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Are you perfect? A person will always make mistakes in his life, if this mistake happens to you, then your lover also has this current thought, what will you do? Learn to forgive others, especially your lover, only she will accompany you through this life.
When you are not feeling well, others will not take care of you wholeheartedly, only your lover can do it, so many times don't think only about other people's faults, think more about her. I'm sure it will be fine after a long time, and I wish you to come out of the shadows soon!
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Maybe you should try to forgive her, after all, she has been with you for so long, it's a pity to break up like this, you said that you and her only have family affection, maybe it's not, maybe it's because of her mistakes, so you feel disgusted, if you really want to leave, maybe you will find that you are still in love with her!!
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Forgiveness does not mean that the hurt is gone, and this kind of wound cannot be healed. If you're a man and continue to live together, you can't have a sexless marriage, and it's going to remind you of the pain your wife is causing you. Unless you experience a greater pain that overwhelms the current pain.
If you really don't feel pain anymore, it means that you don't call her anymore, hey, you are in pain because she is your wife, you can try to position her as your sister, sister Fan life mistakes, be the brother to take care of her. You can believe in Buddhism and listen to what it says may help you
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If there is a gap in my heart, it will be difficult to get better, if it really doesn't work, just divide it. It's no fun to go on like this.
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Why bother with one thing, since it's over, forget it, a life is just a few decades, and you don't have to be so serious about everything.
Sometimes it really takes a rare muddle.
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Men are like this, it is difficult to overcome psychological barriers, you just marry a second marriage, don't you just play.
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Do you really forgive her for that unforgivable mistake? Actually, no.
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Then two people can use family affection to maintain this relationship, after all, after a long time, love will eventually be transformed into family affection, in fact, family affection is still more reliable.
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In fact, having this layer of family affection will make the relationship more solid, after all, life is bland, but everyone can usually create some romance and ritual in life, such as giving each other gifts, often expressing love, hugging, holding hands, etc., and carrying out a short trip between the two, which is conducive to the warming of feelings.
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You don't need to do anything, you two go out to travel and have fun when you are fine, and enhance your relationship. And haven't you heard of it? The end of love is family affection.
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Pretty good. Husbands and wives have been together for a long time, and they are like relatives, and they can't do without each other.
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I think marriage is acceptable when there is only family affection.
Marriage can't all come down to love, love is the best place for love. There are many things to consider in marriage, such as simple financial support, the feelings of both parties and the family members of both parties, etc., in the life of both parties, it is sometimes difficult to distinguish whether it is love or family affection.
In fact, we can understand it as a kind of sublimation of feelings, after all, we are a family after getting married, so since we are a family, it must be a family relationship, but we are husband and wife, then there must still be this love between us. Sometimes we only feel that our life is only left with family affection, just like treating family members, but what is missing is the feeling that both parties have when they are in love.
We need to judge and analyze whether this marriage should continue or not. What you need to consider is also the truth that you should understand, that is, there should be family affection in marriage. You should consider whether the love that is only with family affection is what you want, and if you feel that it is acceptable to you, then it is the best.
But if one of you can't accept such a marriage, then divorce is actually the best solution.
Finally, the maintenance of marriage is not a simple love, there are many things to consider, so the feelings of both husband and wife are particularly important, if the two people feel that they can still be together after communication, then they can stick to this relationship, if they can't or one of them is unwilling, then giving up this relationship at this time is actually the best way, so as not to break up because of some meaningless things in the future.
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It is normal for many couples to have love transformed into family affection after a long time together, but if you can increase the small romance in your life, I believe your relationship can heat up again.
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When we enter the marriage for many years, the intense and hot love of the year will turn into family affection, which is a common phenomenon. In this case, you just need to continue to maintain a sense of responsibility for your family and live a normal life.
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I think everyone's marriage may go through such a process, don't be too nervous, the most important thing is that you have to innovate something new for your marriage, such as traveling together, looking for the feeling of first love, or it is very important to improve your relationship.
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In marriage, love often ends up sublimated into family affection, which is nothing bad and can make the marriage relationship more stable. Besides, two people can't be completely loveless, they can create a little surprise in life and maintain the freshness of love.
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If there is only family affection left in the marriage, it means that your marriage has become more stable, and you can add a little spice to your marriage. From time to time, I go out for candlelight dinners and watch movies.
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When there is only family affection left in the marriage, then divorce, a marriage without love is not interesting. Since the two people have no love, why don't they divorce, the arrears are just delaying time. So, divorce when love is only family affection.
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In fact, after marriage, family affection is created, but if there is a lack of lover feelings between two people, then two people need to go together to ** and maintain.
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That's a good thing, marriage will eventually become family affection, family affection will be more durable, more dependent, and more reassuring than love. All we have to do is do our best to maintain this family relationship.
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