What do you think of my grandparents practices?

In the eyes of young people, many old people are incomprehensible. Moreover, some elderly people do have a lot of inappropriate practices towards their children due to their personality and life experience, so I can believe the examples you said.

Listen to your description: Grandparents are farmers, right? And you and your parents don't see whether they are farmers or not, but what you can realize is that your father seems to be quite able to make money.

First of all, we who have not experienced the long period of extreme poverty and extreme hardship experienced by the peasants, especially the older generation of peasants, can hardly understand how terrible that kind of life is to the physical and mental destruction of people, and you don't have to try to understand it, it is impossible.

Second, the examples you gave should have come from your parents' descriptions, right? That's not all, trust me. But you can also see that your parents are still very filial to the elderly, which is very good.

Grandparents are not all kinds of things, your parents, especially your father, can still be tolerant, they are very kind. Taste family affection with your heart, what is parenting, what is family affection, what is blood thicker than water, you will slowly understand.

They have given us life and nurtured us, so what can we ask of them? Aren't the benefactors who have given us the greatest pillars of our careers all based on the dedication of the two people who gave us lives?

I think your grandfather's approach is just a little different from that of other grandfathers. However, there are some things that your grandfather might have done for his own reasons. After all, the elderly are much more experienced than our society, but due to the changes of the times, it has also led to a big difference between us and them in many aspects, such as living habits, which is the generation gap.

So, sometimes, you don't have to worry too much about them. I think you should be understanding of your grandfather, and it is our duty to respect and support our parents and their elders, and we should treat them with gratitude and care.

In fact, it seems that they are a bit excessive, but they are old people, and they have to do what they should do as younger generations! That's the obligation! Because my grandparents didn't care about it when I was a child, but my parents still honored them because they were elders!

Besides, everyone has a time when they are old, and it is also appropriate to give children a role model! Let the past be a thing of the past, and not remembering "grudges" is the greatest tolerance! It is also the most admirable and convincing!

We don't have the right to evaluate the practices of the elderly, but we should honor our elders, because they gave you life, and without them there would be no current you, so I don't think you should bring these to here, you should think about how to change their views on your family!!

What a big deal that is, Boss.

Hmph, feel it with your own heart, alas.

These little kids. Look at the list you have given. It's all something that can be seen and heard. How you feel in your heart, helpless, right, tsk, you've figured things out, wow?

I think it's better to be there and watch it anyway. It is.. Secretly ** kind of and then don't speak, and then the answer will be clear in your heart. I hate some people too. Leaning on the old and selling the old.

Just like the guy in front.

Let me tell you, in my world, only those who should be filial are those who should be filial Someone who is not of grade People who are scheming with me Hmph Don't be blind What is filial piety. Shun Lu Shun they mean then you can't listen to them very much, if you can't get used to it, then be quiet. Hide what you know.

Alas.. I lived most of my life.

What do you say and don't do anything, you have to be filial piety. Hmph: Funny.

The test also uses to find scolding.

It must be that your parents don't respect your grandparents and make them distrust you.

Let's talk to my grandparents.

Summary. Hello! We're happy to answer for you! My grandparents' perception of me is that in the eyes of my grandparents, you will always be a "child who doesn't grow up".

Hello! We're happy to answer for you! My grandparents' perception of me is that in the eyes of my grandparents, you will always be a "child who doesn't grow up".

Dad's parents are our grandparents. Grandparents will pay a lot to us, and generally open letters are very fond of us, Luchanglun's parents are busy with work, and our school life is basically taken care of by grandparents. They dedicate their abilities without regrets and ask for anything in return, they are the loveliest people.

We should do our best to be filial to them and let them live happily!

Summary. In our eyes, grandparents are the most amiable, approachable, selfless and dedicated old people in the world, they have suffered all their lives, the thick calluses on their hands make people feel distressed, they have spent their lives thrifty, and left the good ones to our next generation.

Grandparents are the most amiable, approachable, selfless dedication of the old man in our eyes, they have suffered all their lives, the thick calluses on their hands make people feel distressed, thrifty and thrifty have spent their lives, and left the good ones to our later state generations.

