The story of treating people with courtesy, the importance of treating people with courtesy?

The allusion of Chengmen Lixue.

Cheng Men Lixue" is a story about the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Xing who sought advice from Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi.

Ercheng is a native of Yichuan in Luoyang, and he is also a famous Confucian scholar in the Song Dynasty. The second Cheng doctrine was later inherited and developed by Zhu Xi, and was known as the "Cheng Zhu School". Yang Shi and You Xing, seeking to learn from Ercheng, are very respectful.

Yang You and the others, originally took Cheng Hao as their teacher, after Cheng Hao's death, they were both forty years old, and they had been admitted to the Jinshi, but they still had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day they first came to Songyang Academy and came to meet Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Xing came to Songyang Academy to meet Cheng Yi, and met this old gentleman who closed his eyes and recuperated and sat and pretended to sleep. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to say nothing and ignored them. Yang and You were afraid of disturbing Mr. Rest, so they had to stand respectfully and solemnly, waiting for him to open his eyes without saying a word.

After waiting like this for a long time, Cheng Yi woke up like Luo, saw Yang and You, pretended to be surprised, and said, "Ah! Yes!

The sages have been calling here for a long time! "That means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and at some point, it started to snow.

There was snow outside the door, more than a foot deep.

This story is called "Chengmen Lixue". It was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty, and later described as respecting teachers and sincerely asking for advice.

The importance of treating people with courtesy is reflected in the following aspects:

1.Improve personal quality: Treating people with courtesy can show personal good cultivation and quality, and make people appear more graceful and educated.

The ancients said: "Self-cultivation and Qi family rule the country and level the world." "Putting self-cultivation in the first place shows that personal quality improvement is essential for interpersonal communication.

2.Promote interpersonal harmony: In interpersonal communication, treating people with courtesy can resolve conflicts and promote harmony in interpersonal relationships. Polite people are more likely to earn the trust and respect of others, thus building strong interpersonal relationships.

3.Increase the level of civilization in society: At the level of society, treating people with courtesy can help to improve the level of civilization in society. When everyone is able to treat others with courtesy, the social atmosphere becomes more harmonious and there are fewer conflicts and contradictions caused by a lack of etiquette.

4.Inheritance of cultural values: Treating people with courtesy is one of China's excellent traditional cultural values. By inheriting and promoting these values, we can better inherit and promote Chinese culture, while also helping to shape a positive social atmosphere.

In short, treating people with courtesy is an important criterion in interpersonal communication, which is of great significance for the improvement of personal quality, the harmony of interpersonal relations, the improvement of social civilization and the inheritance of cultural values.

I thought etiquette was still needed. Because if you don't respect others, they won't respect you, and then there will be a gap between people, and then people will become selfish, they will become indifferent, they will not care about others, they will not help others. I remember one time, I took a bus to the park to play, and when I arrived at a stop, an old man came up, who looked to be in his 60s, his physical strength was not good, and his legs were weak, and no one gave him a seat.

There was an aunt next to him, and she put her bag alone on an empty seat, and at last the old man couldn't stand anymore, and just as he was about to sit down, the aunt said, "Don't sit on my bag, my bag has also bought a ticket, and my bag can't sit." The old man looked disappointed......So we have to be polite to people, so that people can be very familiar with each other and very friendly.

In this way, a harmonious society can be formed.

The importance of politeness and etiquette:

1. The importance of attitude affinity:

1. In daily interactions, if we are sincere and kind, we will give each other a sense of intimacy and respect, and will shorten the distance between each other.

2. In a social group, if everyone has such a humble and amiable attitude, it will enhance people's friendship and unity, and make us feel warm and happy.

2. The importance of being dignified:

1. Dignified manners can reflect our elegant temperament, reflect our moral quality and civilization, and are good behaviors that we should cultivate.

2. Civility and politeness should be reflected through dignified manners, and paying attention to the norms of manners is the basic requirement for us to conduct social interactions.

3. The importance of politeness:

1. Politeness is the embodiment of civilization, and in the process of treating people and things, everyone has the need to treat each other with courtesy.

2. Whether it is civilized and polite is not just a personal matter, nor is it an insignificant matter, it shows whether a person has moral cultivation.

In life, everyone treats others with a smile and will be happy themselves. Smile, it makes you happy to face reality; Smile, it makes you confident and energetic; Smile, it wakes you up from your grief. If you give a smile to the loser, then he will stand on the starting line again and take on new challenges; If you give a smile to a successful person, then he will have the idea of surpassing himself and will decide to go to the next level.

Isn't it? A smile makes people optimistic, and a smile gives hope.

Hope it helps.

The Good Samaritan A man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho and fell into the hands of robbers. He carried valuables with him and walked alone on this road, which was so full of robberies that few people dared to pass alone. As a result, the man was brutally wounded by the unconscionable robbers, stripped of his clothes, and left him on the side of the road.

Soon a well-known religious priest passed by, and when he saw the wounded man absentmindedly, he hurried around to the other side, knowing that if he was not careful, he might defile himself and not be able to serve in the temple for a while. And another Levite came to the place. He saw the wounded man clearly, but for his own safety he did not offer any help, for the robbers often used a companion as bait to lie there as if he had been robbed of the wounded to attract the attention of unsuspecting travelers, so that his companions could easily plunder such passengers.

So the Levites also walked on the other side, thinking that there was no need to take this risk. But one of Mary's men came by way. When I saw this wounded man, I was moved with compassion.

He didn't care about the uncleanliness of religious ceremonies, but was bent on helping the other party, because his instinct was: That person needs my help! The Samaritan poured oil and wine on his wounds, and wrapped them up, which was a general help, but the wounded man urgently needed.

Moreover, the wounded man needed more help, so the Samaritan did not hesitate to delay his journey and his plans, and lifted the helpless man on his donkey and led him to the inn. And he left two pieces of silver for the shopkeeper, which was equivalent to two days' wages, and asked the shopkeeper to take care of him, and promised that when he returned, he would return the rest of the expenses of the man's healing to the shopkeeper. This is a clear indication of his creditworthiness.

The Samaritan did all he could for this man who looked down on him and who was also despised by his countrymen. This kind of character is really rare, and it is also the virtue that God expects in us. .

The person's name can be changed. I don't know if I can help you -v-

Reference: Bible.

Reference: Web page.

Hug Shabuling] Kiss and treat people with courtesy You must put yourself in a relatively humble state, and you should be friendly when you are feasting! Learning to be respectful is a prerequisite for politeness. Respect others and uphold your own dignity.

Allow yourself to care for others and understand others, consider the dignity of others and learn to empathize. When we went to school, our parents told us to respect the teacher, unite with our classmates, take care of public property, salute when we see the teacher, and ask the teacher hello before class. We must respect leaders, treat colleagues politely, groom our appearance, and standardize our behavior from a longitudinal point of view, etiquette is everywhere in our growth, life and work.