My heart is so uncomfortable, find a psychological counselor to help me, thank you!

Hello friends, the word autism may be used more heavily on you, but in fact, you are just more introverted.

Introverts often do so because they don't have friends around them or never have a confidant. This is something to be aware of. After all, it is very important to step into social relationships, so it is decided that you should open your heart to all kinds of strange people and things.

After all, business people have to test a mouth to speak.

Speaking of the Internet, hehe, in fact, it is inevitable when you just step into the work, as long as you remember not to indulge in it like in college, after all, you have to support yourself, so work comes first.

In fact, these problems are your psychological problems, if you solve them from the root, there is only one kind, you must give yourself a strong self-confidence in everything, whether it is difficult or simple, only you believe in yourself is the best. People grow up in the absence of meetings. You might as well look in the mirror every day and say to yourself, I'm the best.

In fact, it doesn't matter if you fail, at least you have confidence in yourself.

You can start by exercising yourself to talk to others. The fear is this: once you step over it, it's not a big deal.

Courage also needs to be exercised, you know, hehe.

As for eloquence, not everyone is eloquent. Think about your other strengths and carry them forward. This also helps the customer service to feel inferior.

Reading more books on mind cultivation will also help you become stronger in your heart. Change starts from the heart! Believe in yourself and exercise yourself!

The reasons for the formation of low self-esteem are generally related to family education, and rough parents can often only raise cowardly children. Success is directly proportional to self-confidence, the more successful you are, the more confident you are; On the contrary, the more you hit the wall everywhere, the more inferior you are; The more low self-esteem you have, the less likely you are to succeed. If you want to change from inferiority complex to self-confidence, you must do things practically, be honest, start from small things, start from everything around you, and move towards success.

You say that you can't control yourself and love the Internet, but in fact, this is a manifestation of escapism and wanting to be satisfied in a virtual environment, and it is also a manifestation of low self-esteem.

I'm also a recent graduate, just coming to ......There are many things that we need to overcome one by one.

In the same situation as you said, I think you actually haven't let go of your heart, especially when you run a business, you need to be good at communicating with people (Note: Whether you talk or not, when people talk to you, you have to look at the triangle area of people's eyes and nose, which is a sign of respect for others!). Believe in yourself, without the first attempt and breakthrough, you may never dare!

It'......s better to talk to friends face-to-face than to talk onlineAs long as you believe in yourself and have the courage to try, you will never be afraid next time!

Hopefully, you can get out of this predicament and let your heart open ......You can do it!

I am also a student, and I will turn 21 in half a year. I'm still in school. I used to be very good at talking, and I had a little low self-esteem.

But I'm a more active person now. Because I used to be very nervous every time I faced strangers, but the more nervous I was, the more I kept telling myself, it's not a big deal, it's just talking, and it won't die. Gradually, I relaxed.

If you are shy, you can keep exercising yourself in front of people you know until they can't stand it anymore. You can also read aloud in public places such as parks, as long as you don't get around people to rest, of course. Don't be shy, open up to the people around you, if you are sincere to others, they will be true to you.

I feel like I'm wearing my own clothes, and sometimes I want to wear something simple, individual, or sloppy to go out. I thought to myself that no one knew me anyway, but in the end I either went out cleanly, or I still cared about the disdainful eyes of others.

You probably care too much about the influence of others on you, in fact, you can say it boldly, and people will forget about you in a few days. For example, I went to interview for a job and didn't succeed, and the next day I called the supervisor, and I wanted to ask, but people can't remember who you are.

It's just two sentences, don't care about others, respect others. That's it. I've been a lot better now and don't care what people say. Because he's just a passerby, he can't remember you at all. You have to be skillful in your conversation, and you really don't just imitate it.

About this Internet café, I used to be very good, but I didn't draw it. There's nothing to say, and if you're enough, you won't be on it. If you've had enough of the game, you'll stop it. It's not easy to make some money, don't go to an Internet café all the time. Why don't you save some money to buy a computer? Hehe.

Believing that you can ...

Say a word, a couple of words to someone slowly...

No one is born a genius.

As long as you cross the first step, it will not be difficult.

You pluck up the guts and believe in yourself, and you're going to do well!!

It's the first difficulty, the head, and it becomes numb after a few attempts.

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According to your description, your son should have reached the stage of rebellion.

You don't need to find a psychology teacher, you parents are the best teachers.

At this time of high school, students are more stressed. Children can understand this. It's just that the pressure on children at school is already quite high, so don't exert too much pressure at home.

During this time, try not to let your child touch the computer, but you can play for a while. Don't call your children to learn this and that, it's not good for parents to be too strict, and they should get it appropriately.

Children of this age are a bit like this, the psychological teacher is not necessarily, it is best for him to have a good friend, or find a good college student tutor, the child is willing to communicate with these people, many children are tired of school at this stage, parents should do a good job of guiding, do not force the child how to be, and do not exert too much pressure, your son has good grades in junior high school, don't worry, maybe the high school pressure is a bit big, there are many excellent classmates, he can't adjust it all at once. Don't be too anxious, take your time, parents are in a hurry, he is more irritable Don't worry too much

It's good to find a tutor, it shouldn't be a psychological problem, the premise is that the student is willing to do so.

The formation of psychological problems is related to personal qualities, such as sensitivity, excessive attention to oneself, etc. But mental illness isn't something to be afraid of, and it's good to try to do the following:

1. Learn to be detached and generous, and don't hold your troubles in your heart.

2. Introduce humor into life, so that life is full of fun and laughter.

3. When you encounter troubles, find a friend who is more reliable and can relieve your troubles to talk about, so that you will feel comfortable.

4. Actively accept Don't accept the problem first, but accept the solution to the problem first.

5. Engage in Positive Autosuggestion Psychologists believe that people have a tendency to automatically make prophecies come true, and this kind of autosuggestion plays a big role.

The big hospitals must have psychological counseling.

If you can't stand it, you can break out!!