What is the reason for the change in the relationship between Xia Bing and Yuan Bao in the TV series

I remember a few years ago, I watched a TV series called "The True Story of Hot Mom".

The male protagonist in the play, Yuan Bao, initially had a relationship with his wife Xia Bing.

But with the birth of the child, the contradiction intensified.

Xia Bing asked Yuan Bao why he said he was married, so Yuan Bao said that he had been with her and felt insecure.

Xia Bing said that you are watching Bao Shuai come back, you have a sense of crisis, and there was silence, and when Xia Bing was sent home to the bottom of the building, Xia Bing said that I would go to your house to see your mother this weekendThis ingots hurriedly said: My mother definitely wants to see you and likes you very much.

So Xia Bing wore a particularly trendy dress when he saw Xia's mother, Yuanbao was worried that his mother would not like it when he saw it, so Xia Bing changed it slightly, but he didn't expect to meet Xia's mother due to various misunderstandings, and he also hit Xia's mother, and finally broke up unhappily. At this time, Xia Bing was pregnant, so she had to get married quickly, but Xia Bing didn't want to get married so early, although he didn't have any love for Bao Shuai now, just a friend, his boss Li Muzi.

Under the coercion and temptation of several times, I wanted to beat the childIn the end, she was reluctant to put this little life, this child came too timely, prompting her to get married, and under the strong pursuit of Yuanbao, she finally got married.

The two of them quarrel over all kinds of things, and Xia Bing faces all kinds of troubles brought by children, said aggrievedly: "I am pregnant, you all said that you would hold on for nine months, and it would be fine after giving birth, but now that you have given birth, you all said that you will hold on for another month and be out of confinement."

It's good, when I get out of confinement, you all say, hold on for another three years, the child will go to kindergarten, and then insist until he goes to school, he graduates, gets married and has children, is that a period of persistence? That's simply a lifetime of persistence. ”

Xia Bing's life was completely disrupted, and the only time she felt happy was when Yuanbao deceived her and coaxed her with all kinds of lies, but when the lies were exposed, life returned to endless quarrels. Yuan Bao also lied to Xia Bing, but ignored it.

When a fierce quarrel was over, Xia Bing said to his friend in despair, "What else?" I'm going to go back eventually, isn't it? At the beginning, you voluntarily let the two nails of marriage and children nail yourself in the foot.

There, there's nowhere to go. Unless you're really willing to cut off those feet and crawl out bloody ......”

When a fierce quarrel was over, Xia Bing said to his friend in despair, "What else?" I'm going to go back eventually, isn't it?

At the beginning, you voluntarily let the two nails of marriage and children, and you nailed your feet there, and you couldn't go anywhere. Unless you're really willing to cut off those feet and crawl out bloody ......”

Xia Bing's words sound harsh, but they are also true. If you find the wrong marriage partner, you can get a divorce, but the child you gave birth to can never be returned. Marriage and children often mean more responsibility and dedication for women, and it is not a simple sentence of "if you can't get over it, you can leave" can be simply broken.

I think that the reason why Xia Bing and Yuanbao changed their relationship later was because of constant contradictions and quarrels.

Because Yuanbao's mother is sick, Xia Bing always wants to do his own business.

I think it's because a little life is about to come into the world.

Personally, I think it's because the two of them always quarrel that Xia Bing feels that ingots are not mature enough.

No. Xia Bing said goodbye to Yuanbao's mother and planned to leave, the company suddenly called** to reveal that the projector was malfunctioning, Yuanbao quickly revealed that his company had a projector, and after speaking, he took Yuanbao back to the company to get the projector.

When the two arrived at the company, the projector was put in a room, because there was no lock, the ingots smashed the broken glass door and took out the projector, Xia Bing was very moved in his eyes, and the two returned to the magazine.

One is responsible for maintaining the on-site order, the other grabs the projector line to prevent the machine from being in poor contact, and while Li Muzi came to the stage to give a speech, Xia Bing came to Yuanbao's side, and the two kissed at the end of their intimate conversation. The little couple got back together.

In episode 16, Yuanbao's mother asked Xia Bing to go to her mother's meeting, and Xia Bing went and then took them to the mall.

Because "good" can be taken back, and love and life can not be supported by romance alone, you also need to face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you also need to experience the ups and downs of career and life together, and you also need to experience the embarrassment when you have no money and mutual support when you are bumpy, so good is only a very small part, which can only support love and cannot carry the unsatisfactory marriage. Like Yuan Bao and Xia Bing, when there is more friction in life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becomes tense, and Yuan Bao Bao changes an attitude that makes Xia Bing very at a loss. <>

Love requires two people to actually giveWhat is "good" in love? It is a very superficial effort, such as controlling emotions, sweet words, and the help of some small details. But this kind of effort can be recovered, and after marriage, when the two people are constantly rubbing and start to think about earning money, housework and other more practical things, there is often a feeling of powerlessness.

