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Don't be too sad, too negative, negative thoughts let you see the world is like this. In fact, there are still many good people in the world, for example, if you are in trouble now, isn't there someone to help you? How to say that no one helps you, it's just that you haven't met your real friends yet, and then you will have someone to talk to, in fact, I don't need too many friends, as long as there is a sincere one, I should be satisfied, but my interpersonal relationship is not bad, others are happy to help me, that is a kind of friendship, I used to be like you but I didn't want to live in pain, maybe still young, I don't know, I just know that everyone doesn't like me, my family doesn't like it, and now I have proved myself with my own strength, They respect me very much, and my family has begun to accept me, in short, there is nothing that cannot be solved, you have to work hard, don't be discouraged, prove yourself with strength, they will like you, use your heart to warm others, they will become your friends, work hard.
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Teach you the cheapest way to do it in the social classroom:
1.Don't be stingy with a smile.
2.Don't be stingy with praise (not for you to pat yourself on the back, of course, but think about how to make it sound better when you need to say good things).
From your question, I feel that you are a person who cares a lot about other people's eyes. Maybe you're still a strong person. Of course it's just my guess.
To achieve the highest state is to be calm and calm. Don't care what others think of you, and when you encounter difficulties, admit your mistakes more often (both in front of others and behind others), so that others will also think that you are a generous person, and their opinion of you will change.
Don't be careful, be a little elegant, treat everything as a set script, and you are the protagonist in the script.
When you are calm, your life is very light, and you will be willing to help others and care for others. Over time, others will also care about you and help you.
The social school is like this, people must be neither humble nor arrogant. Because most people are good by nature. Because of the relationship between the personalities, so all in all, treat it indifferently.
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Friend, I suggest you adjust your mentality, I have also been so confused, wondering if my charm has evaporated, why is I so lonely and helpless now, and then I realized that it was I who blocked myself.
Friend, if you want others to like you, you must first learn to appreciate others, sometimes the reason why you can't feel love and sunshine is because you only have yourself in your heart, a person who only thinks about himself, how can you be happy If you can think about others everywhere and bring the light of love to the people around you, luck will naturally come to you, and happiness and self-confidence will return to your face.
Good luck.
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Most important: social communication.
If this won't or isn't good.
I'm so sorry. You have had some failures in this life.
A lot of people say I'm very good at making friends.
Personality. Be personal.
Don't be as ordinary as others in the eyes of people.
If it's a bit of a personality. You will be very conspicuous in the hearts of others.
It's been a long time. People who like and love you.
Uninvited.
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A story that will help you:
The great painter Picasso had just learned to paint a good picture, he felt very good, and asked the teacher to comment, and the teacher told him to take the painting to the market, and let everyone who had seen the painting write down the bad points in the book, and at the end of the day, the book was full of the shortcomings of the painting, Picasso felt very frustrated and did not want to learn to paint anymore. The teacher told him to take the painting to the same market tomorrow, and asked everyone who had seen the painting to write down the good points in the book, and at the end of the day, the book was full of the merits of the painting, and Picasso went to ask the teacher. The teacher laughed and told him:
Be your own person and draw your own picture".
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Hehe, how can this be? Is it because you're ugly? No, it won't.
Do you look so bad that people don't like it? It's probably unlikely. It's good to communicate more with others, and you may not think like that because others don't want to pay attention to you, but because you always don't pay attention to others, so of course it will be like this.
I used to live like you, it's really painful, lonely and lonely, all of it. Later, I read some inspirational books, and I got much better, and I dared to communicate more with others, and I smiled at everyone every day, hoping to spread happiness to everyone around me, and I was really happy.
In fact, everyone is a person with feelings, you should care more about the people around you, don't believe them and ignore you.
Send me a message if you have a question, I have experience in this kind of thing, and I will try to help you.
Hehe. Happy to you!
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You must be exaggerating, there are always your relatives who like you.
But the reluctance of others to stay with you may be due to your own shortcomings.
I think you should be bold enough to ask them, because the person who corrects the shortcomings is very respectable.
You usually need to take the initiative to communicate with others or help others.
That's why people want to get in touch with you.
Something must be said, otherwise how will others know what you are thinking? Right.
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I'd like to ask youNo matter how difficult your situation is, you must be self-reliant. There is something that others admire.
Let's just talk about me, I'm a pretty introverted person, but my popularity is not bad, and it's not a problem to find someone to help. My classmates have a lot of respect for me. The reason is that I study better than them.
In addition to admiring you, others will of course have a good relationship with you, and they sometimes make cheat sheets, and they rely on me. Hey.
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I've had this experience and think that no one likes me, but that's not the case! Believe in yourself. Maybe you have a little problem, but it's never intentional.
Remember, take the initiative to say hello and you'll find that the sun is shining. Be sincere to others. Don't be frustrated.
Life is so long, you have to learn to be optimistic. That's how I've come all the way.
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Likes are relative!
If you want people to like you, you have to treat them with sincerity.
A smile is not a luxury, you are willing to pay to get it!
If you have to learn to cherish yourself, why do you want others to care about you when you give up on yourself?
Do more practical things, I believe that there is always a wonderful side of you that is better than others.
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Actually, I also experienced what you said, but then I realized that I wanted others to change their opinion of me. There's nothing faster than taking a step on your own. Try to take the initiative to talk to others so that you can make new friends.
Think about it, who wants to talk to someone who is bored there all day long, and doesn't think it's weird that you have a weird personality.
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First of all, I have to treat myself well, if I keep holding the idea that others don't like me, I can't be good to myself.
Communicate more with others and lend a helping hand when someone needs help. Don't just think about asking for help.
If you are good to others, others will naturally be good to you.
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The first thing is to put the past behind.
Then learn not to care about other people's eyes.
Go your own way.
Each type of person has its own circle of life.
Live your own personality.
Don't always change yourself for the sake of others.
There will always be someone who will accept you.
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Don't care if others like it or not, you are yourself.
I didn't come to this world to be liked by others.
You have a part of yourself that no one else can replace.
Care more about the people who still love you.
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How much do you care about yourself, and are you introverted? If you are not introverted, you can communicate more with others, and if you have more friends, someone will naturally like you!
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To make others like you, you have to like yourself first! Now that you feel disgusted with yourself, what are you talking about to make others like you? Is that right?
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Don't think about these sad things.
Try to take the initiative to care and help others, and you will find that life is rich and colorful, and others will also care about you.
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First of all, we must have an optimistic attitude, believe in ourselves, try to help others first, don't be anxious, change day by day through our own efforts, and it is very important to follow our own path.
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Care more about yourself (self-love) and don't care too much about other people's opinions (tolerance).When you get into this habit, friends will come!
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Find the reason from yourself, change your principles, there will be people like you, and you must be kind to others, don't always be self-centered!
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Served! You yourself know bad luck, pain and little communication with others.
You should also know how to solve your problems.
Think about it!
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Lack of communication with others, getting along with each other, learning to respect others and respect oneself.
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If you want others to like you, you must first like yourself.
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Time will tell.
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Maybe someone likes you and you don't know.
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