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I read a sentence in the book: When you fall in love, you should experience a long-distance relationship and experience joy and sorrow. Can't share, laugh and cry and can't hug, the feeling of connecting across the screen until you almost go crazy.
The pain and joy of a long-distance relationship, probably only those who have experienced it know what it feels like.
There is a colleague next to her, she and her boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship, and it is a long-distance military relationship. She told me that they had been together for four years, and that they had been doing it ever since. We all know that the military is very special, and it is more difficult than our ordinary long-distance relationship.
I often envy the lovers who are within reach of others, but there are also happiness that others can't experience, and the happiest thing should be to know the time of the next meeting, look forward to the arrival of that day every day, and plan what to do after meeting, but in fact, as long as two people stay together, I feel very relieved.
But in fact, long-distance relationships always have so much bitterness:
The most feared thing about a long-distance relationship is that you can't hear the tone of the text message, ** you can't see the expression, in fact, I'm not angry but you take it seriously, in fact, I'm pretending to be strong, and you can't see my grievances.
There is more and more no common language, two people are too far apart, they don't know each other's friends, they don't know anything about the topics they refresh, you want to share with him but don't know where to start, you will lose interest because of strangeness, and slowly all you can say is the empty "I miss you".
Sent him a message, looked at the phone many times and still didn't reply, I don't know what you're doing, I don't know what you're busy with, I don't feel safe
You're always away when you need you, you don't bring an umbrella when it's raining, you don't bring money for food.
But no matter how sad and difficult this process is, it is because I believe that one day the chat record will become a gentle and hot breath in the ear, and the good night in ** will become a kiss on the cheek. Long-distance relationships will always have some sourness, but they are also thousands of miles apart, and long-distance relationships make us want to be better versions of ourselves to embrace each other.
Don't be in a hurry, you go read your book, I'll also watch my movie, and one day we'll nest together, read a book, watch the same movie.
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I'm in a long-distance relationship.
To be honest, a long-distance relationship is very tiring, costing money and energy, but there are expectations and the idea of cherishing each other.
Everyone has a different opinion on a long-distance relationship, because it mainly depends on how you feel each other, if the relationship is really good and both parties trust each other very much, then the separation is only temporary, and you can definitely get together.
Taking the road of love, it is all the same, but a long-distance relationship is a test of love, and it will be cherished even more if you pass.
Let your heart tell you whether you choose to believe or give up in a long-distance relationship?
I wish you all happiness.
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The most lacking thing between long-distance couples is real getting along, most of the time communication can only be carried out through mobile phones, in addition to these daily life can not participate, many important things happen, lovers can not be by their side. When you were sick, he was working overtime, and he only sent a sentence of "drink more hot water"; When he wants to complain to you about work, you are in a meeting, and when you ask later, you can only get a "it's okay". And the reply and contact again and again are not timely enough, the sense of loss increases unconsciously, and the relationship will slowly cool down, and in the end, both parties are busy, and finally have time to sit in front of the screen and chat, but find that there is nothing to say.
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What do you think about long-distance relationships?
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Many people find long-distance relationships impossible... I don't think it's about the distance between the bodies, it's about the distance between the hearts of the two people... A long-distance relationship is not a reason, let alone an excuse.
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The test of time and distance in a long-distance relationship, this is the time when two people really love each other, people who truly love each other will not give up on each other because of loneliness and loneliness, nor will they turn their backs on each other.
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If you're rich, it shouldn't be anything;
If one of you has enough energy to get out of the place in the near future, ok;
If you are both more independent business types, it's okay; If.
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It's just to work hard to maintain.
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I feel that the success rate is quite low.
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Taiwanese girls are interesting enough! Take the initiative to match nutrition for male guests, and respond generously without charge! + Do not disturb if you are not sincere: Will you break up in a long-distance relationship, and will it test the relationship? What do you think about long-distance relationships
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Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you: a long-distance relationship is like a test for this relationship, because they need to accept the test of trust, the test of patience, the test of perseverance, the test of carefulness, and so on.
People who can tolerate long-distance relationships generally have deep feelings, they take their relationship very seriously, and they are all patiently maintaining the relationship, there are too many people who break up because of long-distance relationships, in real life because they have not stood the test.
Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you: a long-distance relationship is like a test for this relationship, because they need to accept the test of trust, the test of patience, the test of perseverance, the test of carefulness, and so on. People who can tolerate long-distance relationships generally have a very deep relationship of filial piety, they take their feelings very seriously, and they are also patiently maintaining this relationship.
1. If the biggest test of a long-distance relationship is trust, because two people are not together for a long time, it will lead to a great reduction in trust, and after a long time, they may begin to be suspicious of each other. Once two people lose trust, then the relationship can only end up. It is not a simple matter to maintain trust in a long-distance relationship, two people must learn how to communicate, and they must give each other enough security.
Second, the test of Naikai's heart because the two people are far apart, their communication seems to have become a problem, although mobile phones and computers can be used to talk, but it is still the most effective way to communicate face-to-face. So at this time, you must be full of Nakaisun's palms, maybe an impatience will make the other party collapse in this relationship and can't continue to hold on. So a long-distance relationship is also a test of patience.
3. The most admirable thing about the test of persistence in a long-distance relationship is to be able to stick to the chain, because the long-distance relationship may last for a long time, and we can't even see the hidden hope of Xijie at all. At this time, if you can persevere, then this relationship can also have an end, and if you can't persevere, most people can only watch the relationship end without a problem.