When it comes to the generation of grandparents, they are already retired age, and their usual life is still very happy when they don't have to worry about food and clothing. Nowadays, almost all the old people live in their hometowns, and young people are not together, after all, everyone's living habits are different, so the daily life is to live their own small life, and there is no need to work in the field, as long as the health is already very good. One:

Take care of a small piece of open space in front of the door. Although the old people say that they don't have any work, they will not be idle in their daily lives, unlike young people, who live a very rich life, playing mobile phones, chasing dramas, etc. For grandparents, the biggest interest every day is to take care of the potato area in front of their door, in the spring planted a lot of vegetables, and when the autumn harvest is really a big harvest in a small field, all kinds of vegetables can meet the daily needs.

Two: raise all kinds of chickens, ducks and dogs. In the rural hometown may be like this, every family will raise some small animals, in addition to the empty Tong can bring happiness to their own lives, but also to pass the time, every day to feed cats and dogs and the like, also very fulfilling, and when the chicks grow slippery and lose big, they can also lay eggs, every day can eat the eggs laid by the free-range chickens at home, every time they come home, grandparents always leave a lot of fresh eggs for themselves, very nutritious, Let it be taken home, whether it is boiled and eaten with dates or steamed.

My grandmother has gotten used to my work and thinks it's a sign of being close to her.

Then watch me quietly, and if I do it too hard, she will tell my parents, and then ask my parents to clean me up, if it is not too ruthless, it will be as if nothing happened.

My grandmother scoffed at my comparison, because people in their time were straightforward.

My grandma won't care about me because she has a patriarchal mindset and she won't care what I do.

My grandmother would worry about me, think I was overdoing it, and always behave in a way that people couldn't understand.

My grandma always felt that I liked to do some bells and whistles and was not down-to-earth.

My grandmother thinks I'm very ignorant, I'm such a big person, and I'm so disobedient, and it's worrying.

My grandmother was still very tolerant of me, and would watch me silently while I was doing.

My grandmother would think I was squeamish and that I was always looking for trouble, and she would always criticize me and ask me to get rid of it.

My grandmother thought my work was very childish, so she never got used to me, and she beat me every time I did it.

The benefits of intergenerational education are obvious, and when the children are with the grandparents, parents can work more seriously and focus more on their children, instead of thinking about their children while thinking about work every day. In this way, it makes up for the shortcomings of parents' time shortages. On the other hand, parents' education is sometimes not completely guaranteed, and sometimes the parent's education method may not be liked by the child, and the child may be able to get a better life by changing the personal education.

There are also obvious disadvantages for the elderly with children.

1. The old man has outdated thinking and can't keep up with the pace of modernity.

The thoughts of grandparents are still stuck in the last era, and the old ideas have been deeply ingrained in their hearts, and it is difficult for outsiders to change. And sometimes these ideas don't apply to the current concept of parenting.

2. It's easier to spoil children.

Grandparents may also come from their parents all the way from their children, so sometimes they will spoil their children more, so that the children can meet any of their needs, which is not conducive to the development of children to a certain extent, and even counterproductive. Parents are more able to cater to their children's needs because they know when to do what they should do to their children.

3. It is easy to have parenting differences.

Parents and grandparents have their own ideas on many parenting issues, and they can easily extend from parenting differences to family conflicts, and if they are not handled well, it is not good for children, parents and families.

The elderly, like children, have a strong desire to express themselves, and they have a strong sense of self-esteem and love faces. But because of his age, he is somewhat unable to do anything in all aspects, so he is a little unconfident and even inferior.

We should be able to imagine the hearts and conditions of the elderly.

Therefore, when we get along with the elderly, we should pay attention to these psychology of the elderly.

Especially when persuading the elderly, we must pay attention to the self-esteem of the elderly, and save face for the elderly, the elderly love face very much, because of face, many times he knows that he is wrong, and he will not change it.

Therefore, some people say that the old man is a child, and he has to be coaxed.

The old people are very smart, just a little mention. But be sure to pay attention to the method. If there is a mistake, the old man is very willing to change it.

But due to the different eras, different eras, different life experiences, and different values, what we think is wrong, they may not necessarily think that it is wrong.

Even what we think is right is not necessarily right.

So this requires us to understand each other, to understand.

Therefore, we must know how to care and be considerate of the elderly.