How to use secondary attraction to successfully redeem after a breakup?

Change yourself (** value build).

You have to understand that your relationship problems have nothing to do with your partner, it has to do with your abilities. Today, the problem between you and her, even if you have the next relationship, you will still make the same mistakes. In fact, the ultimate goal of redemption is not to redeem her, but to redeem yourself and the more attractive you.

At this stage, what you need to do is to reflect on the mistakes you have made in the relationship, think about how you can avoid similar mistakes in the future, and improve your attractiveness again. Although, in many cases, this kind of ascension is painful and tangled, but if you really make up your mind to do it, then even if it is a real breakup, your chances of redemption will still be greatly improved.

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First of all, you have to pay attention to some problems, under the premise of secondary attraction, you have to know that its real core is **, how to find its essence step by step, the most important thing is an unconscious combination, as well as humanistic concepts, emotions, complexes, and eventually will be expressed through human language and some behaviors.

If you want to get the return of your ex, what kind of people you want to attract, show the same type of charm.

To put it mildly: "If you want to catch any kind of fish, you have to lay the bait, and you have to be able to carry it clearly." Girls should be good at "showing their strengths" to make themselves unique, rather than "making up for their shortcomings", there is a word in psychology called "halo effect", and this truth is explained in simple terms.

The "halo effect", also known as the "halo effect", refers to the phenomenon that people's cognitive judgments about others are first derived mainly based on personal likes and dislikes, and then other qualities of the cognitive object are deduced from this judgment. If the cognitive object is marked as "good", it will be enveloped by a "good" aperture.

So what you need to do is to grasp the points that the other person likes and the points that you are most interested in in this redemption battle, and keep zooming in to make him feel that you are indeed different.

But it's important to note that "special" is not "special", and you don't need to exaggerate to win the crowd.

Human eyeballs, but to find their own difference from other people's biggest shining point, and carry forward this shining point, which is equivalent to giving their own charm and increasing the chips, making their "additional points" bigger. At the same time, carefully analyze your own problems, correct the shortcomings and deficiencies exposed in the long-term relationship, and make your "negative plus" item smaller.

For example, if your ex has heard that you hate your jealousy but praises you for your kindness, then you need to shift your thinking from "reducing your weaknesses" to "showing your strengths": "I'm insecure.

Often jealous, others may dislike it. Change to: "I'm so kind, others will like it." And to infinitely magnify this advantage, often do some good deeds to help others or participate in more public welfare activities.

Ninety-two percent of the second attraction can be saved.

1. Know what you're doing wrong.

The first step to making up for a mistake is to know what you're doing wrong. If you want to succeed, remember, you have to know how to compromise and change.

2. Don't entangle, don't entangle.

Don't entangle, don't entangle, don't get entangled, don't contact him again, don't go to his space to wander around, don't go to his circle of friends and Weibo** comments, don't text him. In short, cut off all contact, let him think about and review your past, including your good and your bad, and let him try to have an objective and good impression of you.

3. Enhance their own value.

01. Appearance transformation: Everyone knows that natural beauty is difficult to give up. Regardless of what he or she said about your appearance in the past, you don't have to worry about trying to change your appearance.

02. It is important to transform the external beauty from the inside, but the inner beauty is also a change in the core value.

The inner beauty in all love is the charm of your inner beauty that attracts the other person, so that the other party is very satisfied with your three views.

03. Life structureEveryone's lifestyle is different, and many people will say: what kind of person you are with determines what kind of person you are.

A positive, hard-working and optimistic lifestyle is definitely welcome, and the other person is definitely infected, but they appreciate you even more. Only by striving to enhance one's own value can one take the initiative in recovery.

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Hello, the emotional thing is successful in retrieving, but the premise is that you have to work hard to do something, and passively waiting for the emotion will not be saved.

Questions. The age of marriage is now conflicting, see if you can get back together later, can the fake pregnancy be successful.

Don't try to lie just yet, lies are easy to debunk.

Because of the contradiction?

Questions. I had a bad temper for 2 years together and he felt tired.

You can start by acknowledging your mistake or writing a long apology letter to see how he reacts.

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Secondary attraction refers to a method and technique that allows the other party to refocus on themselves and actively establish contact with themselves by changing their external image and enhancing their inner value, which can reshape your attractiveness.

Is there a salvage success in the second attraction?

The second is to redeem success, but you should pay attention to the fact that there is a process of secondary attraction, it is impossible to redeem success all at once, it takes time, what you have to do is to continue to improve yourself, make yourself excellent, let him see your changes, so that it is possible to redeem success.

Is there a salvage success in the second attraction?

This can be had, but you have to be mentally prepared, because the second attraction is more difficult, so you have to be mentally prepared and don't give up all at once.

After a breakup, if stalking will only make you very cheap in the other person's heart, he will even feel that breaking up with you is the right thing to do, and the way of stalking will only attract resentment and endless disgust from the other party. If the other party mentions breaking up at this time, you need to calm down and let time slowly fade away from some unpleasant things. After a breakup, both men and women can't help but observe each other's dynamics, and if they find that the other party is better off than themselves at this time, then he will definitely regret the decision to break up.

