If you love you once, can you still have true love if you fail?

Fool, failed love** is true love? It was an unforgettable injury. When you really find the knowledge that loves you and you love, that's true love. Wishful thinking will definitely hurt you. True love, you don't believe until you meet it.

You have just fallen out of love now, of course, you will not have the confidence to fall in love, but as long as you come out of this shadow and slowly find the happy days and that happy feeling, you will believe in love.

I'm a man, but I'm almost the same as you, I gave everything but was ruthlessly dumped, almost five months have passed, it's still very uncomfortable, and now every time I contact her, I feel that she is so indifferent, and even disgusted, but a few months ago she was still spoiled by me, and they were still playing together, so good to me, but now... I can't accept such a big change, I'm dead to love, I don't want to have it anymore, everything is as it is!

Love will definitely be talked about again, but whether it will be loved with heart again is another matter. I don't. The wound will heal, but the scar will never heal.

Yes, time is the best healing medicine.

Don't be afraid, there are no leftover women in China, your true destiny will appear sooner or later, believe me, tomorrow will be better! ^

It's okay.. There is no grass at the end of the world. There must be better ones waiting for you later.

The feeling of falling out of love can only be understood by those who experience it.

I'm still confused about seeing her as the only one.

She made me forget about the pursuit of happiness.

How to chase? I swore in my heart that I wouldn't like other girls.

Are you still wandering now, and will you be able to fall in love in the future?

You're like someone I know, and all problems are ultimately a matter of time, and all troubles are actually self-inflicted troubles, and it's good to be happy every day.

Go with the flow, I already know what it's like, and I don't want anyone else to be like me.

Time is the best antidote to downplay everything.

Depressed, I can't find my girlfriend, he doesn't cherish you, and he is dizzy.

Because the so-called true love is nothing more than your wishful thinking, so the last side shout will fail.

When we meet someone we like, before we fully understand the other person's true person, I don't think it is necessary to define the other person as true love. To a certain extent, unless two people already know and understand each other enough, we have no way to truly evaluate each other, and I don't think there is any need to blindly characterize without knowing each other, which is a very naïve behavior.

1. The so-called true love is nothing but a person's wishful thinking.

This happens to young people in general, and we can look back at our past, when we were in adolescence, we often felt that we had met true love. But in fact, when we really understand the real situation of the other person, we will feel that we do not love each other so much. This situation is very common, and the main reason for this is that our so-called true love is nothing more than our own wishful thinking.

Second, this childish view of love is also doomed to failure.

Before we really understand each other's situation, I don't think there is any need to blindly think that we have found true love, such a view of love is very naïve, and it is no wonder that it will end in failure. To a certain extent, whether two people are suitable together not only needs to evaluate the attitude of two people towards the other half, but also needs to consider the objective situation of two people, so that the relationship will be more stable. <>

3. Some true love will also be defeated by reality.

When two people are just together, two people can indeed ignore some objective issues because of their feelings. But after two people spend more and more time together, we will find that the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and the lifestyle and practical problems between two people will also affect the relationship between two people. To a certain extent, firewood, rice, oil and salt will determine whether the relationship between two people is stable.

While we aspire to evaluate feelings with our psychic feelings, various factors in real life are equally important. <>

Because now this society is changing, maybe we just started to treat love as a spirit, and slowly you will find that the person you love has changed, and he has changed, we have all changed, and we have not experienced failed love, how do you know that you will meet a better one after Minyou.

Maybe in the eyes of others, my so-called true love is a joke, so my love will fail.

Because these true loves are just impulsive, they simply can't stand the test of life, so they will fail.

Each of us longs to meet a good love, the other person understands everything about you and gives you the love you want. You are incomparably compatible, like flowers meeting sunshine, everything is just right. More often than not, we're all asking:

Do such soulmates really exist? Because we are always unhappy in love, we fall in love with someone passionately, give everything, and finally separate miserably. So what is the reason for this?

1.There is no common goal.

When two people are together, they actually choose to become a community of interests. Someone once compared marriage to a corporate partnership. Therefore, whether the two parties have common goals is very important for the sustainability of this relationship.

If your ideal age for marriage is around 26 years old, his ideal age for marriage is 30 years old or even not married; Your idea is to get married and buy a house, but he wants to rent a house after marriage; If you think you have enough money to spend, you should enjoy your life more. He thinks the more money, the better. He spends most of his time and energy working to earn money......Then there may be a lot of contradictions between you around these issues.

2.The external environment is very different.

The development of a person's personality is closely related to the family environment. The influence of family origin on a person is profound, and once this habit is formed, it is difficult to change. It is said that love is a matter of two people, but once it comes to the end, it is a matter of two families talking about marriage.

In Chinese-style marriage, the family plays a very decisive role. Maybe love can be decided by two people, but marriage must be the union of two families. People who love each other often have to face the reality when they talk about marriage, and finally regret breaking up.

This seemingly helpless result was actually doomed from the beginning. Therefore, in the process of communication, we must try to understand what the other party's family is like. After all, the family of origin still plays an important role in shaping a person's upbringing environment and character.

3.Rely on your partner for happiness.

This condition is common among people who have low self-esteem or who don't have many good things in life. One of the core reasons for relationship failure is that you think your partner will solve all your life problems. A relationship can certainly bring this happiness, but it can't be all of your happiness.

The problem with this is that it can put too much pressure on your partner. They shouldn't be responsible for making you happy. This mindset is the cause of interdependence.

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It's because there's no novelty between the two of you, and true love is, to put it bluntly, a feeling of excitement caused by dopamine. The two are forced by life, and no matter how good their true love is, it will fail. True love is just a feeling, and it is not a substitute for life.

1. Not giving each other enough time in daily life, and having a strong desire to possess; 2. Lack of trust between each other, mutual suspicion, lack of common interests and hobbies; 3. The two families do not get along very well, and the concepts are inconsistent.

Self-esteem is relatively strong, unwilling to bow down, two people will always quarrel because of contradictions, there will be a cold war, and they will also believe each other's sweet words, so it will lead to the failure of believing in true love.

There is no common goal, you are not rational enough, the external environment is very different, you are too dependent on your partner, you do not do a good job in your material foundation, and so on.

I don't think it's enough to be together, since we love sincerely, but there is no way to be together, then we have to find out why we can't be together. I remember that I had a friend before, her parents were very opposed to his husband, but he had to marry his husband alive or dead, and his parents had already given birth to two sons for his husband when they did not agree, and later the friend's parents saw that their son-in-law had been very good to their daughter for several years, so they accepted this son-in-law from their hearts. There are many reasons for parents to disagree, as long as they find the right reason and prescribe the right medicine, parents will generally agree.

I also saw a girl who knew that a man had a wife and children, but she still had to rush up to be a junior and give birth to a son for him, and of course the ending was not good. It's not that loving someone means you have to be together. If you really love someone, you can wish her all the best.

The idea that to love someone, you must be together is absolutely wrong. There are often such plots on TV, and even the main story is written around this theme, the protagonist loves someone, and he wants to get it at all costs, and he does anything that hurts nature and reason, just to get the so-called loved person. The result is always a failure and scarred.

It's not so simple for two people to be together, they need a lot of things, not just have sincerity, two people can be together.

If two people have different living habits, then they will break up if they love each other again, and countless quarrels will wear out each other's love. If two people have different views, they can't be together, we can't accommodate each other, we can only break up. If two people have different interests and hobbies, they can't be together, and if you like something I can't stand, the end result is still not together.

Those who can really be together must truly love each other, but those who truly love each other may not be able to be together. Or the loss of feelings can not be forced, maybe the place is really not interested in you, you are really not the type he likes, why do you have to hang yourself on a tree, there are good young people in this world.

I think the main reason is because the other party's parents don't agree. That's why it will lead to unhappy breakups between yourself and the other party. And thinking about pretending to be early has also become a regret in my heart forever.

I think the reason is that love is too important to Changshan and thinks too well of each other, so it is normal for people to lose in the end, and people should not have high expectations from the beginning.

True love will fail because the love of two people is unequal, which will make the balance of love collapse, and it is also because there is no mutual understanding.

It is true that there can be a lot of love in life, but true love can only be given once. I'll never forget that true love that belongs only to us.

His smiling face and voice have always been with me, I can't forget all this, I haven't looked for him again, I'm afraid of reality. Maybe I'm cowardly. In fact, I should be very happy in the eyes of others, but I have things that I can't let go.

My friends thought I was weird, but they didn't know how helpless I was! Maybe he has a girlfriend of his kind now, maybe he'll be a father soon, I really don't dare to think about it, maybe. I have no other luxuries, I just hope that there will be my shadow in the depths of his little heart.

This love of mine is something that I can't forget and irreplaceable in my life, but I don't want to look for it anymore, isn't it better to keep it in my heart? As long as he's happy! What if you find him?

If he is about to become a husband, then he will only feel more sad, and when he is lonely, think about whether he is happy, and when he is in a bad mood, think about whether he is happy, and that is enough. At least he is perfect in his memory, and he is happy when he recalls!

I have never regretted this love, although it can only be used as a memory, but I feel that I am the happiest, because women and men who have had [true love] are the happiest

True love is only once in this life! In a person's life, he will continue to meet the person he loves, but there must be one who is hidden in the bottom of his heart, so deep that he does not even know his existence... If you meet the love of your life, then cherish it, if you lose him, you will miss the happiness of your life!