At this time, the other party retracted this goodness, what should you do? So this kind of good is very nihilistic and non-existent, it can't sustain you through the next few decades, and it can't help you solve all your problems. Therefore, only the actual effort is the most worthwhile, so that you can feel secure.

After twists and turns, you can cherish your feelingsSimple goodness can't make the marriage last, only experiencing real setbacks can make the two cherish their relationship more, so it's useless to just try to be good, just like the icing on the cake is never as important as sending charcoal in the snow. If you only see the good in the other person, but ignore the things to consider in real life, it will just be a mirage in the end. For example, in "The True Story of Hot Mom", after experiencing the family burden caused by the disappearance of her mother-in-law and giving birth to a child, Xia Bing found that Yuanbao's previous good was not worth mentioning, so the two finally chose to separate.

There are many kinds of good in love, and the good in marriage is mixed with a lot of money, energy, and family trivial concessions. Therefore, when you get married, you have to distinguish which one you need and which one is more valuable. Marriage is the union of two families, is the combination of two people with very different personalities, just relying on good can not support the hardships and twists and turns in the future, not to mention that this kind of good can be taken back, so marrying must not only want him to be good to you, but also to see whether the person is willing to pay, concession or sacrifice, what he can give you.

Because one day he treats you badly, then you will really have nothing, so a woman must choose a spouse carefully, and you must not just want him to be good to you, then it will be really stupid.

Because after we marry each other, we are faced with whether the three views of the two people are the same, and then the family environment is affected, if the family background and living habits of the two people are different. There will be a lot of contradictions.

Because there are many factors to consider when getting married, such as the situation of the other party's personality and family, etc.

Because if it's only good to you, this man must be unambitious, and it's not good.

I think so, no matter how good love is, it can't be eaten, in the epidemic, there must not only be feelings, but also a certain material foundation, so that love will be more satisfying.

Yes. Even if there is love between two people, life is realistic, with a lot of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Yes, love certainly can't be eaten. In the end, all feelings are firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there will definitely be contradictions because of some problems.

Personally, I think Yuan Bao liked Xia Bing from the beginning, after all, Xia Bing is a person with a good personality.

said in the TV series that he has liked Xia Bing since he was a child.

I think Yuan Bao liked Xia Bing from the beginning.

"The True Story of Hot Mom" is a contemporary urban drama directed by Shen Yan and starring Sun Li, Zhang Yi, etc., which mainly tells the story of Xia Bing who entered the marriage hall with her boyfriend due to pregnancy and became friends with her boss Li Muzi as an expectant mother, and gradually grew into a capable and trendy career woman.

At the beginning, Bao Shuai returned from studying in the UK and specially held a banquet, specially invited Fa Xiao Yuanbao, who grew up with him, and his ex-girlfriend Xia Bing, butIt was Bao Shuai who didn't know that Xia Bing was already with YuanbaoAt the banquet, Bao Shuai was very generous, and felt that he had not accompanied Xia Bing well in the past few years abroad, so he gave Xia Bing a Bulgari watch, and asked Xia Bing for the T-shirt for her boyfriend in the circle of friendsWhen I learned that Yuan Bao and Xia Bing were together, everyone didn't believe it, so Yuan Bao said very solemnly that Xia Bing was my girlfriend and would be married at the end of next month.

On the way back, Xia Bing asked Yuan Bao why he said he was married, so Yuan Bao said that he had been with her and felt insecureXia Bing said that you are watching Bao Shuai come back, you have a sense of crisis, and there was silence for a while, and when Xia Bing was sent home to the bottom of the building, Xia Bing said that if you go to your house to see your mother this weekend, this ingots hurriedly said: My mother must want to see you very much, and I like you very much.

There is a detail in the TV series that is very impressive, the uneducated nanny of the Yuan Bao family told Yuan Bao: "I am a nanny, although I do everything in your house, but when I get home, my husband will not let me do one thing, what does a woman want?" It's that no matter what I've experienced outside, When you go home to your man, you can have a man to rely on and feel sorry for you, and the suffering you suffer outside is not in your heart, and the suffering at home is the real suffering.

At this time, Xia Bing was pregnant, so she had to get married quickly, but Xia Bing didn't want to get married so early, although he didn't have any love for Bao Shuai now, just a friend, under the coercion and temptation of his boss Li Muzi, he wanted to kill the child several times, and in the end he was reluctant to give up this little lifeThe child came at such a good time that she had to get married, and under the strong pursuit of Yuanbao, she finally got married.

I don't think so. She also got married if she had feelings for ingots.

Part of it is because of the anger, and part of it is because of how much affection for ingots.

Personally, I don't think so, I must still have feelings to get married, who would gamble with my whole life.

I don't think so, you can't get married without love.