When I quarrel with my boyfriend, he says a little thing every time, are you concerned, what should

It is common for boyfriends and girlfriends to quarrel with small fights, but there is always a reason for quarrels, how to solve it afterwards and how to deal with it depends on yourself, every day in life is nothing more than some trivial things, how many big things can be, two people get along with each other from small things can see a person's character, although the small things are small, whose fault must always be distinguished, properly solved, otherwise the small things will also cause big mistakes, small things and small mistakes no matter how much you don't ask, it will be too late to remedy them, if your boyfriend really loves you and cares about you, Your little things are also a top priority for him.

He said that you quarreled with him over a trivial matter, it seems that it is really a trivial matter, and if it is a major event, it is estimated that he will leave you long ago. You tell him that small things are not small, just to prevent them from getting worse, and if it's a big thing, they will go their separate ways.

Bear with me, and the next time he argues with you, give him that sentence back.

Small things plus small things become big things, and anthills can also destroy thousands of miles of embankments. If you don't solve the small things well, it will accumulate into big things after a long time.

If you don't go too far, then your boyfriend will definitely be disappointed if he talks too much. The details of the two together are also very important. Not loving is not suddenly not loving, it is all accumulated through little things.

Small things accumulate and become big things, and disappointments will leave when they have saved enough. I hope you can talk about it well and let him understand. May you hold hands until the white head is white.

I don't know how to persuade you, if you want to have a good time, after a long time, you always quarrel over trivial things, and the relationship will be smoothed out, and you are very tired, but if you don't say that you lack communication, you will be strangers over time, as for whether you can reach a tacit understanding between you can only rely on fate.

You don't want me to be there, he doesn't stand in your position for you.

You tell him: You don't let me let me see the big from the small, let alone the big thing.

How can it not be, a little thing will slowly become a big thing, we must prevent it from getting worse.

It's normal that time doesn't always quarrel over the slightest thing. Because everyone thinks that there is nothing, they often quarrel over some trivial things. Sometimes quarrels can increase feelings.

Break up decisively, raise an ancestor, and ask about a trivial matter when you fall in love? Life must not be turned upside down in the future.

You ask him rhetorically, are you his little thing?

Summary. You say I'm smart, but I'm very beautiful, but I really can't take your temper. But.

You don't have to think that boys' thoughts are not meticulous, and they are not always cranky, but in fact, no, if a boy is really in love with you, he will care about every bit of your daily life. Therefore, only by looking for the reason for everyone's quarrel can we deal with the symptoms**. 2. Coax most of the boys are very atmospheric, but everyone has a small "minefield", if you are really angry, don't go against him, don't hurt him, whine him, the boy is the most weak.

3. Make his favorite meal for him Some people say that no matter how serious a man is, there are two more gentle situations, one is when he sleeps, and the other is when he calms down to eat, give them good food, and when he eats and his emotions gradually calm down, of course he doesn't want to worry about it.

I had a little conflict with my boyfriend, and he said I know how to deal with your cleverness.

You say I'm smart, but I'm very beautiful, but I really can't take your temper. But. You don't have to think that boys' thoughts are not meticulous, and those with big nerves will not always be cautious and thoughtful, but in fact, no, if a boy is really loving you, he will care about every bit of your daily life.

Therefore, only by looking for or eliminating the cause of everyone's quarrel can you treat the symptoms**. 2. Coax most of the boys are very atmospheric, but everyone has a small "minefield", if you are really angry, don't go against him, don't hurt him, whine him, the boy is the most weak. 3. Make his favorite meal for him Some people say that no matter how serious a man is, there are two more gentle situations, one is when he sleeps, and the other is when he calms down to eat, give them good food, and when he eats filial piety banquet and eats his emotions gradually calm down, of course he doesn't want to worry about it.

This is also a manifestation of love for you, it means that you don't get angry, you are so smart and angry that it is not good for your body.

You say you like the sea, but the other party says that people who don't have money can't afford to get on a boat;

You said you like bouquets, but the other party said why learn from others to play romance.

With people with different views, you can't feel any happiness.

Everyone has their own journey, and it is impossible to endorse, speculate and judge.

If you have different opinions, you don't have to argue, live your life and talk less about others.

I like a quote very much:

"Surround yourself with the right people to create a comfortable life. ”

Let each other calm down, it takes time, you just wait patiently, if he loves you will take the initiative to contact you, and will choose to get along, but try to manage your emotions in the future, which will affect the relationship between you, if you can't continue to walk, you can choose to let go, find love each, and pursue your own happiness.

There needs to be a buffer period for both parties. In a quarrel, you may not be able to control what you don't say on weekdays, and at this time you need to calm down and calm down your emotions, give yourself a time to be alone, reflect on your behavior, and avoid a second quarrel.

He means that he wants to be quiet, you don't want to block each other anymore, after all, when you quarrel, you can't talk about any good results, he is rational. Very good!

He couldn't make up his mind, so it was like that, it didn't make any sense, it was just a feeling of powerlessness.

If you want to fight, calm down, after all, they are all angry, and they can't talk about any good results.

Just need the other party to be quiet, don't think about it, just when she figures it out.

Boyfriend means to let you think calmly, tolerate each other and quarrel less.

He's thinking about it, thinking about your relationship.

If you want to get away with it, it's a little trick to scare you, it's okay.

