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Let yourself love the people around you who are good to you, life is short, you know, when you really lose something, you will find out why you don't know how to cherish, everyone in the world will have distress, if everyone chooses to escape, then what the world will be like. Don't tie yourself to your own world, everyone is not cold-blooded, as long as you don't give up on yourself. It's better to let go of yourself and find someone who can talk about your troubles, friends are not far away, but it depends on the angle from which you see the world.
To be honest, I will always be miserable, just like you, but, the only difference is that I will be strong, no matter how unhappy I am, I will not show it in front of others, let alone be indifferent, isn't the world warm because of the existence of feelings? Although I always talk about friendship, unreliable, but I still believe that it exists, but you haven't realized that it's not too unfair to look at the world too early? The world is still beautiful.
In reality, I am a very stupid person, although I quarrel with others, or even dislike someone, I can't learn to hate him or her, to fix him, and even as long as the other party apologizes, or treats me a little bit in private, I will forgive them, and everyone will have their own shining point. If you don't have the person you love the most, then it means that you need to find it, get back the human nature, and awaken the real person buried in the depths. Learning to love someone is joyful and a kind of growth for you.
People are meant to learn to grow up, aren't they? The most important thing is not to be afraid, and not to speculate about tomorrow, just grasp the present moment.
Maybe what I said is a bit off-topic, but after personal experience, I don't want to see someone depressed, find your own shining point, learn to open your heart, accommodate others, this is a good way to make yourself happy and bloom, you might as well try to change yourself, always the same will not be tired? Be yourself, be yourself...... true to yourself
Brother, I hope you have a great time!
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You're like me, and I'll be the same at first. Maybe they don't understand what you're really thinking, so they treat you the way they think it's good for you.
Although I know that they are for their own good, they can't get the recognition of your heart, and there is a gap slowly.
Teenagers will always have such a period of confusion, find what they really like, communicate well with their family, let them understand what you really think, and treat them like friends. Otherwise, the rift in my heart will grow bigger and bigger. If you can't really resonate with your heart, it's hard to feel grateful no matter how nice they are to you.
Hehe, this is a relatively normal manifestation of the rebellious period of youth, and even many college students are like this, you don't have to worry too much, everyone has such days, the world is very dirty, but there are also things worth nostalgia and appreciation, when you experience something will suddenly become clear. You know how to hate yourself, not the world, which proves that you still like the world, life is very boring and tasteless, and learning to be happy in suffering is very important for future life.
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Just like me! I'm not out of this situation yet, but I just know that there will only be fewer and fewer people who care about you like this. It's just like me, haha, but I'm self-centered, and when the whole world dies, I won't shed a single tear, as long as I live.
I'm cold-blooded than you. I use my friends as props, my family as a canteen, and knowledge is a necessity for money. I can sacrifice anyone as long as I'm happy!
Others are like a table or a chair to me. Everyone has their own ideas, so the world is too chaotic, and I think that these people are just my tools to grow into a god, but they are all props.
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In fact, you should ask, "Why am I still in adolescence?" ”
Just kidding, but it's normal, and if you're grateful to someone, it's a sign that you're not cold-blooded.
Maybe you don't know what you need, maybe they don't know what you need, do you know that?
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It is recommended that you listen to the stories of people who are about your age, but whose family life is unfortunate, and you will find out how unbearable you are.
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When you are enthusiastic about something, you will feel that you are not like this, in fact, you just haven't fully discovered yourself.
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A truly cold-blooded person would not say that he was cold-blooded ......
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Depending on what you're talking about, you're not very old, and now should be a time for rebellion, but I think you're a little narcissistic.
Less or more to think about who gave you your current life Think about it
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How can you be so cold-blooded (DJ) - Wang Aihua.
Words: Light clouds and moons.
Song: Light clouds and moon.
How many long dark nights have passed.
I thought I could forget you completely.
But the memories refuse to say goodbye.
My heart is still torn when I miss you.
It's me who shouldn't have walked into your world.
to let himself lose so badly.
After many years of paying for the thought, you ruthlessly ignored the source thought.
When you break up, you are so decisive.
How can you be so cold-blooded.
Fail me to be gentle and considerate to you.
He also made up his mind to break Li Xin and forget everything.
But the tears of missing are always pouring out.
How can you be so cold-blooded.
Leave behind all the tenderness I have given you.
