Can you still be friends after a breakup, and can you still be friends after a breakup?

In fact, how to say it, I think people of about the same age will have such experiences and feelings, contradictions, confusion, pain and even reluctance But, think about it carefully, what are we insisting on like this? If you choose to continue to be friends, then why did you rashly start a relationship with no ending in the first place; If you choose to end, does that mean everything should be buried? In fact, the result of all problems is still two words:

Time. Maybe I'm telling you right now that you still need time, and you don't like to hear it, or even annoy me. To be honest, I also annoy myself, because I think of my former relationship again, and I think of the former her.

But no matter what the reason for the breakup, there will always be a reason. Maybe let go of your hands, and the two of them will be happier, at least happier! If the relationship is too tired, it is not happiness.

I think you can do whatever you want now, and it's good to be friends, but a lot of things don't happen to us, for example, you didn't want to believe that you would break up when you were together, right? Feelings can end, memories can be kept, and don't continue to hurt each other, but life still has to go on, and I hope you both can be happy, which is the most important thing.

I think so.

Yes, but I rarely speak.

It depends on what caused the breakup, most of the breakups are not very pleasant, and only a few people can break up peacefully. Therefore, the sad party is bound not to want to receive messages from the other party again, even if it is good to get together and disperse and finally become friends, then you may be able to send messages to each other occasionally during the period of breakup, but as time goes by, as the life trajectories of both parties gradually drift apart, silence between each other is the final destination of two people. Without feelings, it will eventually be dull.

Hello! Kiss!

It's up to you, if you really don't have any feelings, and you feel that the other party's personality is suitable to be friends, then you can be friends.

One more friend.

One more way, if you still have feelings for him (her), then don't look for yourself.

Don't talk about it.,It depends on what the reason is to break up.,Friends are also hierarchical.,There are few friends in this society who can become very real.。。。

You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make me sad and uncomfortable, neither can I advance or retreat, since I have broken up, I will completely quit, a happy life, and happiness is the only pursuit now.

I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers.

You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends?

No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

3. Mao said that the coming and going of everything in the world are his own time, and he can't force it.

Don't be discouraged I believe God is merciful

It's just that the love code that belongs to you hasn't been revealed yet

I don't know how to love others

I think it's okay to be nice to him and not do anything to hurt him

Be considerate of each other and be humble to each other

I feel like that's nothing more than love

Don't put too much scheming into it

Such pure love is beautiful.

Don't keep saying you need someone else to take care of you

You have to live your own life with the knowledge of yourself.

Everything you have is yours! Let yourself live your life a little more exciting, if you have to have a better half

Haven't I lived for so many years? Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

I think it's better not to be friends, because if you break up, the other party will be hurt very badly, and you may not be able to let go of it. You'll be missed. If you become friends with him, he will feel that there is a silver lining, and it may hurt even more in the end.

That's what I experienced. So don't be friends anymore. It's not good for each other.

Some can't, some can't, everyone's attitude towards breakup is different, some people are completely closed, and they don't even make friends, and some people feel that goodbye is also friends, at least it's okay to say hello.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......

After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

Love is the most loyal and unreliable thing in the world, time passes, love fades, and the people who love each other are scattered.

The breakup is because there is a relationship problem between the two parties.

In general.

It can't be done.

But there are always exceptions.

It's still possible.

I'd love to answer that. I just broke up with my boyfriend three days ago, he asked me if I can still be friends, I said no, in fact, this is not absolute, this is just to say whether you are deep or not, I think I am not bad for him, but what I got is this result, I am unwilling, I am not happy, I have cried for him for a long time, maybe you will call me stupid, but I don't think so, I told him that as long as he is happy, if I can't give him happiness one day, I will definitely let go of his hand and let him pursue his own happiness, So I'm not going to be friends with him anymore.

If it's you, according to your own situation, you think it's too much, and if it breaks your heart, don't be friends, if you think it's okay, then you should continue to be friends and cheer up.

I think that now that we have broken up, there is no need to entangle each other anymore. Because if you are friends again, the wounds of two people will never be able to **....

It's up to you.

Generally speaking, people who spend a lot of time together become friends.