If you are always arguing, think about whether it is because of your different perspectives. If so, I think you will face difficulties after marriage, and always quarreling will hurt feelings, and over time, it will be very dangerous. So now you have to think clearly, what is the reason for always quarreling, if there is a deep-seated reason here, that is, the essential reason, it is because your concepts are very different, and it is difficult to last.

If you still have love, get along well.

Both sides strengthened their self-cultivation. Are you and your boyfriend very young, immature, willful, and a little reluctant to get along together? You might as well give in to each other, understand each other, and inevitably encounter some problems in work, study, and life, and may have some pressure, so care more about each other.

When you are in a bad mood and angry, one party is more humble, and the atmosphere may be better. Whoever provoked the matter took the initiative to find a step for himself to stop quarreling, such as you, looking for something, quarreling, seeing that your boyfriend is really angry, make a coquettish attack on him, put his arms around his neck and kiss him, will he still quarrel? Or if he is looking for trouble, you calm down, ignore him, silence is golden, let him scratch his head, he will not quarrel but please you.

Women should be feminine, don't shout, do you understand the truth of gentleness?

It's okay to argue behind closed doors, but it's ridiculous to be noisy with outsiders. It is necessary to understand the general situation and take into account the overall situation. Know to respect others. Besides, quarrels hurt feelings and bodies. When you encounter upset, pay attention to restrain your willfulness. After all, you're adults.

Quarrels are the salt of life, less tasteless, more too salty. Sometimes a quarrel can reveal thoughts, and you have to see the central meaning he expresses, whether he has an external heart, and you must be clear about this. As long as it doesn't affect your feelings, don't do it, make a little noise, and it doesn't hurt to vent.

Remember to take what you see and don't affect the feelings of others. Don't expose your shortcomings, don't defile your personality.

After the quarrel, don't forget to take the initiative to kiss each other if anyone is wrong.

Summary. Hello, thank you for your patience and wait for the teacher to see your problem, both of you were angry at the time, so what about it, both of them spoke more extremely, but neither of them was their own sincerity.

My boyfriend and I had an argument last night over a trivial matter, and I was very angry, very sad, and he coaxed me to get me down, because I kept talking angry (I was angry at the time), and my boyfriend said that I wouldn't be calm down to solve emotional problems, and that my behavior had greatly damaged my image in his mind.

Hello, thank you for your patience and wait for the teacher to see your problem, both of you were angry at the time, so what about it, both of them spoke more extremely, but neither of them was their own sincerity.

That's right. At first, I coaxed him to apologize for my behavior, but he called me a fake.

Your boyfriend shouldn't be like other men, he doesn't mean that, but she says it and makes people feel angry.

The thing is, he went to an Internet café with his friends to play games in the past two days, and he didn't pay much attention to me when he played games, and I was very disgusted with him playing games, because he played games for a few months before and snubbed me, and I was sensitive to this issue, and I was going to talk to him, and he had changed, but in the past two days, it happened again, and I was scared to snub me like before, but yesterday I didn't dare to talk to him, and I was afraid that if I said that I didn't want to play games for him, it would seem that I was very selfish, and I was afraid that he would think that I didn't give him a little space.

Okay, can the teacher understand your psychological feelings, because of the Chinese New Year? You can relax and let him play for two days, you can tell him that you will be allowed to play because it is the New Year, but now it is almost over, and you have to take care of it.

Yes, my boyfriend is not very good at words, my boyfriend always tells me that he loves me very much, that he loves me too much, that he loves me very much, that he loves me very much, that he treats me very well, but I am just afraid that he will snub me again like he did before.

Teacher, I feel that you have put all your mind on him and have not focused on other things.

In fact, there is no need to put all your energy on him, so as not to bring harm to yourself.

But as soon as I ignore him, he will wonder if I wanted to break up or if I did it on purpose.

The two of you have been dating, how long have you been, and there are not many such things in normal times.

Not too much dating for more than 200 days.

More than two hundred days can also show that the two of you care about each other, so the two of you will definitely be able to last a long time.

But it takes two people to communicate well, because it's not a matter of principle, it's not a big problem.

Summary. Breaking up is not necessarily because there is no emotion, he may think that the way you get along with each other is no longer suitable for each other, and there may be other reasons. It is recommended that you communicate with him well, understand the other person's opinion, clear up any misunderstandings between you, and see if you can handle these problems well.

I often quarrel with my boyfriend because of some trivial things, sometimes a sentence and I took the initiative to provoke my boyfriend said that as long as he quarreled, he felt that it was not appropriate for the two of them to be together, and they would only bump and shout and torture each other So did he want to break up and laugh at Kai? Emotionless?

Breaking up is not necessarily because there is no emotion, he may think that the way you get along with each other is no longer suitable for each other, and there may be other reasons. It is recommended that you communicate well with him, understand the other party's opinions, eliminate misunderstandings between you, and see if you can deal with these problems.

You should first make sure that you behave appropriately, avoid causing disputes, and sober up in time after an impulsive behavior, so that you can take stock of what happened when Sun Manuscript in detail, learn to think from the other person's point of view, understand his point of view, correct your own shortcomings, and re-establish the foundation of mutual trust.

He said that my tantrums were as normal as eating, and that as long as I quarreled, he felt that the two of them were inappropriate.

You should let him know that you can also understand his thoughts, understand his point of view, absorb his advice, and correct your mistakes in time. Usually encourage and praise him more, and fully affirm his status in your forest. If you want to change, you have to start with your own group, get to know him better, and learn to express emotions appropriately, instead of blindly arguing.