What if you like someone very much but don t know how to get along with them?

It's how can a man not have a relationship with a girl, it's just that it's not developed.

As a boy, in the minds of girls, appearance and temperament are the two most important aspects; When it comes to socializing with girls, a boy's modest attitude and natural sense of humor are the most important; When you are alone with a girl, if you really have nothing to say, your best choice is to leave politely, so that you will think about each other because of leaving, remember each other's good, and the relationship will be deeper. On the contrary, if you have nothing to say because you have nothing to say, you may affect the other person's impression of you because of improper expression! Besides, if you really want to chase her, the right distance will give you unexpected gains.

Treat it with sincerity, get along as usual, and do what you want. Being true to yourself will make him discover you, and blindly doing deliberate actions will only make him feel that you are very contrived! Be true to yourself and get along with him with sincerity!

My own opinion!

How old are you? If you are young, don't confess to him, you don't show that you like him, it's okay to have a normal relationship, and if you like others, you should like it silently. Otherwise, it will ruin your friendship.

If you confess, whether he accepts it or not, no one will benefit in the end, either like the enemy, or no one will pay attention to anyone in the future. Really, it's a rule of thumb.

As for the question of whether to talk to the person you like, and what to talk about to the person you like to get him, I will give you my opinion.

If you are a person with a high level of love and a very good mentality, then you can take the initiative appropriately, and the masters are good at taking the initiative. But initiative is not equal to upside down, initiative is not equal to entanglement, initiative is not equal to low. (emphasis added).

This kind of initiative is a kind of relaxation.

A kind of moisturizing things silently penetrates into the other party's life, greetings, care, small talk, and in general, it is an output of value.

What is the output of value, I will send 2 dialogues for you to compare.

F: Are you off work?

M: No. F: Do you have to work overtime today?

M: Plus, it's going to be a busy day.

F: Then you should be busy first, pay attention to rest

F: Are you off work?

M: No. F: Do you have to work overtime today?

M: Plus, it's going to be a busy day.

F: I'm busy and I want to eat.

M: Got it, I ate it.

F: What do you eat?

M: Whatever you want.

F: How can you eat as much as you want?

If you were a boy, which girl would you prefer to talk to?

The correct posture of the initiative is to know the sense of proportion and continue to output value.

What is the output value, your care, your care, your praise, your thoughtfulness, your sympathy with the other party, the other party's pleasant emotions by chatting with you, etc., are all considered a value output.

People naturally want to get close to people who output value, and remember that it is output value, not entanglement. Many girls can't grasp the sense of proportion, and they turn their care into entanglement.

What is entanglement, when the other party is busy, they still talk to each other, when the other party is not very interested, and when the desire to reply is not strong, they continue to have nothing to say, and when two people have nothing to say, they continue to talk awkwardly, and every time they wait until the atmosphere drops to the freezing point and the other party does not reply to you before ending the topic.

There is also a kind of entanglement is the desire to preach and solve the problem is particularly serious, when the other party just complains to you, you analyze the matter from the beginning to the end from the inside out, from top to bottom, and you are almost a mind map.

And SWOT analysis table,Basically, in this case, the other party will reply to you with a word.,Plus an emoji.。

Because when the other party complains to you, what he wants is emotional resonance, and if he wants a solution, he will tell you clearly that I have a problem and want to ask you for help.

If you are the kind of girl with a weak mentality, then I don't recommend you to be particularly proactive, because when you take the initiative more, and the boy's reply is not as you expected, you will fall into self-doubt and self-denial, you will suffer from gains and losses, and you will be frightened, and you will collapse before you start the war.

The so-called appropriate initiative to adjust their communication methods and communication frequency according to the feedback given by boys, if you can do a one-to-one ratio is the best, if you can't do it is at least 3 to 1, that is to say, your initiative is to be effective, is to hear the splash, is to have feedback, rather than blindly active, if one party blindly takes the initiative then it can only be called self-moved.

So don't dwell on whether or not to take the initiative, or when to take the initiative, the question is not that important at all.

When you like someone, you should get to know him slowly, and then get along with him as a friend, step by step.

If you don't know how to get along, it means that you don't know each other very well, and after more contact with each other and a lot of common experiences, you won't have this feeling.

If you like someone very much, but you don't know how to get along with him, I think it takes two people to slowly get in touch with each other and get to know each other.

You have to have a way to do things that she can get along with. You and he get along together and relax the relationship.

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Crush is a painful and sweet thing, and it feels good to have a crush, but if the other party doesn't know that he likes him, the crush is mostly fruitless. I think when the other party doesn't know that you have a crush on him, you can take the initiative to approach him, be nice to him, let him feel that you are interesting to him, or take the initiative to confess.

1. When the other party doesn't know that you have a crush on him, you can take the initiative to approach him and let him know what you mean. I think if you like someone, you have to let him, otherwise unrequited love.

It's very bitter. You have a crush on him, but the other person doesn't know it, so he may be with someone else, and you won't have a chance.

I think it's important to let the other person know what you mean, and if he has a passion for you, he may say something. To let the other person know that you have a crush on him, you can take the initiative to approach him, take the initiative to chat with him, or be nice to him, better than the average friend.

If it's not that your emotional intelligence is too low, you can see that you have a crush on him. When you say something, if he is also interested in you, he may respond positively. If he is not interested in you, he may respond indifferently to your kindness, then in this case, you should stop the loss in time, and you should take back your heart, otherwise you will be hurt in the end.

Second, when the other party doesn't know that you have a crush on him, you can take the initiative to confess, so that you can have a chance to be together. I think you have to say it out loud when you have a crush on someone, and if you bury your love in your heart, then the other person will never know your thoughts, and you may miss the other person in vain. Maybe the other party also has you in their hearts.

So take the initiative to confess, this is to give yourself a chance, and also give the other party a chance. After confessing, if the other party refuses, then you treat him as an ordinary friend. But if the confession is successful, then you can get a good love, and you will not let yourself have regrets in the second half of your life.

What would you do if you had a crush on someone?

If you like someone, you should say it, but you must pay attention to the way, do not make the person you like feel embarrassed or unnatural, and do not make him or her feel coerced, such as announcing it loudly in public. You should take it gradually and find the right time to tell him or her, which will increase your chances of success.

Be brave enough to confess, this honesty and courage will add points to your image in his mind, and it is very likely to succeed.

You find a suitable opportunity to explain to this person, if the other person also likes you, then continue the relationship, and if the other person does not feel for you, quickly break up.

You must first find out if the other party has someone you like, and if so, you should also know if the person you like also likes each other. If yes, give up.

Love should be said out loud, if you are not brave enough, you can suggest it, or arrange a special encounter, remember to dress up a little bit.

I will be brave enough to show my heart to the other person. Because I always feel that love needs to be grasped by myself.

Summary. Let's talk to him briefly about his daily life and learn about all aspects of his life.

What if you like someone very much but don't know how to get along with them?

Let's talk to him briefly about his daily life and learn about all aspects of his life.

Get along like ordinary friends, slowly get used to it, and the feelings between each other will also increase.

We're already in this together.

According to his interests and hobbies, talk about what he likes.

For example, how is today's work and study.

But I wonder what to talk about after the conversation.

You can also talk to him about more meaningful things that have happened in your life.

You can also talk about your plans for the future.

Maybe I've been used to pretending to be sensible with objects before, and I'm used to getting along with objects like this, of course, the previous ones were not as good as him.

He kissed me hard, and the first time he kissed me, I felt better, why is this?

He was the first time.

Maybe it's because the first time was clumsy, but both sides have a good feeling.