Bonus points teacher student love, how to interpret teacher student love?

First, you have to understand him, he has a family, he has a wife, he is a teacher, so he will have pressure from all sides, even if he has affection, he must have scruples, and then, he must still love his wife very much.

Second, there must be waves, he likes you really, he likes the feeling of being with you, but at the same time he doesn't want to ruin his marriage, so he is very conflicted, and waves are inevitable.

Third, when it comes to yourself, then first consider a question, whether your love for him is like the Wangfu Stone on the Yangtze River, if your love for him is unwavering, if so, then you can go and fight for it. If you just want to find a shoulder to lean on when you are lonely, I hope you choose a stronger shoulder, his shoulder may not be strong enough.

The feeling you feel together may be tacit, like a friendship between friends. After all, teachers and students know so much about each other. But he is sensible, has a family and children, and even if there is some kind of affection between you, considering the family and responsibilities, he may choose to leave you and run away from you, so that his wife will not be sad and the children will not be hurt.

Maybe you really loved, but I advise you: the great rivers and mountains ahead are waiting for you, after graduation, you will meet different people, different things, and you will meet different him, let it go, meaningless persistence may just hurt the two of them deeper! Come on!

I'm sure you'll be able to get out...

In fact, many times it may not be liked, but it just feels good, or it is just dependent.

Time is a good idea, and after a long time, it may be fine.

I think the reason why he is like this is because his wife won't want to make you friends, and if you don't want to open up a little bit yourself, maybe he really has to disappear into your life, because he's a teacher.

Forget him. Such love is deformed.

Teacher-student love ,,, won't it, it's forbidden to love between teachers and students at school, he already has a husband and a child, you can't destroy his family, he asked you not to look for him, what about you, think about it for yourself, the days to come are long, there are many men.

If you like it, let it go and chase it, the great man Lu Xun is a teacher-student love. Treat it normally, as long as you like each other.

First of all, I think that teacher-student love is no longer normal in this society, and the normal free love between men and women is the norm in a society where marriage is free.

In addition, the level of teacher-student love generally occurs at the level of doctorate, master's or bachelor's degree, which means that they with high IQ do not make any mistakes in their choice.

However, some teacher-student relationships with a large age gap may be difficult for the public to accept, but I still think that marriage is a matter of two people, they both have the ability to take care of themselves, why should others interfere?

For the teacher-student relationship, I think we can keep a normal heart, because the probability of teacher-student love is still relatively small, not much, so since they have chosen, it means that it is well thought out.

Psychological research has shown that with the development and maturity of sexual physiology, the sexual psychology of adolescence, especially sexual consciousness, begins to change. The development of sexual consciousness in adolescence generally goes through four periods, namely, the period of sexual alienation, the period of longing for the elderly and the opposite sex, the period of longing for love, and the period of love. The longing for the older opposite sex period is mainly after entering puberty, and beginning to show attention and love for the opposite sex, and most of the opposite sex of the same age during this period are immature and naïve, so it is natural to transfer their emotions to the mature opposite sex.

In the eyes of adolescents, teachers are very solemn and sacred compared to the opposite sex of the same age and other adult opposite sexes, so it is easy for adolescents to develop this affection into love for teachers. During this period, adolescents often idealized and idolized teachers as their spiritual lovers.

Generally speaking, teacher-student love mostly occurs between male teachers and female students, and girls in this period are very emotional, very serious and devoted to their feelings, and even very obsessed, unable to extricate themselves. She will find every opportunity to get close to her teacher, whether she is married or not.

At this time, if the teacher also lacks reason or self-control, or has evil thoughts, it will produce "teacher-student love". Usually the "teacher-student relationship" will not end well, this is because there are many realistic factors between them.

How can adolescent girls get rid of the "teacher-student love" and embark on a normal life track? Psychologists have given us the following advice.

1.Correctly understand love.

Many adolescent girls who think they are in love with their teachers actually confuse their admiration and envy for their teachers with love. Adolescent girls are more emotional, and they are easily impulsive, and often cannot objectively and accurately recognize their emotional misunderstandings.

2.Preserve the friendship between teachers and students.

The friendship between teachers and students is very touching and touching because of sincerity and purity. If there is reverence and admiration for the teacher in the hearts of students, then we must cherish it and do not destroy it with non-divisive ideas and wrong choices.

3.Focus on academics.

Adolescent girls, especially those who are still in high school, should study more than fall in love, let alone fall in love with their teachers. Falling in love when you are a student is easy to distract yourself, affecting your studies and future, and you are the one who suffers and suffers in the end.

4.Make more friends.

There are often many common topics among peers, and making more friends of the same age will gradually feel that making friends with peers can be happier, and will gradually understand that the teacher's kindness to you is not very special, but the teacher's love for the student.

5.Understand that teachers are not perfect.

We all know that what a teacher shows in class must be his own excellent side. He is also an ordinary person who will also have shortcomings and shortcomings. Try to look at him from the perspective of an ordinary person, objectively find his shortcomings and shortcomings, and then write them down, and persist for a period of time, which will dilute the thoughts about him.

First, the age gap between the two people may not be that big. Second, even if the age gap is large, university students are considered mentally mature. But the subject is asking about a junior high school student, I think the teacher must not do this at this time, why?

It's not that we don't encourage this kind of sincere feelings, mainly because we think that a child in junior high school is not mature enough, what is love? It is not completely defined, and in the future, she will go to high school and college, especially in junior high and high school, his learning pressure will be great, if he is distracted at this time, it may directly affect the child's future, and after going to college in the future, his horizons will also be broadened and his world view will change.

