What should I do with this relationship? What should I do with this relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    All beginnings have a reason, and all ends have an excuse.

    He didn't break up because he was afraid he wouldn't be able to give you what you wanted.

    It's because he really doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

    The euphemism just doesn't want to hurt you too much.

    And you're really struggling with that.

    Besides, you've lowered your profile and begged him, and he's still going to be categorical.

    If my mind is not on you, it will be in vain to say more.

    If you can't keep it, no matter how much you force it, you will go.

    Isn't there a saying that there is a kind of love called letting go?

    Apparently he wanted to live his new life.

    Then so do you.

    Don't humble yourself for anyone's sake.

    This will only make others look down on you.

    That's what you should catch.

    Hope you can be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is also a possibility that he is not confident and has low self-esteem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you say this, it's your problem, you love him too much, so you don't give him space and make him hate and suppress. He mentioned that you always care about him. It means that he is annoying you.

    I don't think feelings can be grasped by one person, so you just let him go for a while and see how he reacts. The more you pester him, the more he thinks you don't care.

    After all, loving someone is not to have it completely, but to watch him happy, and it is enough to watch him be happy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give it up This kind of man is not worth your attention There is no grass in the world Why hang yourself on a dead tree If he really loves you He won't say that you care about him and annoy him Since he doesn't think he's a good person Why bother You are still young Take advantage of your youth

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think that's appropriate. It's really hard for a person to change his character. Let's let it go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You still have to have a long-term stable object for yourself in the future. Don't feel good with another person after a period of time, definitely everyone feels good after a period of time together, this king is often very unstable thoughts or uncertain practices, very sad and laborious, you still find a professional for you, understand you, and be with you for a long time, find a better one that is more suitable for yourself, you must have better abilities and find better ones, as long as you are good enough.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There may be a little love, but it's mostly just a balancing pros and cons for adults. Personally, I don't think you need to reflect on yourself for what she said, you just feel that there is nothing wrong with yourself, you are in a good state now, your relationship is inherently unequal, if you really love you, you won't repeat that you compare yourself with your ex-boyfriend, which is a very hurtful behavior in itself, so don't keep it, it's better to contact others, maybe the next one is where fate is.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After listening to your description, I suggest that this relationship should be forgotten. The woman has been weighing her own interests, as long as it is beneficial to him, he will tend to one side, and he has been comparing and comparing for so long, and he has determined in his heart that you are not the right person for him, so there is no need to keep it, and it is not happy to be together, so it is better to find your true love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone who has fallen out of love will think this way in the short term, after all, she has been with that ex-boyfriend for so long, and compared to you, she thinks that her ex-boyfriend is better for her, and the way of dealing with problems is more acceptable to a person. Personally, I feel that there is no great hope for the relationship between the two of you, and you can't take the initiative now, so you can only passively wait. Because she took the initiative to break up with you suddenly, she can't do it if you go now, and her parents in her hometown may also be more accepting of her ex-boyfriend.

    So I advise you to wait, if there is still fate, she will come to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Where there is contrast, there is harm.

    I think the other party's heart is still with the ex-boyfriend.

    Besides, you have children and her ex-boyfriend doesn't.

    The ex-boyfriend is still dealing with some things at home, and now she can't get in touch.

    It seems to me that maybe it's someone she's healing, and it's time to say goodbye.

    When she thinks that you are really good to her, maybe she will reaffirm you and come together with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your relationship seems to be very peaceful, but in fact, it is too ups and downs, there is no way, let it be, otherwise what should I do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think that since this is the case, it is good for everyone to break up, and learn to let go of the easy life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I won't coax you, in fact, if I coax you more, the girl will be happy.

    If there is a conflict, there will be no communication, it is just a cold war, and this way of dealing with it will only hurt each other's feelings.

    Love to calculate, in love, you can't always think about changing each other, your way of doing things may not be suitable for each other, people's ways of thinking are different, you must be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

    A bit self-centered (that is, machismo), always thinking that he is right, never reflecting on himself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let it go, you will not have a future, and humility will not bring happiness.

    Girlfriend's problem: 1 Dishonest, saying that he doesn't contact his ex-boyfriend, and he can still go to decorate the wedding room. 2. There is no position and sense of responsibility, knowing that you are divorced and have children and still living with you, and leave as soon as possible when there is a problem.

    Your problem: You don't communicate as soon as the problem arises, you don't pay attention to the improvement of your own ability, and you are hesitant to do things when there is a problem.

    In the current situation, you can only be a spare tire, and many of your girlfriend's words are comforting you, let it go, there is no future!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like it, you will be together, and if you don't like it, you will be separated.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can't put it down, you won't put it down, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hey, it seems that he is an infatuated person again. I'm just as infatuated as you, and it's always us who gets hurt in the end.

    I used to have a girlfriend, I met through online games, at first it was nothing, and then she fell in love with me, I was quite touched at that time, just like you, I have always been very good to her, and in the end she still fell in love with someone else, hehe, it's not that I didn't do well enough, but she was attentive, and finally went back to her ex-boyfriend.

    I just came out to look for a job at that time, while looking for a job, I also had to suffer the pain of falling out of love, I think it was really miserable at that time, but I still survived, I figured it out now, look down, man, you can afford it, you can put it down, time will help you slowly get out of the pain. But what you have to do now is to find some friends who are better with you to talk to, and say all the things you want to say in your heart, so that your heart will feel better, and you have to go out for a walk, don't let yourself stay at home, those who are easy to make yourself depressed, and your heart will always think about her.

    You can also keep yourself busy so you can divert your attention, at least not thinking about her at the time.

    But you have to remember that a man should focus on his career, a mistake does not mean anything, and it can give you experience and tell yourself, nothing, you will get through.

    Finally, I wish you a speedy way out of the pain. Have fun.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The girl has been with you for a year, and after a year of running-in and comparison with her ex-boyfriend, the girl feels that her heart is still in love with her ex-boyfriend.

    No matter how willing you change yourself, this relationship has come to an end, and there is no need to redeem it.

    Don't be entangled in this relationship, blindly consume your enthusiasm, and consume your youth, which will only end up miserable.

    It's not your own world, don't squeeze yourself and embarrass others.

    Don't grab your feelings if you don't have them, even if you grab them temporarily, you will lose them.

    Letting go is the best option.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although I don't know what emotional problems you encounter, I believe that you must have a positive heart, will solve them well, and you should be calm when you encounter any emotional problems, and then sort out the problems encountered by the rats, and solve them one by one, so that you can solve the problems well, and there will be no more unopened, and everything will be fine.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't wash it, you can get along well, after all, a fate needs two people to take care of it carefully, and if there is a problem, you must also find the reason from yourself and tolerate each other more, so that mutual love will warm up the relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I suggest it's better to break up, girlfriend is always hesitating between you and your ex-boyfriend, and it feels like you're a bit like a spare tire.

    If the girlfriend does not have the interference of the ex-boyfriend, things may not be so complicated, and the girls who have experienced it will compare with you, not just the bread, but also the requirements for boys at a certain age will be higher, there is a certain economic foundation, dealing with people, emotional investment in girls, etc., so you should know what kind of position you are in.

    In a word, it's good to get together and disperse.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can only look at the opening point.

    Take a step back and open the sky.

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