Urgent! Should I forgive her!! 100 points .

Suggestions: 1. Listening to your description, I feel that your personality is similar to mine, and your requirements or views on women or girlfriends are similar, the difference is that I am my girlfriend in college, and your girlfriend's situation is similar, although the breakup is very unhappy, but now I think about it, it is still more correct, listen to me:

2. In terms of personality, I feel that you belong to a very serious and emotional person who is very serious about feelings and friends, and does not expect more correct returns, but only hopes to find a girlfriend who you love and loves yourself, but your girlfriend is obviously not in line with your character, if you are reluctant you will continue to be sad, there is also a saying called "the country is easy to change and the nature is difficult to change", people's personality and character are difficult to change;

3. What you want to be happy with your girlfriend is, what you want is feeling, what you want is a tacit understanding, if she is like this again and again, then where is your happiness? Where do your feelings come from? Your tacit understanding is even more impossible to talk about;

4. In the long run, if she becomes your wife in the future, can you tolerate a wife who can play better than you? That man doesn't want his wife to be a "good wife and mother" with "three virtues and four virtues", so it is impossible for me to take "her" as my wife-to-be. Since it is impossible to be a wife, and you are not happy to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, then what kind of plane do you continue to do, and you will divide it;

5. Be open-minded, tolerant, and a man to be a man!! Why is the eldest husband without a wife??? If she's good, forget it, what are you clinging to now? Change and let go, let go, find someone who agrees with your own love is the last word...

First of all, you are now in the third year of high school, and your studies are important, so don't let emotional things affect your studies;

Third, the most important thing is that you will soon graduate from the college entrance examination, there are several possibilities, you have all been admitted, and the school is very close or the same school, then you still have hope to go on, if one person is not admitted, then there is basically no hope, because you will slowly have no common language, if you are not admitted, then you have to consider the repetition or employment later, it depends on your fate, in short, I mean that you first solve the study college entrance examination;

Fourth, finally talk about your relationship, judging from what you said above, your girlfriend has a very cheerful personality, which can be regarded as a fake guy, such a girl don't look at his hot fight with boys, in fact, she really cares about you, but her performance makes you uncomfortable, in addition, you should be open-minded as a boy, your girlfriend needs your open-minded girl, the more confident you are, the more she can't do without you.

Of course, she is close to other guys, and you should let others know about your relationship with her at the right time, remind them, and of course you must not hurt your girlfriend's friendship with others.

Learning matters, I wish you happiness!

It was he who was wrong. She was wrong. Such a person is not worthy of your love for her.

He doesn't care about your feelings at all. I can feel that. It hurts.

It hurts. Heart-rending pain. You can make yourself desperate completely.

You can make yourself full of hatred for him. There will be a lot of impulse!

It can only be said that men can't accept their girlfriends like this, you are not wrong, it is her who is wrong. Makes you sad again and again. What do you recognize, brother?

I just want to pull her out to protect her when she is in danger, and people like you don't have to be sad about this kind of woman. It's not worth it (don't care).She betrayed you again and again.

The most unbearable thing for a man is for his girlfriend to fight with other men. Hippie smiley. What is that?

I don't think of you at all. I just thought it was fun. feels that she is very popular, just by recognizing her brother, she can see that she is not serious.

If you recognize any brother, can't you be too peaceful? (Say that to her, I hope you don't care).Don't be with her anymore, after all, it's always you who gets hurt, and she can't change it, and if she says it can be changed for you, it's impossible.

Would you believe it? Can she change it after all this time? Find someone you really love (someone who really loves you).

You only have one life, and if you miss it, you are gone.

When you go through this period of time, you will find that everything you are doing now is so boring, so naïve, but this is a period that everyone will experience, disobedient, imagining love as very sacred, very great, but in the end it will still fall leaves, each going his own way, just want to tell you, don't regret your decision, any decision, even if you find out that it is a stupid choice, but everyone will have their own goals and expectations, to others and to themselves ---

I hope you study hard, true love can stand the test, but the love that is often tested has become a burden;

I don't know if it will be according to her personality in the future, if your girlfriend can change it, forgive her; If you think she can't change it, then you have to ask yourself: Can you endure it for a long time, or even a lifetime?

