How to please others 200 points 200

Although pleasing others will be considered as flattering and sycophant in a certain sense. But the necessary sleek skills are still very much needed at work. Maybe you don't think it's necessary to please someone, but then things come with it, like you say you can't learn something or they don't take the initiative to teach you.

In my personal opinion, you might as well change it a little bit, show more affinity at work, communicate more with your work partners, and don't stop talking, which will really make them think that you are boring and boring. This doesn't feel like losing oneself, it's a deterministic work technique. Being a sleek person is sometimes a smart way to do it!

If you're a hard-working person, I advise you to have your own business and start them with your own hands, and from what you've described, you're not a slick person, because if you are, you won't have such troubles, and if you're trying to build a better relationship with your boss on the basis of your work, I'll give you a few ideas that you can refer to.

1 Lunch time is a good time to communicate with the leader, because during this time, everyone is more receptive to others participating in their own activities, after all, everyone wants to be lively when they eat

2 Don't deliberately go to the leader's house, pretend to come and see the leader, and bring something by the way, so that when the leader sees you, even if he accepts your things, it will not change his bad impression of you.

3 When you make a little achievement in your work, seize the opportunity This is the time to fully demonstrate your ability Find a reasonable excuse to propose a dinner party (preferably alone with the leader) In this way, you can have a better conversation between you Don't easily reveal your situation in the conversation The first few times you have to focus on work Then from time to time turn the topic to your private life But just say a word or two, after all, no one wants to listen to your nagging Let your leader no longer be your leader but a friend of yours during dinner This can basically be done, but it must be noted that this is just a suggestion, your own business, but also do your own thing, after all, the road is walked by people, what you go is all up to you, I hope you can solve such a problem.

If we just want to present ourselves in front of others and make them interested in us, we will never have many true and sincere friends. Friends, true friends, are not socialized in this way. A person who is not interested in others has the most difficulties in his life and has the most harm to others.

If we want to make friends, we need to greet them with joy and enthusiasm. When someone else hits you, you can also use the same psychology. Speak in a voice that shows how happy you are that he hit you.

If you want others to like you, or to cultivate true friendships, or to help others as well as yourself, keep this principle in mind: "Show genuine concern for others."

Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you." You make me happy. I'm glad to meet you. So you have to smile and be friendly to the people around you! ~

Get rid of the habit of criticizing him. Appreciate and praise others without contempt. Stop talking about what I want. Try to see things from someone else's point of view, and it will change your life.

It's gold that always shines, and deliberately trying to please others will not only not bring good feelings to others, but will even look down on you even more because of this.

Be yourself, treat others sincerely and do your part well enough, as long as you pay, you will definitely be rewarded, read more books like "Thick Black Studies" and so on.

Don't try to please your boss or co-workers.

Friend, I suppose your problem does not arise in terms of your actual material conditions, but in your state of mind. You have a privileged family, a good appearance, and a kind atmosphere, which are not possessed by ordinary people, and they are also unattainable, and you do not realize it. It feels like your depression is mainly due to your introverted personality, and there is no ideal job that becomes the fuse of your depression.

You are in a hurry to change yourself, because the goal in your heart is too far from you, resulting in endless low self-esteem and depression. Friend, why do you have to change your personality, what is introverted, who said that introverts are failures. Extroversion has the benefits of being an extroversion, and there are advantages to being an introvert.

Putting aside these debates for the time being, whether a person is successful or not is no longer determined by how successful and rich he is, but whether he is a happy person! Don't set yourself too ambitious goals, just go with the flow, I'm just an introvert! I just don't want to change!

I am who I am! I'm a happy person! Don't be tired of your goals, don't be tired of your work, don't be tired of everything!

Change your mentality, let yourself relax, breathe the fresh air of the countryside that the city does not have, and be kind to you!

What a blessing it is to be able to find a loved one in the vast sea of people. Maybe it's not as good as you thought before, but it shouldn't be really bad enough, so cherish the blessings and cherish the blessings, say more caring words, and less reproachful words.

Perhaps only by knowing how to cherish will you find that you have gained more and more; Maybe if you really pursue something, you will only find yourself losing faster and faster.

It's good that love is reasonable, don't be aggrieved, don't believe in perfect love. Actually, each other will have shortcomings, as long as there is a simple cuteness, it is enough.

It can be romantic, but don't waste it; Feel free to hold hands, but don't break up casually.

When we only have one shoe, we understand what it is like to lose the other; What is lost is always the best, and a lost love affair is always unforgettable. Cherishing the present is a necessary process in life.

Do your part, don't change yourself in order to please others; Of course, don't be stubborn for some unnecessary factors.

You need to be sincere when you love each other, you need to communicate when you are arguing, you need to be calm when you are angry, you need to share when you are happy, and you need to understand when you accuse.

In a person's life, there are thousands of people who pass by, how many of them are bosom friends? How many people love themselves deeply? Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the true lover in front of you.

No matter how strong love is, it will inevitably be unable to withstand the erosion of busyness and neglect. You're so busy, you're so busy that you forget to care, you're so busy that you're physically and mentally exhausted, you're so busy that you're at a loss, you're so busy that you ignore everything, I just want to say:

Love is not something to cherish when you are free and understand!

I saw this question last time, and I was begging for a scolding, right, but I left class before I could write it, so I'll talk about it if I have the pleasure of meeting it today.

