Emotional confusion, how should I face and choose as a girl? Friends over 20 years old answer, than

When I first started looking at the front, I thought it was wrong, it was just that his grandmother liked you, not him! Judging from your description, you didn't say that you liked you at all, it was simply vague. Why does he only chat with you online?

Can't talk? Or does he have secrets you don't know? Have you ever wondered why for these?

And why doesn't he want your parents to know about you? Is it just that you don't want your loved ones to insert between you? I don't think it's that simple.

He said that if it happened to you, he could ***? Besides, even if you give it to him, can you guarantee that he won't break up with you? If that's the *** thing, he's with you for sex, and he doesn't really like you.

If he really wants to associate with you, he is not afraid that his family will know, so he should take the initiative to explain it to your parents. After breaking up, he spread it casually, in the final analysis, it was you who took the initiative, and others thought that you came to the door by yourself. He is not responsible for sprinkling.

He didn't say anything. You don't have to take the initiative to be with him. I think he just wants to be in a relationship and doesn't really want to be with you.

Now you want to go back, but have you ever thought about asking him to call ** to your parents, do you think it's possible? He doesn't want your parents to know, so how can he take the initiative to tell your parents? Didn't he say that love doesn't necessarily have results!

When the time comes, your parents will definitely get justice! Is he that stupid? So it's impossible for him to hit the sa that you talked to your family.

He just wants you to give up the good job here for him. And he is not responsible for sprinkling. Don't be stupid, this kind of relationship is not worth your nostalgia.

Think about it. If you are too good to him, he will keep asking for it, and if you ignore him, you see how he reacts. He will take the initiative to talk to you if he has feelings for you.

If he's still the same, give up. Seriously. He won't have any attachment to you.

This is how all men are sprinkled.

All in all, I think your overall thinking is still relatively young and a little naïve! After all, you are also relatively young, and although feelings are one of the important conditions of life, they are not all. First of all, you should figure out that you will be happier in ** life, whether it is your hometown or where you are now, because people can change, and the possibility of regional changes is less.

As for your current love, you need time for you to mature, at least you will be responsible, especially your boyfriend's sense of responsibility is too low now, basically in the feeling of going to school and having a girlfriend. Judging from your situation, it is still too early to talk about life events. People who are in love are prone to impulsiveness, remember!

Impulsiveness is the devil!

Agree upstairs! This man is very unreliable! He doesn't take you seriously at all, and you still share a room with him??! Don't give yourself away indiscriminately, or it will be bitter!

I feel like you're writing **oh.

You said it yourself, you are a 28-year-old man planted in the hands of a 20-year-old girl.

I'm 21 years old, and for a girl of this age, it's really not your age.

My biggest limit is to find a boyfriend who is 3 to 5 years older than me at most, because there is a person who is much older than us, we can't control it, his thoughts and his social experience are older and richer than ours, according to the current buzzword: we can't hold him.

And this girl is still a sophomore, can you dare to say that you can stand the loneliness and wait for her for so long? And she doesn't necessarily marry you after graduation. Let's calculate for you, in four years of college, she graduated at the age of 24, and it will be another 3 years if she has to take a graduate school or something.

In case she has other ideas about her career, such as wanting to be a strong woman or something, you are 30 years old at that time, and everyone in your family will force you to get married. Will you still be alone in the empty room for her?

Now society is very realistic, and a person can be changed in a few days, let alone in a few years. The events of those years were unpredictable.

Although you like her so much now, you will forget it when you have been for a long time or when you meet someone better.

Dude, everything goes naturally, you can't force it, it's yours after all, it's yours after all, and it's useless if it's not yours, no matter how hard you force it.

After you say so much, I'll send you a sentence: "Actually, you just love for sex, you haven't achieved true love", if you do it, the result will be different, now you should continue to be good to her, even if she is good, even if you don't have the idea of possessing her, can you do it? If you can't do it, forget it......Remember, love for possession, love for sex is not true love ......If you really love her, go prove it, good luck ......

Dizzy, you're not telling the truth, even if she's so good, you don't have to describe it all so clearly. I was so hurt that I was still terrible, and as soon as I heard you say the benefits of this girl, I immediately self-reflected

Time will dilute everything, time, and people will see everything clearly

You can do nothing because she is "afraid" of your interruption

Later, she will see clearly, and maybe at that time, you will also find out that she is not the best, or the most suitable for you

I wish you happiness and, as you wish

It's good that men can't get it like this, and if she promised you that time, you wouldn't feel this way.

She is right to have a good impression of you, but she is very cautious and independent, and she does not dare to provoke your feelings, first of all, for fear of being hurt and then for fear of affecting her life, so, I advise you not to fight hard so that things will be reversed, wait for her to graduate, now continue to maintain good friends, care more but don't be happy, when she touches her heart, she will surrender to you, you must not be anxious, the love of the long stream is what this girl needs, bless you, haha, treat feelings well, one thing to one thing, She's sent from heaven to surrender you!

Hehe......It looks like they're all masters of the love field! Teachable, Learn!! But can anyone explain to me what true love is ??

Wow. It's as moving as watching love. Like is like, dislike is not like, maybe some of your conditions are not so perfect, then the girl doesn't look down on you.

Maybe knowing your past makes him unable to believe you, excellent girls will always be picky, hehe. It's better to give up, love without fruit is sad.

