I don t want to marry in my hometown, but my parents don t follow me and I m dead, so I don t know w

The future life is you and him, if you are with someone you don't love, you may suffer for a lifetime, not only hurting you but also hurting your boyfriend who has been with you for five years, after all, it is difficult to find someone who loves each other; You might as well say to your mother that if you love me and love me, don't persuade me. I already have someone to love; If I had to, I would not be happy, and I would have been miserable for the rest of my life; Although this may hurt the family, it is important to let your parents know that you have grown up and have their own right to decide what is right; You may be able to find someone who is closer to your father to help you, and explain your situation to him, and I think he will help you;

Look at your choice, such outsiders can't help you, you can find someone who speaks in front of your parents to talk to your parents, you can also ask the man you like to touch your parents, no matter how you do, you have to remember that your parents are for your good, but it is your parents' fault if you are unreasonable, after all, you are married to someone who wants to live with you for a lifetime, the man is willing to wait for you, and you have been together for so long, it can be seen that he is also a person who really loves you, so what if you don't want it??? Don't wait for love to be gone before you know you regret it!!

Remember not to regret your choice!!

Leave my opinion on it:

First of all, I think you can't express it clearly: "He said that I still love you very much, no matter how you choose, I will wait for you, I think now they should be satisfied, half a year has passed, suddenly he said that he wants to marry me, I found that I have another person living in my heart, I was suddenly afraid, I don't love him, I can't live with him for a lifetime, and he is waiting for me, just when I don't know what to do, he appeared in my world again, he said he has been waiting for me, we cried again." In the end, I chose him, we love each other, why should we be separated.

And then if it's me, I'm going to stiffen for a while, why? Because what I have to do is a choice, if you want Mom and Dad, you will not be happy in the future, if you want a boyfriend, if you lose him in the future, you will really be homeless.

Touched

Be sure to be with your boyfriend for so many years .

If you really love him, and he loves you, I think you should get along well. Parents will eventually be touched by your love and agree. The key is that you prove it with deeds.

Faith is firm faith.

If you are suspicious, you will divide it immediately.

It's useless to be distracted.

If you really love each other, then prove it to your parents, you will be happy in the future, you will be happy, if you give up now because of your parents' opposition, then in the future you will find someone who loves you more, but you can't find an identical person, since ancient times, parents can't resist their children, as long as you think he can give you happiness, then let your parents be angry for a while, but your parents won't have anything to do, they are afraid that you will marry in a foreign country and be unhappy, if you can't, you will leave your parents for a while, and slowly your parents will agree and accept it, especially after having children.

I saw a journal and it was very well written! This is your case.

Then let the other party go to your city.

Long-distance relationships aren't particularly good.

Talk to them, find relatives or something, and communicate well with your parents. If you really can't do it, you will force each other to die, you must not do it, it's just scary, my method is more extreme...I've also seen people who were forced together by their parents, and although they ended up living together, that incident will always be in my heart and indelible.

The "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China" stipulates that men shall not marry earlier than the age of 22, and women shall not marry earlier than the age of 20, unless there are other adaptations of ethnic minorities, so you have two that do not comply with the law, the legal minimum age for marriage has not been reached, even if you can't get a marriage certificate Now the marriage law guarantees the freedom of marriage It is not legal for your parents to force you to get married, if you don't want to get married, you can not get married, I hope it can help you.

This is a difficult question, and if there are any good suggestions and solutions, there really is none.

What age is it still like this?

Is it because you are disobedient?

I don't know why your mom is so extreme, but I think there's only one possibility, and that's that in your mom's mind, the man is probably the person she thinks will give you the most happiness and the most worthy of your life, even though it doesn't seem like that to you, I think you should talk to your mom about it, and the extreme parents in the world are definitely thinking about you, but sometimes they may not know much about us as children, and we have grown up and have our own ideas, and you have to start with your dad now Dad generally loves his daughter very much, you have to go with your dad to persuade your mom to open your heart, talk to the family well, if your mom is still forced to die, then you should also learn to be smart, you cry and you say that you die, I will die, so she will definitely not mention it again, of course, you have to be real, you can't debunk it, believe me, as long as your parents really care about you, they must be willing to respect their daughter's pursuit of happiness, you have to talk to them well, the other party is not the type you like.

Everybody! How can there be such a mother? It's too feudal.

Your mother is just scaring you and grabbing your weakness, otherwise you will find a colleague or classmate to pretend to be your boyfriend another day, just say that you already have a boyfriend, see what she says.

The current mother is still like this, and she is indeed a little uncivilized, mobilizing the rest of the family to convince her.

Your idea is very correct, love is the foundation that supports marriage, I suggest you go underground, and at the same time release the word, saying that the other party is not married, just consume it, and the final victory belongs to you. Unreasonable parents can only be treated like this. After a long time, they will compromise.

Get a marriage certificate and find someone to tell them that they are pregnant, and it will be too late not to hold a banquet (lie to them).

In the future, as long as you want to do it, you can go back and do it, and you won't care about other people's feelings at all.

However, this is just a childish willfulness underneath.

It is also okay to think that you can get the consent of other relatives and then pull them to intercede and say good things about your affairs.

Marriage is not their parents' business, so I want to say that no matter what, fate is in their own hands.

Regret or not, regret or not, hate or not, as long as you decide for yourself, you can't blame others.

What does it have to do with the nation, I can't understand it.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China.

Marriage is free.

No one else may interfere for any reason.

It mainly depends on whether the two of you love each other or not.

If you love each other, you get married.

Leave it to anyone's mind and good luck.

I don't know how your boyfriend's family is raised or how his work is. I'll help you analyze it objectively here, your boyfriend and his family are not good enough, because you pay the most, but your family is indeed a little too difficult, so you really can't get by, you can't bear it and you can only give up, to be honest, even if it is done, there will still be a knot in the future, unless you can live a good life in two days.

No matter what the result is with him, you have to choose the road under your feet, you are an adult, your parents and sister have no right to control you like a puppet for the rest of your life, you have to learn to be independent, as for the part of the bride price, to put it bluntly, your family is selfish, in order to share the bride price equally, only use conditions to pave the way, As for how much, how much you can give, you and your boyfriend discuss it, don't turn the man's hard-earned money into the meat on the mouth of the interest.

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs

Things will develop into the situations you said, and when they arise, it is no longer possible to deal with them by listening to your side alone.

Hold on, never mention marriage in the future, in the end it is them who are anxious, there is no parent in the world who can win their children, if you and your boyfriend can always stick together, then in the end you will definitely have a good ending, now work hard to make money, two people work together, hope to adopt.

There are few such parents in the world, and they are not worthy of being your parents.

How is the landlord doing now?I'm also having the same problem as you, what should I do.

My husband and I are in the east and the other in the north, and my parents didn't agree with it before, but then my parents figured it out and said: Parents only give you advice, as for deciding to choose for yourself. Because my parents were worried that if they stopped me, I was afraid that I would hate them later.

So agreed. I also chose my own vision, lived happily with my husband, and had a lovely baby son.

I ran away from home with my boyfriend and came back later.

Divide it, there are no good men in Henan.

In the end, did you break up with your boyfriend?There is also a fight, you give your tender boyfriend a run.

Beauty: You're in a similar situation to me.

If that boy genuinely likes you and lets your mom see how he behaves to you, be moved and succeed.

Hold it off for a while, wait until your mother's anger is gone, and then try to find out why you don't agree.........

Family is the best for you. Think about it calmly. Then decide for yourself.

Rationally examine which side to choose, one is the one I love and the other is the one who loves me.