Is it destined to be a catastrophe that cannot be avoided?
A love is gone.
It's me who shouldn't have walked into your world.
to let himself lose so badly.
Years of dedication are ruthlessly ignored by you.
When you break up, you are so decisive.
How can you be so cold-blooded.
Fail me to be gentle and considerate to you.
I also made up my mind to forget everything.
But the tears of missing are always pouring out.
How can you be so cold-blooded.
Leave behind all the tenderness I have given you.
Is it destined to be a catastrophe that cannot be avoided?
A love is gone.
Is it destined to be a catastrophe that cannot be avoided?
A love is gone.
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Summary: You are used to receiving and empathetic, but you have not established the habit of taking the initiative to give.
This is not what is really meant to be cold-blooded, cold-blooded means not having much emotion. But you will have distressed emotions in the face of strangers, which is enough to show that you are also an emotional person.
The reason why he behaves cold-blooded in front of his relatives is that I personally think there are two points:
Accustomed to passively receiving care, naturally not very active. It's normal to have a bit of a macho tendency, which most people do.
In life, you have seen so much of the social reality side and the inferior side of life that you don't quite agree with the practices of your relatives and so on.
Therefore, feelings need to be cultivated, and this sentence is not just talking.
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I have been bullied since I was a child, which made me realize early on that if I fall behind, I will be beaten, and I deserve to be beaten, and that people who do not improve themselves are a burden in this world. So my self-esteem and competitiveness are very strong. I look down on the weak, I look down on my parents because they are so stupid.
My relationship with them is a monetary transaction, and the money they gave me when I was a child will be returned when I grow up. I have no interest in horror and gore; I cared very little about others, because I didn't experience the feeling of caring myself; I'm always prejudiced against others, but I still greet them with a smile; I don't curse rudely when I'm angry, but when I say it, it's hurtful. I hate people who are willing to be weak.
Although I am a woman, I hate women who are coquettish, weak, and pretentious. There's a little bit of a lack of human touch, but so what, it's much better than an emotional fool ......
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All the same, tired of the world, ruthless. Sometimes I look too far and I crave innocence, but I know that to have infinite compassion for others is to be irresponsible to myself. I really hate it.
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Your post today shows that you are not really cold-blooded, you are just used to the attitude towards your family (there may be many reasons for this), and you are used to being indifferent to them, not that you are really a cold-blooded person, maybe you are not happy at home, or you have a bad relationship with your family, and you are very disappointed in your family and family, what I want to share with you is: get out of the stereotype of your family, in fact, each of them has their own difficulties, their own personalities, and their own perspectives, Now that you have grown up, you should tolerate them from a more open perspective, no matter what disappointing things they have done, even if they are still the same, it will not determine how you treat them, how you treat them is your own business, you should learn to recognize these things when you grow up.
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First of all, you should not have low self-esteem, but be confident! You say you don't care about others that much, but you still care about your mother, maybe because your mother gives you more love than other people give you! I think you still have to learn to care about the people around you and other people, know how to communicate, and don't be selfish!
How to say it, people often have a selfish side, but don't let others see it, you can express it in another way. Others listen to it and accept it) I think you will be able to go better in society in this way! Come on!
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Being distressed about what happened to strangers doesn't mean anything, sympathizing with this thing and not asking for money, I'll give you as much as you want. You have this kind of psychology probably because of your family, and on the other hand, you haven't really entered the society, experience the warmth and coldness of people, go out for a walk, see different people and things, don't be dismissive of your own shortcomings, every time you hurt others, you are also hurting yourself.
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Everyone's personality is different, and you can post to that friend to explain that you are not cold-blooded. To be honest, I didn't feel too much pain when my loved one passed away, and I was in my 10s at that time. You can slowly build a more intimate relationship with your loved ones, such as chatting with your parents and hugging them.
When you have time, go out with your family and everything will be better.
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I'm actually the same as you, but maybe it's because of that.
We are still too young to experience the benefits of home and parents after two years in society.
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I don't feel sad or distressed when someone around me is hurt, but I'm happy because I'm happy, and I feel like I'm missing something.
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People nowadays are like this, very cold-blooded, one day, they will understand, they will regret it, but then it will be too late.
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Dude, you're not a cold-blooded person, it's just that you don't care about the people around you.
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I'm in exactly the same situation as you.
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