I have been working hard and believing that I will eventually meet all the good things

People are always mixed with joy and sorrow, always ups and downs, always unable to achieve satisfactory results, although there are many happy things, but why are we always worried about those things that have not happened, worried about what happened in case we encounter unsatisfactory things?

According to the findings of psychologists, people are always easy to forget happy affairs, but linger on sad and painful experiences. It turns out that our minds enjoy it when we are happy, and we don't activate the special mechanism of dispersing letters in our brains to deal with difficult things, so it is easy to forget. On the contrary, when we are in deep pain, we need to think of solutions, so we have deep memories, which is why we are so afraid of difficulties.

While it is not easy to forget the pain, it is equally difficult to remember the good.

It's no wonder that when someone asks me what is the most successful case I have ever done in my career, I can't think of any of them, because if it is successfully completed, it is a success when there is no crisis, and after a successful achievement, it is time to meet the next challenge. In my PR career, I deal with a lot of client projects every month, sometimes I just hit several times a day, I have to take care of each project in a limited time to make no mistakes, and after completion, I have to devote my energy to the next project, and I don't have time to be happy about those cases that have been successfully completed, so I don't remember much, but if you ask me what the cases that have failed, I can say several. Because of the heavy losses, whether it is monetary or spiritual, I have to deeply reflect on and improve, so I dare not forget.

It feels like a very delicate thing, and we are like a spring breeze in happiness, so we feel that the happy time is fleeting, and the sad and painful time is like a year. Just because happiness is so rare and so easy to forget, we must learn how to remember the good and forget the pain. And believing in the good is what I believe is the secret to hope in the midst of suffering.

I believe that beauty is my optimistic belief, no matter how unbearable or painful the events in my life are, I believe that this is just an accident, only temporary, sadness and sadness will pass, I sincerely hope that good things will happen again. When I believe so much, good things will always come again.

Because when I believe in goodness, my heart is open, ready to welcome good things to come, so when good things pass by, I give the opportunity to let it in. If I close this window, I will lose the opportunity, because I will turn a blind eye to it, I will think that I am not so lucky, so I will neglect to seize the opportunity.

There are setbacks and pains in life, but if we still have a window in our hearts, a window to see the sun, we will be full of hope that that light will lead us out of the dark secret room.

Believe in beauty, and eventually meet beauty.

Along the way in life, we have harvested, we have fallen, we have seen the model scenery, there are also wasteland, happy with flowers and applause, but also lost in white eyes and ridicule, but no matter what, we have been walking forward after all, please believe that your persistence will be beautiful in the end. Shape blue.

These words are for you who are tired, but still persevering.

01.Deal with confusion and pressure.

The road of life will never be a smooth road, but more bumpy. In the face of difficulties and obstacles, some people give up moving forward, while some people forge ahead, open roads in the mountains, build bridges in rivers, and even if it is dark, they will eventually usher in the dawn and smooth the bumpy road.

02.Live a life of self-discipline and let go of everything before bed.

The body is the capital of the revolution. Say goodbye to the irregular life of day and night, maintain good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, work and rest regularly, wake up in the morning, open the curtains, welcome the first ray of sunshine, and make yourself full of vitality for the day.

03.No matter how busy you are, make time to exercise.

Do you want to have a healthy life, a strong body, a positive attitude, go to exercise, keep exercising, and think that it is difficult at the beginning, the process is very hard, but after sweat, it is more heroic from the inside out.

04.Be your own sun.

There is no need to envy others, because envy is useless. Don't rely on others because they don't owe you. Just insist on being your own sun, and you can also get warmth and growth power.

Love life, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you will always have confidence in the future, work hard to persevere, and the future will not disappoint you!

Persistence may be right, it may be good, but if we insist in the wrong direction, then everything becomes meaningless.

I have a friend who can be said to have no talent in **, but she is particularly persistent, in the eyes of others, maybe he can keep persevering, then he will become very good at singing. But he never realized his flaws, and no matter how persistent a person with a complete pentatonic tone was, he could compare to those who were born to sing. It can be said that he has always been lost on this road, because he always feels that perseverance can meet a better self.

Sometimes, we insist that we can get good results, but other times, we don't.

Another friend of mine, his parents are learning to sing, he is not persistent enough, even the ** class he attends goes to sit there, although he does not study, but he also participated in "The Voice of China", after all, he was killed all the way.

If we have been sticking to the wrong path, then of course we will not meet a better self, and we will not succeed, we should never think that we can meet a better self if we persist in the wrong way. And we should think about whether the path I insist on is what I should really insist on is what I am worth sticking to.

There is only one criterion for what you want: to live at your own pace. So I think you're right in that thinking.

(1) Success is not the only criterion for testing life.

For example, now the pace of this society has become very fast, everyone is pushing forward, and it is necessary to make a lot of money to struggle and succeed. Does this have to be true? It's not a one-size-fits-all option.

There is an issue of "Wonderful Sayings", Guo Degang was a guest, mentioning that one of his junior brothers, that is, his teacher's son, is particularly unmotivated. Deyun Club is the only one who didn't rebel because he was too lazy to rebel.

My husband is the same, he works very seriously and works overtime, but when he comes home, he watches ball games, listens to **, and plays games. For the convenience of playing the game, the controller was bought. For the convenience of watching movies, a projector was bought.

He never thought about how successful his career was, and it was enough to be able to earn money to support his family. When he graduated from his bachelor's degree, he could actually go abroad, but he gave up, "What's so good about foreign countries, in order to get a scholarship, you have to study for a doctorate, so I don't want to take the doctoral exam." "I think it's good for him to have this attitude towards life.

(2) We must be wary of the life of the model house.

Before, we had a real estate project, and when we went to the show room, it felt very beautiful. Later, I heard the boss say privately that in order to present a better effect, he invited a well-known Italian designer to design it, and the bed was deliberately shortened for the effect. If we buy a house because the model room is beautiful, it is not like this at all when we renovate it ourselves.

In the same way, we have met all kinds of success stories, all kinds of awesome lifestyles, which may be our show room, not necessarily for us. So, we are all in our own way to make our lives more comfortable.