How can we recognize people, employ people, and see people?

This needs years, needs to have a high level of emotional intelligence, these words are not simple, but it is difficult to do, for example, you can understand a person's appearance and not through simple things, be able to recognize facts and right and wrong, never act blindly, in fact, it is a truth to people and things, this really needs experience, if you have the heart, you can buy a few books to understand more, such as human nature, personality charm and the like, cumulative experience.

As long as you have the heart, he has no problem.

1. You can get along with him at close range.

Some people may not be easy to understand his essence if they are not usually in close contact, but if we can have the opportunity to get close to him for a little time, we will find many advantages and disadvantages in him, such as traveling together, staying together, and so on.

2. Ability to deal with complex situations.

How to recognize people and see people: First, people who are mercenary and easy to turn their faces are villains Second, people who borrow money and don't pay it back, and don't know how to be grateful are rotten people, third, people who live self-discipline and endure loneliness are people who have ideals, and fourth, people who appreciate you and are willing to help you are noble people in life.

This is a very deep science, and I personally recommend starting from the details to understand a person better, such as looking at what he is wearing, whether his fingernails are cut cleanly, his demeanor when speaking, his tone, expressions, etc.

Reach out more with people and get out and about.

[Q: How can I recognize people?]

You drink a pot of tea with him and it's clear.

You can talk to him and see what he thinks about a phenomenon in today's society. For example, when the old lady fell, someone helped her up, but the old lady falsely accused him of knocking her down, what do you think of this phenomenon? In this case, do you want to help or not?

As soon as he expounds his point of view, you will know what type of person he is, how big the pattern is, whether it is available or not, and in what way, you will know it.

Through communication, you get to know each other.

Why do companies have to interview when recruiting employees? You feel that the interview is asking questions that are nonsensical and irrelevant to your job. But through these questions, the interviewer thinks he will get to know you well.

And the experienced boss doesn't need to ask you questions, you walk from the door to his desk, and he already sees you clearly.

He only needs to look at your expressions, gestures, and movements to know whether your heart is healthy; Just look at your dress, look at your clothing, hairstyle, makeup coordination, you know that your heart is not harmonious.

People who are in harmony with their hearts, regardless of men and women, must be coordinated with their clothes and makeup.

——[Wanxing Great Monk "Answering Questions and Solving Doubts"]: How to recognize people

The abbot of Donghua Temple, the great monk Wanxing, is a wise man who uses his life to practice Buddhism and experience the origin of life.

At the age of 15, he believed in Buddhism, became a monk at the age of 18, attained the origin of life at the age of 29, rebuilt Donghua Temple at the age of 30, majored in Buddhism for 4 years, retreated for 7 years, built a monastery for 18 years, gave more than 10,000 lectures, wrote 10 million words, and published 13 books and Chinese ......

In 2000, he founded the Donghua family style: believe in religion first and love the country, learn Buddhism first and be a man first, and cultivate the Tao before starting the heart; In 2008, the national flag was raised once a month; In 2016, he founded China's first Buddhist patriotic museum; Since 2000, Donghua Temple has donated tens of millions of yuan to the society in the past 18 years, and has won the reputation of "Model Harmonious Temple and Church" in the province and city for many times.

After more than 30 years, he has summed up a path of liberation that can make human beings realize the origin of enlightenment - "Donghua Zen".

In line with the mission of Pudu sentient beings, the great monk Wanxing selflessly dedicates the practice of "Donghua Zen" to all sentient beings, and earnestly hopes that all sentient beings in the world will integrate the four major relationships of life through the study and practice of "Donghua Zen": my relationship with my family, my relationship with society, my relationship with the country, and my relationship with nature, so as to obtain a happy and complete life.

It is difficult to understand a person thoroughly, just like we sometimes don't know ourselves, how can we understand others thoroughly. But no matter how good the disguise is, there will be a day when the stuffing is exposed, as the so-called road knows the horsepower, and the relationship between people is not seen, but placed, in short, we are in line with a sentence: the heart of harm must not have, the heart of defense must not be dispensed with, I wish you happiness!

As for the question of talents, I think we need to turn our abstract ideals into concrete things, and no one knows what kind of industry they should be born to be talents, because they have never done it at all, so ideas can only be utopian. Maybe we do an industry that we don't like, but after we really do it, we find that we are very suitable for this industry and can give full play to our talents; In the same way, maybe we do go into the industry we love and find that it's not as we thought we were, and we can't do it at all.

Having said this, I actually want to say: the road is under my feet!

I've written so much and don't know if I can help you.

Virtue A person's virtue is very important, even if you are talented, intelligent, and nothing without virtue.

Start with the small things, and go deep into the details

It depends on how you look at the person, from his words and deeds, his speech, his conversation, his work, and many other aspects.

As soon as you meet, you want to know, it is impossible, if you have been in contact for a long time, it will inevitably be exposed, which is exactly what you should do. ”

Approaching it and watching it respect.

Whether he respects or not, after arranging him to work by his side for a period of time, he will learn that the so-called "close to the envoy and observe his respect" refers to arranging the object to be identified to work by his side, because it is easy to get acquainted with each other every day, and over time there will be no restraint, so that it is convenient to examine his respectful behavior. That is, to observe how he (the person) treats his or her relationship with others in the process of interacting with others.

The ancients said: "It is better to do oneself than to be respectful, and self-blame is better than to be thick." That is, we must be respectful in dealing with the world, and we must be strict with ourselves.

Of course, "if you are respectful and rude, you will be tired, if you are cautious and rude, if you are cautious, if you are rude, you will be chaotic, and if you are rude, you will be hanged." "If a man does not know the etiquette, although he is respectful, he will not be tired; Although he is cautious, he is not afraid of it; Although he has a brave temperament, he is inevitably reckless; Although he has a straightforward personality, he can't help but be eager. These are the requirements of a person's attitude, behavior, temperament, and character towards others.

Then, if a person can be modest and prudent in his life and behavior, people will be happy and convinced; Be honest and honest, and things will always succeed.

If you are cautious, you can strengthen your will, and if you are cautious, you can observe your virtue. "If you are cautious, you will be able to strengthen your ambitions; If you speak carefully, you will be able to make your virtue more noble. It shows that people should be cautious in their words and deeds, and not talk and move around.

If the people who work around you relax their caution about themselves because they get along better, this will be a problem. It is like a man who walks on a flat road and indulges himself without paying attention to his feet, so that if he walks too fast, he will fall; People who walk on difficult roads are wary and cautious, so they walk very slowly, but they cannot fall. This points out that the easier it is, the more cautious it is.

In the same way, the more cautious people who work around the leader.

As the saying goes, you respect people, and people respect you. In particular, the staff around the leaders should be self-disciplined, self-respecting, self-loving, self-respecting, self-motivated, self-improving, strict with themselves, establish a good image, and do not do anything that damages their identity, so that they can withstand the respect of the close envoys.

How to recognize people and see people: First, people who are mercenary and easy to turn their faces are villains Second, people who borrow money and don't pay it back, and don't know how to be grateful are rotten people, third, people who live self-discipline and endure loneliness are people who have ideals, and fourth, people who appreciate you and are willing to help you are noble people in life.