Why did I always feel guilty about him when I proposed to break up first?

What you once had, don't forget; What has been obtained, it is more important to cherish; What belongs to you, don't give up; What has been lost, keep it as a memory; If you want to get it, try for it. Love someone: to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; Feel free to hold hands, but don't break up casually Please cherish everyone who loves you deeply and stop hurting them, they are not as strong as you see.

Turn back when it's time to turn back, since you have loved him, then you must be able to continue to love, it is better to accept others than to cherish the people around you, don't let something block your happiness. Don't be too selfish, because people are doing it, and the sky is watching. Every person with a heart, every grateful person who understands, every person who understands contentment, will always be happy, learn to love others, learn to give others opportunities, giving others opportunities is equivalent to giving yourself a chance, don't be too ruthless, otherwise you will regret it in the future, maybe a year or two ......Maybe your conscience will be condemned many years later.

When the two feelings come to an end, please look back at the road you have walked, think about the moment when you were happy together before, it's not that you don't love him, but you have been together for too long, everyone ignores what each other really wants, if you have time, please stop the work in your hand, accompany your other half, accompany him to go shopping and accompany him to go crazy once, people's lives are really short, don't love become a hurt. Love is like picking up stones, everyone wants to pick up the most suitable stone for themselves. But on the vast sandy beach, which stone is absolutely suitable for you?

Instead of exhausting the search, why not carefully polish the stone you already have to make it look like you want? Remember: to love someone, to know and to understand; If you want to apologize, you have to thank you; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is tolerance, not connivance; Don't hold hands casually, and don't let go casually!

Everyone's heart is really small, and the small one can only accommodate one person, depending on when you can feel that person. Love is the ...... of fraternityIt is a source of your gratitude. I hope that every persevering lover can realize their dreams.

I hope that everyone who is heartless can look back at the scarred boy ...... you hurtI hope that all couples in the world will have a good ending, the above are all written by me to a girl, and I also dedicate it to all the people in the world who are persistent in feelings.

After a relationship is over, I often hear women say, "Why did he suddenly change", "Why did the previous vow and mountain alliance say that it was gone", "What about your agreement with me". Therefore, in the face of a guilty boyfriend, if you want to redeem it, you have to learn how to reverse rationalization, if you face the other party to break up, you just choose to beg the other party bitterly, begging the other party to accept you again in a dead way, which can only strengthen his "guilt" towards you, which is useless for redemption.

So what is reverse rationalization? And a simple truth, when a man breaks up with you, he feels that if you lose him, you will lose everything, and it feels difficult to have someone who can accompany you for a lifetime, but on the contrary, this woman finds a man who is more outstanding than him, and this man will begin to wonder if the breakup is his own problem, and then rationalize the breakup decision in reverse.

In the redemption after a breakup, there is often a situation where a woman says to a man, "Let's get back together", but the man says, "I'm scared", so what is the man afraid of?

In fact, the man's refusal to get back together with you is not because he doesn't love you anymore, but because he really can't stand the way you get along with each other, so he feels scared. His fear is due to the values and some personal behaviors that you have been showing throughout the whole process of getting along, which makes him feel that it is too scary to continue to live with you, and life will be very difficult and the future seems unpredictable.

Therefore, in the face of this situation, if you need to redeem it, you need to make him no longer afraid of getting along with you. What you need is to shape the commonalities between you, to think more independently from his point of view, and if you can be on the same page on most things, then it will be very easy for the other party to agree with you and appreciate you again. Commonality also increases the distance between you and makes it easier for the other party to accept you again.

Why do men feel guilty and scared after a breakup? In fact, it boils down to the fact that on the one hand, he feels that he will be very sorry for you if he gives up like this, but he really can't bear to continue the torment with you, so these problems will arise. If you want to redeem, first you need to change yourself and change the way you get along with each other, so that you have a higher chance of success.

In fact, this is also one of the reasons why men feel guilty after a breakup. After all, he and you used to love each other, you loved him so much, but he had to leave you, feeling that after leaving you, you would have no one to want, so he would feel guilty, because he felt that without him, you couldn't find a better one.

Therefore, in the face of a guilty boyfriend, Mr. Su told you that if you want to redeem it, you have to learn how to reverse rationalize. If you face the other party's proposal to break up, you just choose to beg the other party bitterly, and beg the other party to accept you again, which will only strengthen his "guilt" about you, which is useless for recovery.

So what is reverse rationalization?

It's a very simple truth: when a man breaks up with you, he thinks that if you lose him, you will lose everything, and feel that it is difficult for anyone to give you happiness; But on the contrary, if the woman finds a better man than him, the man will begin to question whether the breakup is his own problem. Thus reversely rationalizing the breakup decision.

In addition to guilt, men can also feel afraid.

In the redemption after a breakup, there is often a situation where the woman says to the man, "Let's get back together", but the man says "I'm scared". So what exactly are men afraid of?

In fact, a man refuses to get back together with you, not because he doesn't love you anymore, but because he can't stand the way you get along with each other, so he feels scared.

His fear is because of the values and some behaviors you show in the process of getting along, which makes him feel that it is too scary to continue to live with you, that life will be bad, and the future seems unpredictable.