Because you know each other.

It doesn't take long to become the most familiar stranger.

Because you don't love each other very much yet.

Maybe you can forgive her, but what if you still love her? When every time you just communicate with friends, you force yourself not to show any feelings, and every time you think of the sweet words of the past and the present, you will find that you can't choose friends at all, and if you still become friends, then in fact, you are still holding the hope that you can be together.

You can remember her in the way of a friend, and forget her from the perspective of a lover. Isn't that great? If you have really loved you, you can't be a stranger at all, that's all nonsense, and being a lover friend is also a kind of because you haven't lost her.

After breaking up, you can't be friends anymore, because you have hurt each other, and you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other, therefore, people after the breakup have become the most familiar strangers!

If you become friends, then how to define the love and love you talked about before, there is no so-called "pure" friend 、、、 in the world

Not necessarily.

A couple who has really loved can't be a couple, if you are friends again, you will know his news, see him, and when you know that he has a girlfriend, you will be even sadder.

Friends are better than strangers, and strangers are better. Not knowing anything about him.

If you haven't let go, you can't, you can let go completely, and it depends on the circumstances under which you break up. When you can't let go of the person who is far away, you are always afraid of losing when you want to be a friend, and that feeling is still there, and being a friend is just deceiving yourself. Unless you really don't have a little feeling for people, if you don't have an aversion to it, it's natural to be friends.

As long as there is no feeling at all, it is difficult to make trouble, and if it is not good, it will see people thinking about the old and tearful, the key is that the other party's thoughts must be the same.

Once unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Look at your former lover, kiss me and me with others, rejoice, you will definitely have... Why bother making your own drama for yourself?

If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship? It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it or throw it away, and welcome a new life...

If you break up, why be friends again?

Otherwise, what a word to break up...

At least the breakup needs to be cold and ruthless at the time, otherwise how can you bear to separate, there are not a few things that are untidy and messy, in fact, the ruthlessness at that time is good for both parties, if you are very calm with each other in the future, maybe you can be friends again, very calm friends. After that, you will feel that when you break up, you will be firm and good to everyone, so that each other can find the true love that truly belongs to you.

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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

Of course, if no one ignores anyone after the breakup, it proves that you didn't love each other before, how to say that you used to be the person you loved, although you broke up, it won't affect being friends.

It depends on what your mentality is about this relationship, if you have loved vigorously, or even your first love Then I think it's better for you not to be the friend, it's better not to even know the best, because you have loved, she will leave a scar in your psyche, when you drink or have insomnia in the middle of the night, you can't help but think about her will hit her, especially knowing that she has a boyfriend, then you will be even more painful Then it's not good So it's best not to have news of her, Bury her in the depths of the psyche, and gradually forget it, and then you will find your other half, and then your mentality will not be the same as at the beginning, if you have never loved her, just playing, then you can be friends with her, then you will not be heartbroken when you see her heart, so this depends on you personally But since you will say this problem, I believe that you are true love, then I suggest that you still don't be friends, and you don't even know her news

No, because breaking up means that each other has hurt each other, perhaps, after many years, this feeling in my heart has become a memory, and I don't have the previous feelings for each other, and each other has a new happiness. I think we might be making friends at that time.

My answer is very simple, loved, cried, laughed, hit, made trouble, sometimes we don't necessarily have any results, think about how sweet you were before or how distressed, in fact, there is no enemy after the breakup, the girlfriend before the breakup naturally continues to have contact after the breakup, of course, if the encounter is a mutiny, then I have nothing to say, in fact, even if I encounter a mutiny, there is nothing to think about, maybe you really have some places that are not too good, Maybe someone has been touched by another person These are possible, in fact, you have to thank him She may not have your sweetness in the future if she doesn't give up from him, love is two-sided, not dominated by someone's thoughts, people say that men and women in love are fools, this is actually very reasonable, because loving each other's eyes are full of each other's advantages, and the eyes will not see and feel any shortcomings of each other. Since you have chosen to give up, everyone is still friends, although you will slowly forget about it in the future, after all, you used to be friends, there is no need to act like mortal enemies, slowly everything will be fine I believe you will manage your feelings.