Those who have college love experience, those who are sincere, and enter the !! 30

My current boyfriend and I are high school classmates, and we didn't go to the same city in college. After graduating, I went to his city to develop.

I think the key to two people wanting to be together is to see how strong the will of both parties is.

I can provide some suggestions to you: such as frequent contact, you can chat QQ, **chat, text message... Kindness... You can also copy your text messages, both of them have to copy them, and then exchange them, which can be a good souvenir.

After a quarrel, solve it as quickly as possible... Both sides should be honest about their responsibilities.

If you have the opportunity, you must meet, you can take a souvenir, in duplicate, and take a look if you think about it.

It may still be possible during school, but after graduation, it depends on how deep the relationship between the two of you is, but it is generally difficult not to be in the same city.

Try it, chat with QQ first, and if he is willing to chat with you, then hit **.

It's hard. But it's not impossible.

Why give up a forest for a tree?

Campus romance is wonderful, but such a wonderful relationship will be stumbling at the beginning of the distance, and there will be some concerns; Let your feelings run wild and don't think too much; Because after graduating, you will find that everything is no longer simple, it is already a terrible reality; Therefore, cherish the good times of campus romance and let the good things be treasured in the bottom of my heart

No! It's very realistic, I graduated from high school to college, and my 5-year relationship in the same city finally went out! It's just that you're meeting someone you like right now

That's it, I haven't seen a long-distance relationship for long in college.

College students don't have to be in a relationship. Love is not only for college life, but also for your whole life, it is not a necessity, just a spice. If fate doesn't arrive, you don't need to deliberately pursue love, and the deliberate pursuit of love may affect your normal life, and the gains outweigh the losses.

So under what circumstances can we choose to be in love? I think it's just four words, "let it be". My college love happened in a club, and I met a boy in a club event, and we had similar interests and common topics, so we fell in love.

I didn't pursue anything in the process, and although we ended up separating for various reasons, this relationship still left me with a lot of good memories. So you see, even if you fall in love in college, you don't necessarily get to the end. Isn't it a good relationship to fall in love after work?

What we want to do is not to let go of everyone who is destined, rather than deliberately doing those so-called "things that must be done".

It's common for college students not to be in a relationship. Many of my friends didn't fall in love in college, but they are still living happily. They actively learn and gain a wealth of knowledge; They worked hard to intern and gain a wealth of work experience; They actively participated in public welfare activities and helped many people; They also have a lot of friends, and they are usually satisfied with eating, drinking, and having fun with their friends.

It can be seen that love is not a necessity of college life in the first place, and each of us can take a different campus path.

Of course, I'm not saying that college students can't fall in love, and there are quite a few people who fall in love on campus to the end. It's just that we must not abandon the basics, in college life, learning is always the most important theme, and after we have completed the study task, we can certainly enjoy the sweetness of love. Don't sacrifice your studies and life for love.

We must always remember that learning is our first priority, and love can only be the icing on the cake.

You should be in love in college. Because the general study tasks in college will be easier, in addition to studying, college life will be more dull and boring, at this time falling in love will make your college life more fulfilling. And when you fall in love in college, you can love Chunlun Love, which is relatively pure, and campus love is relatively pure, and there is no material added to it, and everyone doesn't need to think about it too much, as long as you are excited about each other, and college campus love is also relatively beautiful, and it is a memory of youth.

I personally suggest that you can still fall in love in college, because out of college you will find it difficult to meet the right one, and when you graduate from graduation, you will consider more things about falling in love, unlike in college, love is more pure, just simply like each other, willing to be with each other, and in the student days, you can be impulsive in love, how you like it, and you can also be very willful, but Bino Xinye will no longer have this momentum, and there will be more things to consider. So you can cherish the good college time and have a heart-warming love. College love is relatively beautiful, two people like each other, go to class together, eat together, inseparable, although they will also quarrel, there will be contradictions, but as long as the other party coaxes can be reconciled, their happiness is so simple, two people accompany each other, so that the whole college time is enriched, you will feel that your college time is very sweet.

I feel regretful after graduating from college without falling in love, but I didn't fall in love when I was so good to commemorate my youth. So when you meet the right person in college, you should rush bravely, hold the opportunity to have a sweet love, but don't forget to study, don't fail in college, in addition to sweet love, you still need to care about your academic performance.

