessness in class, inability to think positively; No sense of achievement, no ambitions and no expectations. (2) Lack of self-esteem and self-confidence in learning.

I don't believe that I have the potential to learn well, and I won't feel embarrassed if I don't learn well. (3) Easy to get distracted. Lack of motivation to learn will make people pay poor attention, unable to concentrate on lectures, unable to concentrate on thinking, easy to shift interest, superficial in learning, easily disturbed by various internal and external factors, and satisfied with half-understanding.

4) Boredom, apathy. Lack of motivation to learn often leads to boredom, apathy, and withdrawal from learning. (5) Lack of correct learning strategies and methods.

People who lack motivation do not actively look for flexible learning strategies and methods that suit them, so they often find it difficult to adapt to new learning situations.

2. Reasons for lack of motivation (1) social aspects (2) school aspects (3) family aspects (4) personal aspects (the main reason) The major studied does not match your interests In short, university learning is not the same as junior high school and high school, there will be teachers and class teachers to supervise and urge you to study hard, completely dependent on consciousness. Many people think that I should relax when I go to college, as long as I don't fail the course, it doesn't matter if I don't learn it, it's a big deal that the teacher is cramming before the exam.

Introduction: If the child is not motivated in his or her studies, parents must help the child.

If the child is always unmotivated to study, parents should talk to the child so that the child can achieve better results. Parents must discuss it with their children well, let their children know some things, if children often encounter some situations when they are young, then parents must explain clearly to their children. When a child encounters something, parents should let the child put all his mind on learning, so that the child Sakura has the motivation to learn.

If a child often relieves some of the burden or influence, then parents should learn to communicate with the child, and the child must be slowly understood. To know the harm of children not learning, you need to know what kind of way the child should be suitable, you can't think about pursuing the child's opinion, but you have to consider whether the child can do this and then make a good choice, in order to reduce some of the negative impact of the child, so that the child can slowly learn to grow up.

I believe that every parent hopes that their children can study well and hope that their children will not have this sense of loneliness, but you have to think about it, if a child does not have the motivation to learn in learning, then will the child study hard? Parents should not let their children's emotions be affected, and must let their children use learning within the prescribed range, so that children will reduce some situations, some children often tell their parents how they are when they are young, so parents must listen carefully. You want your child to learn, but you can't hurt your child, no matter what choice the child faces, parents must think carefully before setting a good example for their child, and take the child to do something to make the child understand.

Some children have dependence on some things, and at this time, parents should work hard to cultivate their children's motivation in this area, so that children can grow better.

It is normal, because in the face of high Xinlu intensity of learning and pressure, children will have learning anxiety for a period of time, and sometimes they can not get rid of it, at this time, parents need to encourage and guide, bring things back to the children to go to some places to play to relax, so that children can go out of the world of learning to feel the nature, so that the body and mind can be relaxed, and the anxiety of learning will be relieved.

This is normal, if you encounter this situation, parents must guide their children, and then they should also set a good example for children to be noisy and slippery, so as to improve the motivation of children to learn, we must pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and do not force children.

If it is abnormal, it means that the student's family education is not good, and it must be that the study pressure is heavier and there is a feeling of boredom with learning.

The methods that students are not motivated to take are as follows:

1. Give back the responsibility of learning to your children

Many parents are more excited than their children when their children get good grades, and even show off to their relatives and friends everywhere. Returning the responsibility of learning to children is not to let parents ignore anything, but to require parents to look at their children's achievements with a normal heart, "no happier than children, nor more anxious than children".

Let your child worry about his grades, give him time to improve, and give guidance when he or she needs help. Let children understand that learning is their own business and they are responsible for themselves, so that children's motivation to learn will be stronger.

2. Maintain interest and ability to learn

If current and future parents can sustain their children's desire for the world, you have won the greatest victory. The next thing parents need to do is to maintain his interest in learning and learning ability, and get rid of the shortcomings of students' lack of motivation. Continuous learning, but not necessarily at the pace of the current education system and schooling.

3. Establish correct values

We are now in an age of self-interest. For many adults, many are mercenary, and this atmosphere is gradually permeating the campus. At the student stage, tell the children not to think too much, don't have the wrong idea that "learning is useless", and don't be confused by the chicken soup on the market that does not have much education but has achieved great success, after all, those people are a very small minority, and the efforts they put in behind them, ordinary people can't do it at all.

Fourth, determine the appropriate goals

Let the children have a concept of what they want to do in the future. This is a major event that determines the trajectory of his life, and it must be taken to heart. Through the understanding of all walks of life at the Social Combustion Chamber, determine an industry that you are interested in, and then work backwards on what skills are needed to engage in this industry, which university you need to study, and what majors you need to study.

After having this goal, the children will check the score of the corresponding major admitted to the university, and if they are still far from the target score at this stage, then they will consciously work hard for the goal and get rid of the lack of motivation of students.

5. Improve time management skills

Many children's time management skills are also relatively weak. For example, some children lack reasonable planning for learning and doing homework, and at first they feel that the time is long, and all kinds of procrastination are delayed, and then they find that they have insufficient time, so that they can complete the task very late.

In this process, we can set corresponding rewards and task difficulty for children according to their personality and ability, and use scientific methods to mobilize children's motivation and enthusiasm for completing the goal, and at the same time enhance their memory and understanding of things. In this way, children's initiative and desire to explore learning will become stronger and stronger, and the sense of successful experience will be more and more, and gradually develop a continuous and independent learning habit.