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Does "frequent chatting" make it feel like you're in love?
1. Chatting brings intimacy, and intimacy is one of the components of love (intimacy), but it is not the whole of love.
2. The feelings brought about by frequent chatting are actually the establishment of intimacy, and they share the emotions and feelings in life, which are the components of love, that is, the basis for establishing a romantic relationship - attraction.
3. When our inner "core needs" are met, the two have the opportunity to break through the obstacles and establish a true intimate relationship.
4. As two people understand and run in with each other, they gradually break away from each other's "idealized" concept and begin to collide with each other's cognition and soul, so as to establish an intimate relationship with "trust, commitment and responsibility" as the core.
Therefore, two people chat frequently, which means that they both have a certain desire to establish intimacy.
And after confirming the other person's attitude towards the relationship, you can go with the flow and have the opportunity to develop intimacy, but "frequent chatting" is only the brick of love, not the jade.
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A love is always a little warm in the green, and there is sweetness in the warmth. Love is a medium that brings two strangers of the opposite sex from not knowing each other together; Falling in love is a way to release the hormones that two people match each other to the optimal ratio; Love is a kind of emotional release that can always accompany you even if you are incompetent.
That time I was sick, I had a serious feeling, a fever, and I met my aunt again, the whole person was uncomfortable, almost fainted to death in the dormitory, fortunately my roommate found out early, but I was a female man, or a strong man, my roommate couldn't move, my boyfriend actually in order to avoid the dormitory aunt, climbed the window to carry me out, but when he carried me out, he was completely ignorant of the aunt's warning, stunned to carry me to the school infirmary, the doctor said that fortunately came early, otherwise the dehydration would be serious and he would have to shock and coma. The story is not over, he knows that I can't do housework, I am sick and I can't get used to school meals, I know that I like to drink fish soup, I am stunned to risk the dormitory tripping, cooking bowls and bowls of fish head soup for me, in order to avoid the "surveillance" of the dormitory aunt, he has to sneak into our dormitory building every time when my aunt goes out to get food, help me bring fish soup and meals, help me wash my clothes, and serve me properly, and I have to sneak out when my aunt goes out to wash the dishes, I have been sick for 7 days, He's coming for a week. Later, I learned that he didn't know how to cook rice and soup at all, and that bowl of fish soup was made by him after skipping class a few times, burning a few pots, jumping a few times in the dormitory, and burning a few fuses.
In addition to these, my boyfriend is not only a warm man, but also a Pisces boy who knows how to be romantic! On my birthday, in order to celebrate my birthday, he tried all kinds of personal relations to help me capture the school's radio station, the radio station that evening, ** songs are my favorite to listen to, and the song I like to listen to is the type he doesn't like, the radio station that day, the supporter has not said a word, the whole audience is talking about it, the radio station of that day, there are common memories of our love for 1 year and 5 months, from meeting, acquaintance, acquaintance, to love, mutual deep dependence, everything, everything is in the radio that day,To the whole school**,At that time, I was caught by the teacher who managed the radio station.,I thought the teacher would have a demerit to criticize the education.,As a result, the old manuscript which teacher was because of our love.,In fact, it's mainly because of my boyfriend's heart-warming behavior.,And didn't punish it.,On the contrary,I gave us a big thumbs up!
Our story continues, the future love life continues, his warm heart still warms my heart, his sweetness, still sweet my heart, I believe that ten or eight years later, when I see this question and answer, I will be moved by the words I wrote at the beginning, warm love. Touched two!
The care and attention given to you by the other person will warm you for the rest of your life!
There is no such vigorous daily care, as long as it is with my heart, I feel moved that I have found a soulmate!
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Love is a very important part of life, many girls want to get enough attention and love in love, but some girls lack love in love more, let's find out.
1. Emotional dependence.
Girls who lack love often become emotionally dependent, always need their boyfriend by their side, and many times need their boyfriend's constant attention and comfort. They tend to take a passive stance in romantic relationships, and once their boyfriends are estranged, they become anxious and lack loving nourishment and support.
2. Psychological imbalance.
Girls who lack love often have psychological imbalances, such as emotional instability, irritability and sadness, and anxiety about life. They have an unhealthy mindset and are emotionally unstable, and often find it difficult to form a real romantic relationship. Such a girl may overkill her boyfriend and become harsh and critical, leading to a strained relationship between the two or even a breakup.
3. Self-isolation.
Girls who lack love often become self-contained, lacking the confidence and courage to go to their own emotions and feelings. They may not be good at expressing themselves, rarely communicate with their boyfriends, and sometimes even over-adapt to their boyfriend's wishes and decisions, becoming a girlfriend who lacks self-assertion.
Fourth, the sense of loneliness is strong.
Girls who lack love tend to feel lonely. They may feel less important in the relationship and therefore feel abandoned or left out. At the same time, girls who lack love often lack the sense of security and stability provided by their boyfriends, and are prone to a state of loss and dazedness.
5. Distrust.
Girls who lack love often become more jealous and lack a sense of trust in themselves and each other. They may be suspicious and suspicious of their boyfriend's behavior and worry that their relationship with him will be challenged. Such a girl is prone to doubt and anxiety rather than in an atmosphere of love.
6. Alienation. Girls who lack love can become distant a lot of the time, because they tend to take their boyfriends' love for granted and don't value the establishment of a romantic relationship. Once you feel an emotional void, you may begin to distance yourself from your boyfriend, talk about it and gradually lose the opportunity to build a deep and stable relationship between the two.
The above is a manifestation of a girl's lack of love in love. Therefore, female friends should establish a healthy mentality in love, pay more attention to each other's feelings and emotions, and at the same time, Yuluxian should learn to take the initiative to express their thoughts and feelings in love, establish a normal emotional communication mode, and enhance mutual trust, care and understanding between the two.
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