What impact will the family of origin have on our future lives?

The father represents the width of the family, the mother represents the temperature of the family, and the original family will affect us for a lifetime, and even affect the formation of character.

The family of origin also has a great impact on our future life, which will make us feel insecure in our hearts, and some people will become particularly introverted and inferior because of this.

First of all, it will have an impact on our personality, different families of origin will cause different personalities, and then in the future life, the habits of life will be similar to those of the original family.

This will have the effect of disagreeing with our three views. Because we grew up in our own family of origin, and then we go to other people's homes, we have to adapt to the original life of other people's families.

The impact of your family of origin on our future is huge, if your family of origin is happy, then you will be an optimistic and cheerful person, on the contrary, you will often become inferior and complaining.

It affects our living habits and our perceptions, for example, people from very poor families tend to live very frugally.

The original family will make our character a little paranoid, as for which aspect it is reflected, I can't say for sure, but there are some more paranoid personalities.

Has the influence of the family of origin changed?

1. Will the harm caused by the family of origin affect a person's life I believe that everyone knows that the family of origin is also very important, and the family environment is also very critical. Especially in the process of children's growth, having a good family environment will also make children more and more confident. Therefore, the harm caused by the original family to people will affect people's lives, and at the same time, it will make people less and less confident.

Therefore, you will find that even if such people grow up, their work or life will not be particularly smooth. Because they are extremely insecure and lack self-confidence, they cannot play their own value in their work.

Second, will this situation make everyone warm or cynical, the original family has a particularly great impact on people, and in this process, many people's personalities may also have changed very much. There are even people who feel that the world is very unfair, and they also feel very unhappy, so these people will become very cynical in the end. The reason why this situation occurs is also because their personalities have changed very much, and they also have a feeling of imbalance in their hearts.

Therefore, the family of origin is very important, and in this process, parents and friends must pay attention to the way family members get along.

3. SummaryIn this process, there may be some people who will become very warm. Because they know that the harm of the original family is very great, they also want to use their warmest side when treating other people. Because they know that this may make other people feel a little better in their hearts, and at the same time, it will also make other people feel sunny.

But through this incident, many parents have paid attention to the importance of the family environment. If you want your children to grow up healthily, parents must pay attention to the family environment, and at the same time create a good family atmosphere for their children.

First: the memories left by the family are indelible and we will always remember.

Everything we experience will leave an imprint in our minds and become part of our memory. This memory is indelible, and we will always remember it. Even if we sometimes forget it occasionally, we will remember it again if we are reminded in moderation.

Therefore, the influence of the family of origin will be remembered by us and form a lifelong memory.

Second: The habits we form under the influence of our family of origin will stay with us for the rest of our lives.

Among the influences brought to us by the original family, the most direct and intuitive is the influence of living habits Under the influence of the original family, we will form our own unique living habits, and this living habits will accompany us throughout our lives, no matter how we go to the first place, it will not change. From this point of view, the influence of our family of origin will accompany them throughout their lives. Thick band.

Third: When you grow up, you will form an independent concept and will no longer be influenced by the outside world.

When we were young, because we were young and had no independent thoughts, we would be directly influenced by our family of origin in all aspects such as words, deeds, and thinking. However, as we grow older, we will gradually form our own independent concepts, and at this time, we will no longer be affected by external factors, but will think independently and choose a suitable way of life according to our actual situation.

As a child who has been hurt in my family of origin, I know that this experience has had a big impact on my upbringing and mental health. Some of my peers may think that because we didn't receive enough love and support during childhood, we lose the ability to love others. However, I don't think this view is entirely correct.

First of all, we need to be clear about the concept: everyone has their own growth trajectory and development speed. Some people may be able to recover and build a healthy relationship quickly after experiencing the hurt of their family of origin.

And some people may take longer to experience trauma, which doesn't mean they will never be able to love others or be good at connecting with others.

Secondly, although the bad environment of our family of origin may have a negative impact on us, we can still overcome these difficulties through self-effort and seeking help. For example, by participating in psychological** or joining a support group, we can learn how to deal with past hurts and how to build healthy relationships in adulthood.

In closing, I want to emphasize that even though we have been hurt in the past, we still have the right to choose to love and be loved. We can choose to learn how to let go of the laughing pain of the past and create a loving and supportive future for ourselves. While the path may be tough, it's worth pursuing.

In short, as a child who has been hurt in my family of origin, I firmly believe that we will not lose the ability to love others because of this. Although we may need to put in more effort to ** the trauma inside, it doesn't mean that we will never be able to enjoy the joy of being close to others. We have the power to choose our future and the power to create a life of love and support.