For long-distance relationships, the feeling that imitation gives me is that it can't last long, because once two people have been separated for a long time, Du Jikai will gradually become less than a topic to talk about, and only lead fiber, so the relationship will be more or less affected. Although the current network is very strong and you can keep in touch by **and**, there is still no deep relationship between two people, so I am still not very optimistic about long-distance relationships in my heart.
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Summary. Kiss hello, the principle of maintaining a long-distance relationship: 1. You must have a strong sense of trust in each other, because for couples, mutual trust is very crucial.
2. If the other party has some different views now, two people can talk calmly, and only tell each other the truest thoughts in their hearts to know, the effect is far better than always stuffing in their hearts. 3. When two people quarrel, they must try their best to reconcile quickly, because two people can't meet frequently, so if you want to maintain a long-distance relationship for a long time, you must solve it in time after you have a conflict. <>
<>So what do you think about long-distance relationships?
Dear, glad to answer for you! My view of the long-distance relationship is: the beginning of the long-distance relationship is difficult, and I use my mobile phone to share a little sweetness and a little touch.
I will be happy because I have seen each other for a long time. There will also be quarrels, and there will be occasional petty tempers, little stubbornness, but they understand and trust each other. Long-distance relationships are fragile and sensitive.
It is precisely because I care that I have a sensitive god and disadvantage Sutra.
Kiss hello, the principle of maintaining a long-distance relationship: 1. You must have a strong sense of trust in each other, because for couples, mutual trust is very crucial. 2. If the other party has some different views now, Liangfan can talk about it calmly, and only tell the other party the truest thoughts of the mental elimination, which is far better than always stuffing in the heart.
3. When two people quarrel, they must try their best to reconcile quickly, and two people can't meet frequently, so if you want to maintain a long-distance relationship for a long time, you must solve it in time after there is a conflict. <>
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A long-distance relationship is a very painful thing for each other, and I have been in a long-distance relationship for two years, but in the end we have not been able to be together.
After many years, I reflected on and summarized this long-distance relationship that I experienced. Find out why the two of us didn't end up together. First of all, for couples in a long-distance relationship, two people get together less and leave more.
There will be certain problems in the relationship between each other, which is the case of my long-distance relationship, because my former lover and I work in different cities, and I am a relatively ambitious person.
Therefore, not being able to take the initiative to contact each other and accompany each other every day will naturally make my former lover dissatisfied with me, and as time goes by, this dissatisfaction becomes stronger and stronger.
It eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship between the two of us. On the other hand, the reason why my long-distance relationship didn't last to the end was that I didn't choose to go to his city according to the other party's requirements.
I can't give each other a clear future, because my former lover and I are both stubborn people in terms of personality, we both have each other's ideas, and we both want each other to accept our opinions and opinions.
In this case, it also caused our long-distance relationship, and it was impossible to last until the end, so after two years of suffering, we finally decided to end this long-distance relationship.
To find your own true life and true love again. Although this long-distance relationship has lasted for less than two years, and the breakup has brought us a certain amount of hurt to each other.
But to a certain extent, it also makes the two of us more mature and understand that we are looking for a love that is truly suitable for us in our future lives.
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When it comes to love, what comes to mind is warm, sweet, and warm. But there is still heartache and bitterness in the process. It is a very common way to meet love, if you are wronged and sad, you can give each other a warm hug; When you are happy, you can celebrate with each other; It's okay to eat and drink together, all over the world.
This kind of love is very easy to accept for both parties and relatively easy to go on, because there will be many ways to solve some bumps in the process. The corresponding way is not to meet love, which is now very common with the acceleration of the pace of life. It's what everyone often calls a long-distance relationship.
In the case of a long-distance relationship, it is more difficult to go down. You say, if you are wronged, sad, sad, sick, what else can you do but comfort in words? Happy, what else is there besides language blessings?
The solution to the problem is too simple, so no matter which side will have some criticism, thinking that it is empty words. This is still secondly, after a long time, the sense of security between two people will become lower and lower, and the sense of trust will be lower and lower, then the result will be obvious. The best part?
There is a limit to what two people can talk about in a long-distance relationship. When communication reaches a certain level, it will reach a point where there is no topic to talk about. You said you have nothing to say, can't you see each other?
What else to hold on? This is to the point where the mountains are exhausted, so more fresh elements are needed to join in. Then someone said, according to you, long-distance relationships need different freshness to join, and face-to-face love will also have a time when the freshness is exhausted, do you always need more freshness to join?
1. There is one biggest difference between a long-distance relationship and face-to-face, which is realism. Long-distance relationships will eventually become a reality, and this is the inevitable way. It is necessary to use reality to polish the edges and corners of the love between two people.
Second, after love enters marriage, of course, it must maintain a long-term freshness, which is why there are divorces and marriages. This is more idealistic, after all, there are all kinds of marriages in reality, and they cannot be generalized. Therefore, both love and marriage are maintained by both parties, but the happiness of marriage is different.
Everyone is more optimistic about face-to-face love and less optimistic about long-distance relationships. In fact, in my personal opinion, there is more optimism about long-distance relationships than reality. Why?
Love, the most important thing in marriage is not trust. Isn't that a long-distance relationship a good test of trust? If two people can be in a long-distance relationship for a relatively long time, they can also maintain the trust level of two people.
So when the two of them really enter reality, after the polishing of reality, will it be easier to go on?
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