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Give people roses and have a lingering fragrance! Don't be too snobbish! Look at the sky high and the clouds are light, the birds are singing and the flowers are fragrant, blooming freely, and there is no reward. That's what it means to help others.
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Sometimes being for oneself and being one are one and the same, and at this time it is no longer possible to say whether it is self-interest or altruism, so sometimes you help others and help yourself, and this really depends on your own wishes. But I think it's a normal thing.
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Human nature is selfish, but selfishness is also divided into altruism and complete selfishness. Just like Lei Feng helped others, and at the same time he was mentally refreshed, this is good selfishness. In fact, people like this kind of "selfishness" the most, and also hope that others will be altruistic selfish, some people need material help, some people like to get a sense of accomplishment by giving material help to others, each takes what he needs, if this selfishness can bring more peace in the world, then it is the best.
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Helping others can really make you feel happy! When you help others, you feel like you have a seed of kindness in your heart, and your mood is happy, and this pleasure will be reflected in your behavior and spirit. Therefore, you should not help others with self-interested motives.
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No, because I think you will be very happy to be a person who is willing to hold an umbrella for others. When socializing with friends, you must know how to "play an umbrella" for your friends. When you interact with friends, you need sincerity, and you need each other's tolerance and help.
When one's friend is in trouble, choosing to escape and choose to ignore it is never a gentleman's doing. A true friend is one who can stand up and help them when they are in trouble and need help. Only in this way can we shelter them from some of the wind and rain of life and bring them the warmth of their hearts.
This kind of warmth is the power of friendship.
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Self-interest, because I help others, others are happy, and I am happy, and I find a way to make myself happy, isn't this self-interest, so I think this is normal.
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Lao Tzu said, "Good is like water." Water is good for all things without fighting, and it is evil for everyone, so it is more than the Tao. "It is said that the good are like water.
Water is good at nourishing all things without competing with all things, and stays in the place that everyone hates, so it is closest to the Tao. So I don't think it's self-interested.
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This is a question of objective and subjective, in fact, subjectively speaking, helping others is for psychological satisfaction, but it does not exclude that some people have other motives. But if we are helped by others, we should be grateful to others. There's no point in delving into other people's motives, like the plot in the movie "Please, Praise Me".
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I don't think so, because I think people in life are different, and they just do something, and they can't wait to give it back, hoping to do it once and for all. And unwilling to pay patience, unwilling to pay long-term persistence. Helping others should be an act of kindness.
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"White lies" are not deception or ill-intentioned, when we tell some small lies modestly for the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect and tolerance, and has magical powers, without any impurity Therefore, "white lies" are for the purpose of comforting others, for the purpose of encouraging others, for the purpose of helping others Correct opinions, wrong practices, and dishonesty Therefore, choose A
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