I don t think anyone can like me, and I can never get along with love

Like me, I'm in my twenties, I've never been in love, but I haven't had a crush on anyone, I just don't want to fall in love, on the contrary, I don't think those loves are happy, I believe that there is true love in the world, but not everyone can meet, I have friends around me who are in love, married, and have children, I don't think they are happy, I am a very full life, even if I don't have a job, I won't feel bored, read a good book, watch a good TV movie, listen**, take a walk, think about life, eat well, I think such days are also good, Don't care about other people's statements, few of those people who are in love are true love, which makes me very disdainful. I hate that kind of superficial happiness is self-deception, there are many married people around me, the love is like that, it can't stand the test of time at all, and if it's not good, you can only swallow the grievances in your stomach, true or false, I'd rather not love than false love.

Your last few words are insincere, but love is a very mysterious thing. The girls you see are not very perfect, but those boys like some of their qualities, you also have a lot of bright spots, you can take a piece of paper and write down what advantages and disadvantages you think boys like about you, what improvements do you think can be improved, don't worry, be cheerful, exercise more and participate in some social activities, such as traveling, climbing, going to health clubs, and exercising, broadening your horizons and knowing more of the opposite sex, of course, you have to talk to them intentionally or unintentionallyFor example, you can ask them what kind of sports you like, which district it is, how to use this fitness equipment, etc., right, the main thing is to be positive, show your advantages more, and it's OK. Try my way!

Don't lose faith in yourself. I feel like everyone in the world is unique...You have your own merits, just haven't been discovered yet. Yuelao is definitely fair. Don't be discouraged. Come on

Wow woo

It turns out that there are people who are similar to me

I'm the same, I'm in high school, and I'm not too ugly, but I'm just a little chubby

Whether it's the opposite sex or the same sex, there are a lot of friends

But why

They all said I had a good personality

It's, I have a good personality and I can't get a boyfriend, and I have a crush on a boy at the same level as me.

It's very similar to me.

I'm not a pretty girl, at most cute, but there are a lot of friends of the opposite sex, but love luck is not as good as other girls, and it may have something to do with my personality (only those who are familiar will be enthusiastic, and people who are not familiar with it are always not very active) I once had a crush on someone for three years, and he still didn't mean anything to me, and now the person I like seems to like someone else, and it's really sad.

But I think it's because we have low self-esteem and don't dare to express our opinions. After a long time of being single, I really want to find someone to be with, and I can't tell whether it's love or loneliness. Still, I would like to believe that there is always someone waiting for you in the world.

Happy to those who feel the same way as me!! Mutual encouragement.

Many men nowadays are not very active, if you have a like, you have to take the initiative, I am my wife took the initiative, and then I reacted to chase her.

If you don't have love, you can't live well.

I'm also in my 20s, no one wants it, it's pitiful, it's just a man, hehe

AI,It's all the end of the world.。。

I feel the same way, bitter.

I want to say yes. You are a loving person.

However, you also have to pay attention to the fact that there is a bottom line in everything you do, and there is a bottom line for being good to girls.

If there is no restriction on her good, once you are a little negligent, the other party will think that it is not good for you.

To be good to others is to be good to oneself.

Be good to yourself, including being kind to yourself, in love, boys must also have self-esteem, not without a bottom line.

I can easily say that I don't really like what I like, I really like it, I blush and heartbeat, I can't restrain myself, I like a person, I have to be good to her, but I can't be stupid and keep paying, I can't get it, I will let go, and I will not lick the dog.

Actually, it's not your problem, it's that your she or he doesn't give you enough security, if he really loves you, how can he make you have this kind of concern, I am like this, I have to believe that I will meet the one who gives you enough security. If you feel that you don't dare to give sincerely, then wait until he really touches you, at least show love for you before paying, otherwise it may really hurt in the end.

Girls are easy to be moved, and he can be moved for a long time when he does a heartfelt thing for her. Don't look at how good he is when he is good to you, but look at when he is not good to you, then you may see whether you are happy with him in the future. If there is no big problem, you must not break up easily, if something is broken, you have to repair it, and you can't repair it and then change it, after all, you will not be able to work hard like that after paying a lot.

Relatively speaking, if you are strong enough, independent enough, and brave enough, then you will not be afraid to solve anything independently, and your sense of security is firmly in your own hands! If you are too dependent, then you trust a person enough, and that person will give you a sense of security, but who can give you a sense of security for a lifetime, it is difficult to find, because the person who gives you a sense of security is also a person who needs a sense of security, and giving each other security is stronger and lasting! In fact, as long as you learn to be independent, strong, and brave in life, a sense of security will accompany you!

I don't think I can work too hard, because once I work hard, I will probably have everything I want, and life and death will come and go with nothing anyway, so why bother.

Personal opinions, freedom of speech, do not constitute a question.

The most appropriate relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine. The most appropriate relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine. The most appropriate relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine.

Thousands of good, ten thousand good, one bad, even if you pull down, one day you will suddenly find that your goodness is like a glass of water to others, and if you drink it, it will be gone, and your bad, like a seed, will take root and sprout. That's human nature! Life has given us a lot of tests, we have learned to accept and tolerate, if there is such a person, can understand you, tolerate you, understand your suffering, then cherish it!

Because most people will only forget all your good because of your little badness! Do things with love and be a man with gratitude!

I feel that once people like another person, they will be desperate and desperate, so don't care too much about the final result, after all, you won't regret it if you love it, and you may regret it even more if you don't love it.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but the other party must also like you, or no matter how much you give, there will be nothing in return, and you will be hurt.

The two love each other and are dedicated to each other, which is the happiest thing and the best partner. Single-mindedness is the advantage of human nature, but can not be idealized, when you meet a good human nature, love you, you should also pay single-mindedly, but when you meet a person with a bad nature, and there are many bad habits and ignore the family, this single-mindedness is a manifestation of ignorance, you have the right to protect your own interests from this pain, you don't need to suffer for this pain, you have to choose your own happiness!

Sympathy! These words are exactly what I want to say.

Then you don't get emotional, that's fine, learn more like those men who have girlfriends and see how they do it, and naturally you will