When the other party refuses to have any contact with you after the breakup, don't take the initiative to contact the other party at this time, only if you don't let the other party dislike you, the relationship can be salvaged. Don't let the other person feel that you are reluctant to be in this relationship, he will find himself very attractive, and even if you break up, you will never forget him, which will make him feel very fulfilled. Give him a feeling that you are still doing well even without him, and let him have a sense of frustration, so that he will involuntarily pay attention to you.

All the reasons for the breakup are fake, the feelings of both parties are weak, the three views are not in harmony, the parents do not agree, etc., these are all excuses, and there is only one reason for the breakup, that is, the lack of attractiveness, and he has lost his freshness in you. During this period of separation, you can sublimate yourself, read more books, improve your knowledge, and practice yoga, yoga can make people feel happy, and it can also change your body shape and make you look more graceful and elegant.

Let yourself appear in front of him in the most beautiful posture, let him know that you are not indispensable to him, and you will live better without him. At this time, he will find that you have become better without him, so that he has the urge to conquer you again and want to chase you back. At this time, the decision is in your hands, whether you want to be with him again or not.

In fact, I personally don't think it's necessary, once he loses his freshness, maybe he will choose to break up with you, and you have a better choice to become excellent, as the saying goes, it makes sense that a good horse doesn't eat back grass, of course, this is my personal opinion, I hope it will help you.

The trick of secondary attraction is real change.

Only after you change some of your bad behaviors and shortcomings, then the other party will have a new understanding of you.

Only if you become better and more attractive, then the other party will be willing to accept you again.

First of all, you should correct the shortcomings that the other party thinks you should correct in the process of getting along, and then make yourself better and shinier, so that the other party may see you again, and you will want to continue to be with you in the future.

After the breakup, you should properly create a sense of mystery for the other party, so that there can be a sense of freshness, and he is willing to approach you. It's best to show yourself as a learner and self-motivated.

First of all, when you break up, you should be generous, your posture should be higher, don't hurt the other party, you should break up peacefully, after the breakup, you should continue to care about the other party, continue to help each other if you have difficulties, and carefully analyze the reasons for the breakup, strive to change, strive to improve, let the other party see your changes, and boldly and bravely confess to the other party again.

After a breakup, what is the second attraction and recovery technique, first of all, the experience of the first breakup, and then you feel that you still can't let go of him, you can continue to chase her, and then learn the lessons of the first breakup, and then continue to chase her to be good to him, I think this can be redeemed, with sincerity for sincerity.

If you want to get back together with the other person for the second time after breaking up, you can put more thought into it, such as creating a little surprise for the other person. In this way, sometimes the other person will be able to think of the kind of beautiful thing that two people just started together. It will be possible to come back together.

First of all, let the other party calm down for a period of time, at least two to three weeks; Second, don't cut off contact, but don't communicate too often; Third, work hard to improve your abilities and change the reasons that led to the breakup.

After the breakup, if you feel regretful and want to redeem it, I think the best way is to let him see your strengths and see your changes like that, so that he can sincerely restore him.

The second attraction is good at using emotional freezing to stalk after breaking up, and even making all kinds of behaviors that are well known to everyone, will only make the other party disgusted, and even directly black, mentality is more important than method, first enhance your own value, constantly improve yourself, the stronger the sense of need, the more you grasp the initiative.

After the breakup, if you still want to redeem the other party with your own personality charm, then you have to work hard to improve your current situation, under normal circumstances, if you can continue to attract the other party, only if you are better than the other party, stronger, more attractive, can effectively attract the other party.

In fact, when it comes to this skill, you must be more sincere than the last time, your attitude is more sincere, and the gift must be more valuable than the first time, so as to prove your sincerity.

After two people break up, if they really want to save this relationship, they definitely need their own efforts and changes. If you want to save this relationship, there is no skill, because saving it requires sincere dedication and sincere self-change.

The best technique is to change yourself, let the other party feel that you are different, and then play the emotional card, so that he keeps recalling your feelings, and there is a high chance of redemption.

The first thing is to impress the other party with true feelings, and you must communicate more with each other, communicate with each other more, and then you also need to understand each other's hobbies and interests, and finally become what the other party likes, and you must seize the opportunity.

If you want to redeem after a breakup, you have to let the other party recall your happy moments, and usually chat more about the sweetness of the relationship between the two people, so that the probability of getting back together will be much greater.

First of all, you need to calm down and let time wash away some unpleasantness. Change from passive to active, so as to actively seek compound focus, self-improvement, and make yourself better. Dress modestly and don't get too showy.

The technique of secondary attraction after a breakup is mainly to improve the charisma value of the individual. For example, to improve your taste and dress. Improve your self-cultivation. All of these are factors that belong to secondary attraction.

If you want the other party to change your mind about yourself, then you must work hard to improve your connotation and pay attention to the appearance of dressing, so that you can have a new look.

After a breakup, if you want to get back together, you must know if the other party feels more about you? Do you have? Those who recombine may understand these situations and make judgments and choices later.

I think I need to improve my charisma, and I should also attract them, and at the same time, I need to impress them with my sincerity.

Pretending to be pitiful, many times, such routines are still more popular, and most of them can save this relationship.

After the breakup, through the second attraction, it is easy to redeem the other party: reduce the needs of the other party, distinguish the main reasons for the breakup, in the process of recovery, do not let the other party have a sense of resistance to you, recovery is a gradual process, do not think that you can solve it as soon as possible, self-improvement is the core, in-depth communication and meeting, so that you can show your affection, and will not reduce your own value.