After the breakup, why did he do it, what kind of mentality

He sends you a text message asking if you are happy, maybe he is testing you, seeing if you care about your breakup, and whether it hurts for you to leave him?

The second time you texted, maybe because your attitude was more resolute, so he thought he would never have a chance again, so let you find a good one.

And what you add below, you can see that he really likes you, and you, I want to ask, do you think you really love him? I don't feel it from your tone.

If you feel that you love him, don't hesitate, get back together It can be seen that he has been trying to go back to the past with you, but he has been beaten back by you lukewarmly every time, but he can insist, which means that he is sincere!

He is not actually cowardly, but, (emotional matters, unexplainable) has no self-confidence, is uncertain, afraid of scaring you, afraid of being rejected, afraid that you will turn around and ignore him

In the end, such a man is really rare and cherished!

You can see it. The man inside is very shy about feelings.

It can also be seen that he likes you very much, but it seems that you just treat him as an older brother.

If he says to you be his girlfriend.

You can. No, pretend you didn't hear.

And then afterwards when the two of them are together.

You can say: you are very gracious. Just like my brother. Can we keep our brother and sister relationship like this forever?

This is not only tactful and fun, you don't agree to be his girlfriend. And. It doesn't hurt feelings.

This is just a suggestion.

Practical actions need to be considered.

Hold on, don't say anything back, and change from passive to active, take the initiative to care about him, take care of him, and help him reverie the future, if he can't let go of you, he will not be able to hold it immediately.

A woman must not marry someone else without proposing, but you must let him propose first.

When he used to chase me, he would only test me, and I said no, and he played with me like a brother for 6 years."

I was very moved, and others said it so well.

Maybe he just wants to know about you, but he has broken up and can't be the same as before.

Tell us about his personality traits.

As we all know, the emotional state of boys and girls after a breakup is not the same. If a relationship ends, the girl will be relatively sad, and even longing for reconciliation, hoping to return to the original state. After the boy breaks up, it is not so different, even the opposite of the girl.

Maybe that's it, it's hard to reconcile after letting men and women break up, and it's hard to recover. Understanding the psychology of a boy's breakup is conducive to accumulating emotional experience. The joy of relief Although the boys who have just broken up are consciously sad, they feel relaxed in their hearts because they feel as if they are free from the shackles and can do whatever they want.

They don't cry sadly at this stage, they play games and play all kinds of games to find the joy of being single. At this stage, they do not recall the past. They are completely immersed in their own world.

After a few more days of loneliness, I seemed liberated. But I feel more and more that life is different. I used to have a girlfriend, but now I don't.

The way of life in the past has changed a lot from now, and people's inertia is not adaptable. If they don't adapt to this state, they will slowly feel lonely and even occasionally think back to the past, but this is not the reason why they want to go back to being in a relationship, but they are more restrained.

Feeling the pain of the breakup, the boys realize that they have lost her completely. And his girlfriend won't come back in the future, and his life has completely changed. At this stage, they will frequently recall their happy memories, and even think that they will cry and have the urge to go back to their ex-girlfriend.

The way and state of life has changed a lot compared to before. It's also hard to adapt. So they will feel the pain of the breakup at this stage.

There will be sadness in love, and a breakup will also bring earth-shaking changes in the hearts of boys. Usually this kind of psychology will appear in the life of a boy: there is a psychology of regret after a breakup, a momentary impulse makes two people break up, and both of them are uncomfortable because of some trivial things.

There is no common language when they quarrel, and boys don't know how to tolerate girls. In this state, the boy will propose the ending of the breakup, which will make the boy regret it. The boys tried their best to save this love, but because of the problem of face, they were particularly embarrassed.

Although there are some regrets, the guy may give up on the relationship. Some guys will have a bigger face than anything else and will miss the person they love the most. After a breakup, there is a feeling of loneliness.

When two people are together, they are happy companions, from strangers to acquaintances, acquaintances to lovers, and finally talk about a real love.

My psychology has not changed, because my mood is also very flat after the breakup, and my mood after the breakup is still very happy.

There must be some changes, and it will completely change my view of love, I will feel that at the beginning of a relationship, it is best not to invest too much, if you are looking for a partner, you must not be impulsive, you must polish your eyes.

After the breakup, of course, there will be psychological changes, and the words in my heart must be very unhappy and unhappy, and then the words will be slow, with the passage of time, let this relationship return.

Then there will definitely be a change in your heart, after breaking up a relationship, you will definitely go in a relationship. Think back to what you did. Is there anything you don't deserve? Then in the next relationship, you will definitely avoid these misunderstandings.

There are certain changes in the psychology, and it is very painful, but after a while, I return to my normal life.

There is no change, because it is only a small blow, and there is no need to pay too much attention to it, otherwise you will collapse yourself.

The first reaction is depression and constant self-doubt.

The second reaction is: stalking, begging for an explanation or trying to get back together.

The third reaction is: the heart is angry, pretending to be cold on the surface, and even blocking the other party.

For people who want to get back together after a breakup, especially girls, these three reactions are not the right way to recover, and they will not allow you to achieve the goals you want. If you want to win him back, you must first return yourself to your peak state before you can rebuild your attractiveness.

How do you find out what you're looking for?

1. First of all, since you want to return to your peak state, it means that you are still far from your peak state, so you have to determine which stage is your peak state, whether it is when you are just together, or when you are in love?

2. Secondly, after finding the time period of your peak state, you have to summarize what good qualities you have attracted him when you are at your peak, and these qualities are now lost, and the draft is overshadowed by your shortcomings?

3. In addition to some of your own good qualities, what kind of good qualities does he like girls have, and is there a way to add these qualities to himself?

4. It is to find out the shortcomings that exist in yourself that he cannot accept, and then learn to change them, so that he can become a better person with filial piety.

5. When you really do this, you yourself have returned to the top state, not for a certain man, but to become a better version of yourself.