Why do you contradict what you say and what you do? It's a great honor to speak Mandarin, why don't you dare to say it? Why don't you change these shortcomings yourself:

Too introverted, inferior, conceited, ambitious, a lot of ideas, lack of practical spirit, lazy, what's wrong with being born in the countryside, or do you blame yourself in your heart, you want to let the city people see the shining point of the people in the village, everyone is human, you really want to go outside, then I ask you, are you ready to endure hardships? Do you have the pain that no one cares about when you are lonely? Are you ready to be confident and brave to rush forward?

Do you really train yourself when you go out? Won't you be deceived by this colorful world? Since you don't want to live your life like this, why don't you sober up and face real life, everyone has ambitions, everyone can say empty words, talking is much easier than doing things, do you think there is no shame in doing this now?

The conditions of your own family are okay, you are a hundred generations better than those poor people, I think you have enough rich life.

I believe that I will face life boldly from now on, work hard, so many industries, I don't believe that there is nothing you can't do, and I see myself as valuable!!

I don't know if it's useful to you if I've written a lot of articles, but I'm really telling you.

Any kind of life is life, whether it is leisure, glory, decadence, it is just one of many lives.

Don't envy others, because there are many people in this world who envy you.

It's best when you have nothing, you don't lose anything.

Choose the one you like.

Life doesn't have to be vigorous, and I tell myself before any choice that I don't regret any consequences.

Well, every choice is right.

If you do it, you must have the courage to take it.

The greatest courage in life is to die, and the greatest courage is to live.

What is called a rural person! What are the city people! Isn't it just a matter of mentality?

How come I didn't discriminate against when I grew up on Mars?

Paralysis Having money in the family does not mean that you have money Where is your contribution to this family?

Work doesn't mean that your family will help you find it, the key is meaning!

Some things are on your own! Who said that online games are not good, and it is a matter of mentality, and the game is played by people or people.

Responsibility Where does the responsibility go Everyone has their own mission.

It's like the mission in the game, in the game, you can struggle, you can't do it in life, you have to find an imaginary enemy, what he can do, you have to do it, you have to lose, at most, lose face, win, win the future, brother.

All of the above are criticisms of the couple's old beans.

In a word, if you look down on yourself, no one will look down on you. Your task now is to work hard, to try to make yourself better, to achieve something, to prove to those who once looked down on you that "you are very wrong".

You have both a strong inferiority complex and a love of self-compassion! This is how the main thing for you now is to overcome yourself!

People are not afraid of not having ability, but they are afraid that they don't know that they are not capable.

Now that you're awake, I think you're still great.

Take two years to adjust yourself, change bad habits, not to mention girlfriends, by your side.

Girls will be attracted to you.

No matter what the external conditions are, first admit yourself. Make up your mind to do something big and do something big. Or just be an ordinary person, as long as you live a fulfilling life every day.

I really want my classmates to listen to these words of yours. They are also falling. The Lost. In your spare time, you can write your own story to tell all those who are confused in youth, and maybe it will make you meaningful! We look forward to it

You're funny.

I suggest you go to the army, I want to go too, I am very similar to you, that is, my family is poor.

I'm also a fan of online games, but I'm not interested in online games anymore.

I'm also worried about the future now.,I think it's good to be a soldier.,You can exercise and study ===.

With your personality, you can only do some free-form work.

Why don't you get a regular small Internet café for the rest of your life?

Anyway, you love to play computer games so much.

And he can also be regarded as a boss, not afraid to say it and be embarrassed.

It's not that the family has no money to support.

The girl you like must be brave enough to chase (although I am a woman) cough cough and get back to the point. What didn't you work hard for? Therefore, you must be brave to chase, to be brave to fight, such a boy, we girls will like it, and relying on the family to raise the nest is the most useless!

Statement) I am not a 99-year-old chicken woman, I am 16Tired of wretchedness!

Man is better than man than dead! Let go a little bit, bro! Send you a word; One minute of sorrow loses sixty seconds of happiness! Think about it

People are not afraid of not having ability, but they are afraid that they don't know that they are not capable.

Brother, we're in a similar situation!

I think the most important thing is to meet more people!

Don't be afraid, shy!

Or you'll never want to change your current situation!

Get out there! Exercise more socially!

Continue to fall, and when all your possessions are consumed, you will have determination.

Everybody's wasting their lives, bastard. Anyway, life has to go on, and time won't wait for us.

Have you ever had faith or pursuit?

If not. You set a goal for yourself first, otherwise, others will not be able to help you.

If only I had a husband like you in the future!

Women are easy to be moved, women are easy to be satisfied, and a hug is good for a long time!

Men usually think that a woman likes a man to do something romantic to move her. Actually, no, only little girls who don't know love will be like that!

A woman who really understands love will not ask you to do something that is inconsistent and practical, she will feel like doing it!

It's good to show your true feelings, and nothing you do with your heart will move her!

And then think about whether it's something she's always wanted. Or if she said you didn't do something good enough, remember that you have to spend a lifetime to move her, not a moment!

Tell her a whim!

Wife: I really love you, but I'm stupid, I don't know how to express it, I don't think it's enough to move you ten times a day, you give me a lifetime of time to let me move you, okay?

If I were a wife, I would cry!