Therefore, in the face of this situation, if you want to redeem it, you must first make him no longer afraid of getting along with you.

What you need is to develop commonality between you and think more from his point of view. If you can be consistent on most things, then it is easy to resonate with each other, and it is easier for the other person to recognize and appreciate you again. And commonality can also shorten the distance between you, and the other party will easily accept you again.

Why do men feel guilty and scared after a breakup?

In fact, in the final analysis, on the one hand, he thinks that he will be very sorry for you if he gives up like this, but he really can't bear the torment of continuing with you, so he has this kind of ambivalence.

If you want to redeem, you first have to change yourself and change the way you get along with each other, so that your chances of success will be higher.

After a breakup, the reason why a man feels guilty and scared is mainly because he made the decision to break up in an uncalm situation, but after thinking calmly, he found that he missed the right person, so at this time the man will feel guilty and afraid, and he will never find a woman as good as her in the future.

After a breakup, a man will feel guilty and afraid, just because the man himself clearly and clearly did something sorry for his girlfriend, as the saying goes, don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door, it is because they have done something unseemly, they will feel guilty and afraid.

After a breakup, there should be many reasons why a man feels guilty and afraid, such as the breakup caused by the man's mistake, such as the man's sorry for the girl, or the man's fault first.

After a breakup, a man feels guilty and scared because you hurt the person who loves you the most, you feel distressed and feel guilty when you see her heartbroken, sorry for her, scared because you have not had her in your life since then, you have become uncomfortable, you don't know what to do, confused.

After a relationship breaks up, men will feel guilty and scared of the reasons, in fact, there are many kinds of reasons, for example, men may feel that they are not good enough for you, they may feel that they are not doing something right, in short, there are many reasons. It may have something to do with the man's personality, and it may be unclear for other reasons.

A man will feel this way because he has done something sorry for you, he will be afraid that he will have retribution, so he will feel guilty and afraid, afraid that he will have such a day again.

When breaking up, most of the reasons why men feel guilty and scared are because in this relationship, the man does not really give his feelings, and then he will feel ashamed of this relationship.

When two people break up, the boy feels very guilty and afraid in his heart The main problem is because he feels that he did not pay well in the previous relationship, especially because he has lost a person who loves him.

After a breakup, the reason why a man feels guilty is mainly that in this relationship, the girl gives true love, and the boy doesn't love the girl at all, but just cheats on her feelings, and a kind man will feel guilty after breaking up.

After the boy broke up, the reason why he felt guilty and scared was mainly because during the relationship, he did something sorry for the girl. So much so that he felt very guilty, and he was also afraid that the girl would settle accounts with her.

There are many reasons why a man may feel guilty and scared after a breakup, such as feeling that the other person is no longer the same as before, being afraid that he will not be able to get out, or feeling that he is no longer the important person, and most importantly, he will not be able to adapt to the new life, and he will still not be able to get out.

Then only when you are sorry for the other party will you feel guilty and afraid, such as causing the other party's family to be ruined, you will be afraid and guilty.

After the breakup, if the boy is really sorry for the girl, the boy will also feel guilty and regretful, and if the girl is good enough, he will also be afraid that he will not find a better one.

There are two reasons: one is that you feel guilty because you can no longer give the other party happiness out of responsibility, and the other may be that you have done something sorry for the other party and violated the other party. When the conscience finds guilty, there is also a fear of retaliation.

The reason why men feel guilty and scared after a breakup is that they can't let go of the relationship in the first place. The second is that men feel that they have lost a good woman. In the end, the man was worried that he would not be able to meet such a good woman in the future.

It is very likely that in this relationship, they betrayed each other or hurt each other. That's why they feel guilty and scared, and these are the main reasons.

There are many reasons why a man may feel guilty and scared after a breakup, such as feeling sorry that your child did not give him the best life. The reason for the fear may be that the other party is afraid of harassment and is unwilling to let go.

After a breakup, the reason why a man feels guilty and scared is that he has done something wrong when he is in a relationship, or something sorry for his girlfriend, so he will feel guilty and afraid.

What can feel guilty is because he feels that he may not have done well enough when he was with a woman before, or did something to hurt her, and he is afraid that he may have some difficulties in the future without each other.

If a man feels guilty and scared after a breakup, it means that he has a feeling of being sorry for the other party When they are together, he will definitely have something that he can't do properly, so after the breakup, he feels quite guilty and scared. So there is this thought.

The reason for feeling guilty may be that he was not good enough for girls before, so he lost love; The reason for feeling scared may be that he denigrated girls after the breakup.

Breaking up can make people feel guilty because breaking up means giving up on the promises they once made, giving up on their relationships with each other, and giving up the good memories they once had. Breaking up can make people feel guilty because they will feel that they have done something wrong, that they have ruined a good relationship, that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities, and that they have not cherished each other's feelings well. Breaking up can make people feel guilty because they will feel that they have ruined a good relationship, that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities, and that they have not cherished each other's feelings well.

In addition, a breakup can also make people feel guilty because they will feel that they have hurt the feelings of the other half, feel that they have disappointed the expectations of the other half, and feel that they have tormented the other half's heart.