Think about it, how old are you, people will definitely not agree, besides, people are still in school, and the great future is still to come, maybe they really don't consider this aspect, or maybe they already have a favorite object. So, if you figure it out, it's better to retreat early, so as not to let yourself fall deeper and deeper, and only hurt yourself in the end!

I'm a junior and I'm about to graduate. I'm also very repulsed by the boys who chase me, not because I don't want to fall in love, but because most of them work. That's right, he worked and I went to school, and the circle was completely different.

When I get to work, there may be more and better people, and now all I want to think about is to try to find a good job to solve my life problems, and then think about feelings. As a girl, I think it's pretty much the same, but it depends on everyone's experience. For her, you only know the surface, and the age difference between you is indeed a little bigger, and there will be a gap.

Feelings can't be forced, if you wait until she works and finds that you are still the best one, then she may have changed. What if she finds someone else she likes? What's yours is yours, it's not that you can't ask for it.

Relax

You're not this girl's thing, you can't control her.

Do you want to marry the question, can she marry you? 1. Are you sure your hormonal impulses will keep you from thinking about it? 2. Are you sure you're the type she likes?

3. Are you sure that she will stick to your efforts after being moved? A lot of things that aren't a problem often lead to a struggle because of stubbornness. Go to other cities for half a year, maybe other cities have something more tempting for you!

There are many problems that we cannot predict in real love, and there are also many factors, such as age, location, income, etc. She may ignore you because you are unconsciously offended, and if you love her, you should listen to her and respect her choice. Start by asking her what she thinks of you.

Or wait until you can guess what she's thinking and are pursuing!

From the perspective of the same woman, I can only say that he may like you, as a friend, not as a lover. Personally, I think that for men, some can only go to the point of liking to be friends, no matter how they develop, there is no feeling, only liking and no love. It's purely a personal opinion.

Since she ran away with people, it means that she doesn't have that heart for you, and it's useless for you to use affection, decisively, you can only say that your other half has not yet appeared, these are all passers-by, enrich yourself first, men, career first, women, fate will naturally come, maybe you will meet it when you go to Shanghai.

The problem of feelings, love is love, and your own feelings are the most important, the principle of love. Sincerity comes first.

Eighty percent of the schools are failures

Hello to see your story reminds me of a friend of mine.

It's probably similar to you, except that she's a third party, but she didn't know that the boy already had a girlfriend before.

Then it happened, although the three of them did not talk face-to-face, but the boy finally chose the former, but I read all the text messages he sent to my friend, which was very touching, and there was a sentence repeated many times: why didn't we meet first.

The reason for choosing the former is responsibility, as you said, like a relative, but without love, how far can you go.

You say that no matter how bad it is, you will tolerate it, people have limits, and at a certain time, you will not say such things again.

Maybe in the process of dating, they will still choose you when they compare you with her.

Many things can't be explained in words, the distance of the heart will make people retreat step by step, I didn't let you give up, but I didn't let you fight either, let's go with the flow. If you come reluctantly, you won't be happy.

I wish you happiness.

It's that you think that when you grow up with him, you should know him, but you don't know him at all, break it! This kind of man can only be a little white face, and there is no habit.

You love him so much, it's okay to post it upside down. But after posting, you still can't come back, and you're depressed.

You can break them up so you think you're a bad woman, but he doesn't know what he's going to think of you.

Also, those who do not persuade you to scatter are fools

Someone who doesn't love you, why bother, you're a woman, and it's hard to find a man

The tone of the words is really majestic

Your feelings are clearly behind you.

But your husband is a little ignorant, too.

You're really a couple, too.

You're so nice to him, and he's not stupid

Be good to him. Don't be as brutal as you are inside Baidu Know.

It should get better.

As a woman is speechless to you, is it so good to persuade this man?

Fate.

Emotional matters cannot be forced.

I'm sorry, I'm not an elder, but I also want to say it, please don't worry if it's wrong.

First of all, I read what you wrote carefully, and it was very unpleasant for you to start writing, but the rest was quite sincere.

Are you a very affectionate person, or do you mean that you are a single-minded person, that is, you say that you value the result, but can you be sure that if you get married in the future, you will be able to live with your lover for the rest of your life? Please forgive me for asking this, because I feel that most of today's young people can't do it, so I feel that you should change your point of view, and it is not the same with affectionate words, and you must have that result, that is, no one can say for sure that so-called result.

You should be a young girl, I feel that the correct concept now is to love seriously, don't think about anything else, specific to the current love, is not to worry about any future problems, treat your current love, although it is very likely that they will not be able to come together in the future. As for your psychological problems, you just can't let go of the hurt you've suffered before. I think if you can have the above concepts, you should improve yourself, after all, your own psychological problems still have to be solved by yourself, (of course, if you don't agree with what I said, forget it).

Also, that boy is at least responsible for you, my own principle is that if you can't be responsible for her, don't hurt her, you can't reach it mentally, at least physically, I feel like he is very similar to me, hehe, a very good young man, and very rational.

Anyway, maybe it's useless for me to say as much as I want, because people are different, concepts, qualities, and besides, you said that you studied abroad, and I don't know what your concepts are. So you listen to what is right, and what is wrong is not what I haven't said.

Although the reward is only 20 points, I am happy to share your troubles