Such a boy can also be either 20

Hello, judging by my more than six years of emotional experience.

If you want to be stable and want to get married, don't find such a man, falling in love is most nerve-wracking, but it will not cause very serious consequences.

Since he has such a character, if you choose to get married and stay together, and the fragments in your marriage will continue in the future, and such things will appear, it will be really a great sorrow.

Some people are only suitable for temporary love, not for long-term stability.

Not to mention separation, let alone go far for a long time.

As for what he said, he is still happy with you, but after a long time, he has lost the freshness of the year, but there is a tacit understanding, there are good memories of the year, and for the kind of people whose hearts have not yet stabilized and have been troubled by freshness, they should not continue with it.

As for still loving, I can understand, after all, after being together for so long, it is not so easy to give up, and I am not very willing to believe that there will indeed be a better way to wait for yourself, but think about you just graduated, and the road of life is still very long, don't let some people stumble on the road you want to take. The pain of separation is only temporary, and it can last for up to two years, but think about it, it was he who abandoned you first, remembered your good and came to pick you up again, and when he didn't want it anymore, he would find a new love. This lasts for a lifetime, and you will always be like performing in the sky, frightened and worried about you.

Don't believe all the sweet words of men, he can deceive you for a lifetime, you are happy, the key is that you can only lie to you for a while, if the lie is broken, can you continue to make up for it? You and I are actually understanding people!

If the two places are separated, the chances of success may not be great. Because most people don't like long-distance relationships.

If he doesn't go back to your city in the future, I advise you to give up.

If you will be developing in a city in the future, you can consider talking to him about the future.

But I feel that it is better to break up, maybe it is because you have been separated for too long, and the feelings for each other have faded, even if they are barely together, one day after getting married, he will tell you that he has feelings for other girls again. It's too late to regret it.

Since most of them are the same character, it proves that they are more people who can afford to play, so it is the same as who they are with, anyway, you are mostly people who can leave each other at any time, so it doesn't make any difference who you are with now, as long as you meet each other and you will be separated when you meet someone you like, so now you are not together to see how you feel now, and there is a feeling together.

Does it still make sense to continue? doesn't take the relationship between the two seriously. It always feels like you're predestined for love.

Then live separately and find the best goal for each other. If you find it, cancel the order and follow someone else. I really can't find the love that is still predetermined as insurance.

There is no point in such love. It's early to find true love.

You want stability, tell him directly that I want a stable life, can you give it to me? If you can't give it, you will leave, but you must tell him that you respect him, respect you, and respect the feelings of these years!

Actually, you have the answer when you ask this question, and I'll make sure that you have a problem sooner or later.

Give him some color! Can't be so weak, have you heard of she's "semi-saccharism"? Find a feeling, hehe

You're still in college, and you're going abroad in Hong Kong? Return? I'm afraid.

When choosing a first love partner, it is best not to choose the following three types of people.

Clause. 1. Stay away from greasy, official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people.

If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing.

When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty appearance in the eyes of those around you.

When you fall in love in college, you can go to those who are capable of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent. But you must not look for those who "have no ability, only put on an official and read hail shelves", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and those who are close to ink are black.

Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

Clause. Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I'm just suggesting that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and a good way to deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.

But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating.

After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love. When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.

Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

Clause. 3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years.

If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become useless and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement.

To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany Chi Fan and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities.