Is it necessary to contact two people after they break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's very simple, women are very emotional, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for more than two years, she kept in touch with me (in fact, I already knew she had a boyfriend), but she never mentioned it, and then her boyfriend used her QQ to inadvertently talk to me once, she was very angry, and also had a big fight, (later I heard that they broke up because of this), I knew the seriousness of the matter, and I stopped contacting him from then on. In fact, men should take the initiative and be decisive in this kind of thing, and don't contact their ex-girlfriends if they can't contact them, which is good for everyone. Women are too emotional, after all, they have loved.

    Men have to do bad things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is managed by both parties, and it requires you to be considerate of each other and, most importantly, communication. How long can a relationship last without communication? If your girlfriend's heart is in yours and you are afraid of anything, talk to her about your thoughts and feelings.

    If it was your girlfriend who hurt the previous man, then I am happy to tell you that your girlfriend does not want to hurt that man. You're going to go up there to find such a nice girl, cherish her!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make me sad and uncomfortable, neither can I advance or retreat, since I have broken up, I will completely quit, a happy life, and happiness is the only pursuit now.

    I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

    You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends?

    No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't matter if you get in touch, but at least if the other person and yourself have already let go. Otherwise, it will become a broken thread, more troublesome, and, you must pay attention to the way you speak and the content of the connection, don't be ambiguous, this will always hurt each other, the distance and scale must be grasped, but also to see if this person is worth contacting, if you want to contact, just contact, don't want to forget it, follow your heart...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your girlfriend is not right, if your girlfriend can be very calm, then you can contact you, but you just say it's her partner and get angry, that's too inappropriate.

    She didn't know who was angry with whom right now.

    Why not? Why do you say? Silly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dude's situation is the same as mine, I just broke up with my girlfriend this morning, I advise you to break up, she must still be in love with her ex-boyfriend, why do you want to continue? You are not a charity. If one day they rekindle their old feelings, you'll be stupid.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't contact again after a breakup! Since she cruelly abandoned you, she is not worthy of your affection for her! Don't miss out on happiness later because of a relationship! Fortunately, you just broke up, and it is inevitable that you want to get in touch.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on the situation, if both parties are very rational, and the breakup is not due to a relationship breakdown but other factors, it is not impossible to contact; If it's a relationship breakdown, there's no need to connect.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to break up and be a stranger. Many things have passed, and they can only stay in their memories, hoping that you can be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you should know the answer in your heart, two people can't be friends after breaking up, because they have loved before, and your girlfriend doesn't want to think about your feelings? I have the same thing as you, if they don't have anything to do, why don't they let that person know that you are her boyfriend, you should tell her, you should have a good talk, if it is me, I won't let him know that I have a boyfriend. The reason is that if we still have a chance to be together, I told him that I have a boyfriend and he won't contact me, he knows that I have a boyfriend and he won't say that he misses me or something, this is a cruel thing to know, it's okay to flirt or something, but I'm afraid it will be more serious,

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, because it will make you sadder even more. And it's getting harder and harder to forget a relationship!

    Just let time dilute all this, don't contact again, don't think about it anymore!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need. If your ex-boyfriend takes the initiative to contact your girlfriend and she loves you, he should generously introduce you to his ex-boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's a normal connection, you don't have to think too much. It's all about a connection between friends. Don't overthink it. Too much will affect your relationship with your girlfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I dare to guarantee you, she must still have that ex-boyfriend in her heart!

    After a while, if you treat her well, she will give up like this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's not good! Are they disconnected? If the reason for their breakup in the first place, I'm afraid you have to ask clearly! ~

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think if you and her ex-boyfriend are iron brothers, then there's nothing, and if you don't know each other, I think it's better to break off, at least I will.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because she also wants to resurrect o( o

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do what you think There is no need to be humble in love

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    White lies, sometimes don't mind too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can also reach out to your ex-girlfriend and see how she feels.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not necessary, even if you keep it, you're asking for trouble, and it will cause some unnecessary trouble to the other party.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    People can't let go of love and love in their lives, as long as you fall in love, then you have to cherish, treat it sincerely and kindly, if you break up, then you have to see how far it has developed, whether you contact them or not, I said, with the development of society, it is better to be a friend or confidant. If both of them are single, it's okay to be friends after a breakup, and after a breakup, two people can't get along as lovers, but there is no need to become enemies because of this, and they don't get along with each other. Maybe you have a relationship experience, and becoming friends again may also be helpful for both parties.

    Sometimes after the relationship becomes friendship, the heart of gratitude often comes out, which is also helpful for the stability of the mentality of both parties.

    Both parties are still single, and although they can't be a couple, being friends has no other bad effects on both parties. As long as both parties are aware of the current situation and maintain a normal friendship, this is of certain positive significance for normal social life. After two people who once loved each other break up, whether they want to contact each other depends on the impact of this mutual connection on both parties.

    If it can be conducive to normal teaching, then there is nothing wrong with staying in touch. If it affects an existing relationship, such as a boyfriend and girlfriend or a marital relationship, it is advisable not to keep in touch with your ex. This is a respect for each other and a cherishing of life in the moment.

    If you like each other, and it is possible to be together, then contact is very necessary, because only in this way can two people slowly eliminate misunderstandings and start over, if you still want to start again but do not contact, it is equivalent to directly giving the relationship a death sentence, giving up all possibilities, if it is really deep love, then one day in the future, you will regret that you are not brave enough. But if you really can't be together, then don't get in touch, it should be difficult to be friends with people who have loved each other, I'm afraid you're not doing well and I'm afraid you're not doing well, so why torture yourself. Start a life without him and be yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, not contacting each other is the best, since two people have broken up, there is no need to contact, choosing not to disturb each other is the best state, there is no need to contact each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, because two people have broken up, after the breakup, it means that the two people have no relationship, so it is best not to contact.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Indeed, it is best not to contact, because it is the greatest respect for each other and a better option.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is no need, since the hall has broken up, there is no need to pretend to be respectful and contact again, which is beneficial to both parties and can make the relationship between the two drafts very simple.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is no need to contact because the two people have already broken up, and I feel that after the breakup, the two people will become strangers, so there is no need to contact.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no need to contact, after the breakup, you should still do your own part, and after too much contact, you can quietly observe Zheng, but there is no Bi that will make both parties uncomfortable.

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