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I think betrayal is such a thing, with the first time, there will be a second time, just like a dog can't change eating, and this kind of behavior can't be changed. I think betrayal of this kind of thing cannot be forgiven, because the nature of this kind of thing is really bad, I think once your husband betrays you, then he is finished, because the moment he chooses to betray you, there is no more you in his heart, which cannot be forgiven.
Even if you forgive him, I don't think the consequences will be good. Because your forgiveness is a kind of indulgence to him, he will never say that your forgiveness is to give him a chance, he will only feel that your forgiveness is a compromise, a kind of helplessness. So after that, he will become even more aggressive, and it will be even more excessive, and at that time it doesn't matter whether you forgive or not, because he doesn't care anymore, because in his heart he will compromise this time, and in his heart you are a cowardly woman.
I had a friend who was like this before, and he chose to forgive him in the face of his boyfriend's betrayal. Then the next time he waits for betrayal, or a justifiable betrayal, he thinks you can't give it to him, then it's right for him to go out to look for it and go outside to satisfy himself, you have no qualifications and no ability to take care of him. If you manage it well, he will beat him up, and in turn, it will be your fault.
He will think that you are not generous enough, and that you have let him go once, so why can't you let him go a second time. He will think that this is a small mistake that men make, why can't you forgive it? He thinks that you are an unreasonable and inconsiderate woman who waits for me to be unreasonable, and he never blames himself, and he does not feel that he is wrong.
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Then most of them were completely forgotten by their husbands, who did not return to the family because of their forgiveness, but became more and more presumptuous, more and more bold, and finally even forgot about the family.
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Since they can forgive their husband's betrayal, it proves that in fact, it is very important for them to say goodbye to their husband first. It still depends on the husband's own conduct, if you know your mistakes and change them, it's still very good.
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Although I forgive, I will not be able to let go of this matter in my heart, it will become a knot, and in the future life, the woman will be oversensitive, and the quarrels between them will increase, and the relationship may break.
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Such a woman is basically that her husband changes his mind and lives a good life with her, isn't it that her husband and Xiao San have reunited into a family, but you divorce and become a person.
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There has always been a pimple in my heart, and when I suddenly talk about this topic at a certain moment, I feel that the world will collapse, and I always feel that there is something between two people, and sooner or later this thing will explode this time.
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I don't know what happened to those women who forgave their husbands for betrayal, but I think it's not as good as it gets, women definitely don't trust their husbands as much as before, and it's inevitable that they can't cut them off, and they often worry that the same thing will happen again, how can they live well.
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In fact, there are many people who are not doing very well, because some people he chooses to forgive, but his other half is not grateful for this, but worsens, so for such people, they often live a very tragic life.
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Most of these women end up unhappy, because their hearts are too soft, and they are the ones who are hurt in the end.
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In fact, most of these women ended up unhappy and chose to divorce.
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