So the chance of this relationship being able to finally come together is very, very small, so from this point of view, I think that as a teacher, you must guide students correctly, and the love for the opposite sex is completely understandable, but it must not happen when it is not appropriate. It turns out that my so-called sense of justice and those reasons against teacher-student love were only forcibly instilled in us by our parents, relatives, elders and others.

In fact, when we look back, we often find that many things that we once believed in, in fact, we have not seriously thought about why at all, but others say that it is right and wrong. This is called blind obedience. We follow the shadow of others, shape our own appearance according to the requirements of others, and gradually change from each different self to someone No. 2, and gradually dare not dare to love and hate like Yang Guo Xiaolongnu, dare to overcome all obstacles, and still be together.

In many countries, he prohibits teachers from falling in love with students, and our country does not advocate it, because this is not good for the physical and mental health of students, and it is not good for teachers to teach.

I can definitely support you, you are not too far from her, and now China's Bao Qi is even bigger. But the premise is that you are suitable to live together, I mean Ni marriage, after all, marriage is not the same as love, take a look at it more time, other children are not a problem.

Good luck, good luck to you, good faith between you, it's just that you still have some way to go in your own words: "Work hard to win our future".

If she knows that you have published your relationship online, and she also uploads your profile picture. I guess she'll be furious. You think too much, she's just a little friend.

By the way, being a teacher-student relationship is not romantic at all, and as a teacher, he or she is seriously violating professional ethics. If you are a minor as a teacher, the teacher has already broken the law. Of course, when students become adults, it's another thing to get out of school.

The teacher-student love that is now spoken of has a different meaning than the teacher-student love of many years ago. The former is made of respect and love, pure feelings, and is emotional and enviable. The current teacher-student relationship is full of filth and fog.

Love knows no age! But I think you're only in your third year of high school, can you be sure that you won't change your mind in the future? I'm not very mature at this age!

It's best not to engage in any teacher-student love, in my opinion, those who teach must teach well, and those who read books must read good books, and engage in messy teacher-student love.

There are very few successful teacher-student relationships, especially among high school students.

Since you have a good impression of each other, then you should work hard.

You're stupid, be realistic.

You're too sensitive. Maybe it's just that the teacher is kind to you, and you feel like you have an AM relationship.

If that teacher really likes you, I don't think it's too late to think about it after you graduate from college, after all, he wants you to do well in your studies as a teacher. Of course, I think it's more likely to be your wishful thinking!

You're still young, which may be a sign of your imagination, maybe his affection for you is just an older brother to a younger sister.

Maybe it's the feeling of the elder brother, treating you as a little sister, if the teacher is not pure-minded, then it's a different matter.

1.Anyway, people are also teachers, and they shouldn't have any thoughts about their students. He likes you very much, but only in the friendship between the teacher and the student.

He found out that you were a very good girl, and he treated you like a little sister. A student's love for learning is the greatest reward for the teacher, and he sees that you love language so much, so he wants to raise your Chinese score higher.

2.Keep it as it is and don't get into a lot of emotion. Because if one day he brings his girlfriend to see you, wouldn't you be very hurt and stupid? Be sensible.

It is necessary to face the lover complex correctly

The teacher lover complex is the product of the interaction between the physiological maturity and psychological development of adolescents, the level of self-consciousness and the objective environment, and is a normal staged psychological phenomenon that adolescents in adolescence may have. For students who experience this emotion, it has both positive connotations and certain negative effects. Due to the closed psychology, the lover complex rarely causes harm to the group or others, but excessive emotional repression and continuous inner conflict often lead to the individual's self-psychological disorder, induce the occurrence of certain mental symptoms or pathological personality, and have an adverse impact on the mental health of adolescents.

In the process of psychological counseling, how to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses and take advantage of the situation is the focus of educators in dealing with such emotions.

Teachers should understand students' emotions and focus on individual tutoring, taking care to protect students' privacy and self-esteem. At the same time, it is necessary to skillfully combine positive education with suggestive guidance to help young people correctly understand and rationally handle their emotions.

What's wrong, human nature.

As for your statement, I don't want to exaggerate the harm of teacher-student love, nor do I say that teacher-student love is normal. Because you are very sensible, you know your state, and you know what you should do, then I will give you a few suggestions that I hope will help you.

The teacher is a good teacher, but he is like this to everyone, and it is a responsibility and not a love, so your thoughts are actually a kind of liking caused by worship.

Liking is a habit, you can't just solve it, you have to know it, tell yourself to face it, this time will be very long, but you have to make sure to remind yourself every day to get a little better.

"Loving Annabelle" tells the story of a teacher-student relationship in a Catholic school, and contrary to ethics, they are same-sex love, love narcissism at the beginning, because of self-affection, the story of Annabelle and the teacher is found in each other's tacit understanding from the beginning. The pressure from society on the teacher also made her try to avoid, try to hide herself, and in the face of Annabelle's persistent eyes, she was still trying her best to escape, maybe she didn't dare to love, maybe this love was too heavy, she still remembered the scene of the teacher crying at the beach, and she still remembered the teacher's dazed look when she was dating her boyfriend. If you don't love but still want to be together, if you love but can't come together, isn't it very painful, especially remember Tagore's sentence, the farthest distance in the world, it's not that I can't say I love you, but I want you to be painful, but I can only bury it deep in my heart.