When choosing a first love partner, it is best not to choose the following three types of people.

Clause. 1. Stay away from greasy, official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people.

If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing.

When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty appearance in the eyes of those around you.

When you fall in love in college, you can go to those who are capable of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent. But you must not look for those who "have no ability, only put on an official and read hail shelves", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and those who are close to ink are black.

Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

Clause. Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I'm just suggesting that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and a good way to deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.

But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating.

After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love. When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.

Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

Clause. 3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years.

If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become useless and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement.

To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany Chi Fan and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities.

If you want to fall in love in college, first of all, you must see clearly what kind of person the other person is, whether he is a person who does not take love seriously, or a single-minded person.

Second, if you really want to have a good talk, you must not look for someone who is far away from home, in short, try not to start if you can.

Third, don't take this cynical heart of Liang Nianzai, and treat feelings well.

I think college students should pay attention to two points in love, the first point is that He Mao talks about taking into account the actual situation of the individual, to do things to the extent that they can, and the second point is not to delay learning, although love is beautiful, but the main task of the university is to complete the study.

College Student Love Questionnaire.

1What is your current relationship status? （ c ）

2.What is your attitude towards whether college students should be in a relationship? (c)3 What do you think is the motivation for college students to fall in love?

a) 4 If you are choosing or already have a lover, what do you value most about the other person? (b) 5. When you meet someone you like, do you take the initiative to pursue it? (d) 6. How do you feel about the couples around you?

a )7.If there is a conflict between love and school, what will you choose? (d) 8. What do you think is the bottom line of love?

a) 9Do you think you will continue to be in a relationship or get married with your lover after graduation? (c)10 If you fell out of love, what would you be? (b) Tertiary students.

The advantage is to make yourself mature, experience something that will not be so naïve, truly understand love, and go out in the future with fewer detours.

The male is the one who can prevent **.

Women can save a lot of pocket money.

Except that you are hanging up and looking at each other without pressure....

One: Stable life.

Two: I have a secure marriage.

Three: Allow yourself to mature.

Four: This is the most important point: the family is relieved, and the parents are less worried.

Because I was in a relationship when I was in college, and even though we have broken up now, I don't regret it at all, because I personally think it was a life experience that allowed us to grow.

You can gain experience. It's good to be in love more.

College romance has no worries and won't worry about later life, as most will eventually break up.

Enrich life, supervise each other, and make progress with each other.

I agree that there is a little bit of immaturity upstairs.

Yes, it's not boring.

The success rate of natural development together is 10 out of 10 and the happiness index is 20 out of 100

If you insist on being together, the success rate is 30 percent, and the happiness index is 30 points.

If both parties stick together, the success rate is 70 percent, and the happiness index is 60 points.

You face three major problems.

1. Graduation is separated from each other, which will inevitably test your dedication to love, and it will also go through the washing of time, which is undoubtedly a severe test.

2. You have to go to Beijing for men, this is a more difficult problem than anything Why do you know If I love me, I won't throw my roots.

3. You have to endure too much gossip and the ideological work of your family.

4. After graduating and coming into contact with society, the dynamics of students' thinking change rapidly, and no one dares to guarantee who will still love whom in the future, and perhaps everyone will meet another future him or her.

These 4 realities can undoubtedly boast of too much love.

It is advisable to break up early and get rid of it early, the wrong love is wrong at any time, persistence or just a struggle.

But if there is a love that transcends reality, maybe your love is really that strong, or bless you.

Friend, this still needs to be analyzed.

It's not clear, and points are your only option.

The success rate is definitely zero.

Even if you come together, you won't be very happy.

But in the end, how.

It's better for you to decide.

Kid, I'll help you analyze and analyze:

First, the success rate of long-distance relationships is 20%.

Second, the conditions are almost the same, the family will not object, the success rate is 50% Third, one goes to graduate school, one does not go to graduate school, and the success rate is 30%.

Fourth, you can influence him, with a 70% success rate

Fifth, the success rate of the transition period is 20%, and the success rate is 30% for all going to Beijing, and the family environment is affected, and the success rate is 10%.

To sum up, the probability of your success is 20%x50%x30%x70%x20%x30%x10%=126 1000000= about 1 in 10,000.