The graduating class, according to rational advice, in the last half year, study hard, get into a good school, and after going to college, there are a lot of good girls in it.

Sensual advice: Do you think you really love her? Does she love you? Of course, at your age, I said that love was a little earlier, I should say that I liked it, and I also came from your age, and I felt it deeply.

Maybe she likes you, and she wants to get your attention when she gets close to other boys, have you had an in-depth conversation with her? Sit down and have a good talk, but don't be too jealous because she's close to her male classmates, know that everyone has their own space, friends.

Because, if you really like her, it is impossible to forget everything for three days. Give yourself a chance, give her a chance, she said make your idea clear, if it's still like this, let's end it, after all, don't affect your learning. Going to university was an important turning point!! ~

It must be her fault for saying that, and your girlfriend really doesn't care about your feelings, and your girlfriend says she wants to change, then you should give her a chance! Don't regret it later! If she does change, you should forgive her! If you don't change, break up!

You're doing it right. What she did before was simply too much, and it was difficult to accept it for anyone. You say she doesn't have any same-sex friends around her, and that's the biggest drawback!

Do you think, even if you forgive her, she might break off all the other boys for you? "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change".

In addition, you are in your third year of high school, and putting down your baggage and going to university is your top priority.

You said it yourself, she has a cheerful personality, you must admit it, I guess your girlfriend will be a little boyish, and she is a little bit beautiful, she recruits boys to like you should be happy, so that many boys admire girls by your side, you ......

She's probably that kind of personality, and she doesn't know too much from the boys, because I am, in fact, in my heart I think of them as buddies. She's hanging out with friends, or whatever, but she's having a good time, she's happy, aren't you happy! Right?

Also, if you like someone, you have to like everything about her, including everything you are not used to, you should try to talk to her, because she doesn't know what you think and do, she can't understand you if you don't say it, if she really likes you, she will change for you. Of course, there are kinds of things that don't change, but at least she's comfortable.

If you are willing to include and adapt, then try again, learn to empathize, learn to be considerate, and the process of feelings is actually quite painful. Take your time. Give yourself confidence, I'll cheer you on!

However, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, every relationship must have a ...... to pay

It seems that she cares about it...It's better to study hard in high school. To be honest, even if they are reconciled now, they still score points, and they can't live a lifetime. It's not that it's okay to get a grade, if you come down because of this result, you will regret it.

Curcuma is tender. Besides, she is not ugly, and she is not afraid of finding a woman. Study hard.

Let's divide it! If you want to find a wife who loves you very much in the future, she is not very annoying, and she likes it a little bit. Then you will be happy, and you will not be hurt.

Don't be angry if you say something unpleasant, this kind of woman can't be forgiven, it can be solved with one word Lang, even if you forgive him, he will definitely be very close to those men in the next 100 Don't you want to think that he is so pure and kind? Maybe in your heart, when you get to the station, a group of boys come to pick him up, and they are eating and playing Do women want a wife, it's best not to look for someone with this kind of "diplomatic" ability You are only 18 years old, study hard Don't delay yourself By the way, be realistic, don't believe in the "love will have miracles" in TV

Divide it, you don't know when she was eaten. Not dividing it will hurt you.

If it's so painful to be together, why bother to be together!

Her personality is not acceptable and suitable for you, it will be difficult at first, it will pass, it will pass, it will pass, but it is just a passerby, let's leave! I've been a person who has come over and said that you will find new girls you like. Or maybe it's more suitable for your girl.

I feel that it is forgivable, as long as I make a mistake, correct it, and start over, Li Zhou gives others a chanceForgiving others is a kind of open-mindedness, forgiving yourself is a kind of relief, learning to forgive you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, and mature.

Sometimes, some of the words and practices of friends may hurt you, and the misunderstandings of family members and colleagues make you feel distressed, and there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change your way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or resentment buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, low self-esteem, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate you still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.