Why does my girlfriend always want gifts

Updated on psychology 2024-02-10
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Probably your girlfriend's family has money, she has been used to it since she was a child, and her material life is very superior, so it is normal for her to ask you to buy things, but her family did not educate her well, and girls should not always take the initiative to ask boys for things, and they seem to have no education.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Women are like this, because they feel that they will be happy with the things given by the man they like.

    Or it will be very face-saving for others to look at, and it is also a manifestation of happiness.

    If you can bear it, let it be fulfilled.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think what she wants is romance and surprises, don't feel wronged, in fact, she doesn't care about receiving gifts, what she wants is for you to think about her all the time, and then surprise her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How much women love vanity, it's very important to like things, I can only say that she is too unconscious, and it's not easy for you to make money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's called the wrong door, and she grew up in a wealthy environment, so of course the requirements will be higher.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well、、It is estimated that he was spoiled in the rich family、、、

    You try to accommodate him as much as you can.

    If you really love him,

    and tolerate him

    I don't love him anymore

    Let's just say it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The best choice for necklaces is to wear them every day.

    Elegance. It's best to send necklaces and pendants like that, with a stylish personality. It seems to be a beffany's, and it's generally not expensive, a hundred dollars.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She likes money, not you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, women are like this, what Valentine's Day, Christmas, birthdays, there are many throughout the year.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Women! They all have vanity!

    Besides, her family conditions are very good, and she has been connived at since she was a child!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hungry, my situation is the same as yours, the situation is the same as yours, it doesn't matter what you eat and drink, you are very generous, I pay for it when I go out, but I want gifts for various festivals, the only difference is that her family is rural.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Give yourself to her......

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Does your girlfriend have a big temper? If it's big, try to please her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Introduction: In the process of falling in love, it is inevitable to spend money for each other, especially between domestic couples, it is relatively normal to spend money on each other, but sometimes it will also bring a lot of financial pressure to yourself. My girlfriend often asks me to buy gifts, what should I do at this time?

    To be honest, if a girlfriend often asks the other party to buy gifts for herself, it means that the girl has a problem with her thinking. If you can accept gifts generously and without any guilt, it also means that this girl likes to let the man spend money for herself, and parasitizes the man's life in the process. Therefore, this kind of girl still hurts the man's family a lot, if the girlfriend often lets herself buy gifts, you can say a little that you have financial pressure, and you also hope that the girlfriend understands a little.

    If the girlfriend can understand in this process, this girl here is a good girl.

    If the girlfriend is furious because she doesn't buy a gift, yelling that her boyfriend is useless, it means that this girl is really terrible, and she is simply constantly sucking her own money. Such a girl will not let herself grow, and will only make her economic strength worse and worse, so this kind of girl is particularly materialistic and should be broken up in time.

    In fact, in today's society, there are many opportunities for both boys and girls, and girls can also achieve success through their own efforts. Therefore, it is not necessary for a girl to live happily in a boy's family, and in such a situation, both men and women should develop equally. Girls should also learn to be independent, so that they can grow better.

    And for those independent girls, we must give support, because everyone in the process of falling in love or in the process of getting married, if they blindly pay to each other. Sooner or later, there will be problems, either the other party's personality will be lost, or their wallets will be lost. Therefore, the equal development of men and women should be respected.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should choose the appropriate gifts for your girlfriend, or you can make an agreement with your girlfriend to give each other gifts once a month.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can have a good talk with your girlfriend, you can tell your girlfriend what you think, you can tell your girlfriend that you don't have that much money. I believe that your girlfriend can be considerate of you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In such a situation, I think you should buy some gifts for the other party once in a while, so that you can better manage the relationship and not let your girlfriend feel wronged.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should tell your girlfriend that you don't have that much money, and you should tell your girlfriend not to use you as an ATM.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not too materialistic, it's just that the girl's mind is more delicate, so she always craves some sense of ritual during the festival, so as to prove that you like her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's too materialistic indeed. It shows that your girlfriend is really a very money worshipper, you still don't want to get along with such a girlfriend anymore, it's better to break up quickly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, the gift is really just a formality, she values your heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This needs to be divided into circumstances, if your girlfriend asks you for expensive luxuries, etc., there is a material possibility, of course, this premise is that she only knows how to ask and is not willing to pay. If your girlfriend just wants to receive some small gifts for the holidays, it's more likely that she wants to be valued by you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If she asks you for a gift but doesn't ask for a very expensive gift, and only wants your attitude, she is not considered a material woman, because the drunkard's intention is not to drink, this is her romance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Women are not so attached to your gifts, they just want to determine whether you love her through gifts, as we often say, so many holidays are not for receiving gifts, but to remind each other not to forget love.

    A gift is just an expression of love, and in a woman's world, it's an expression of being cared for, and it's also a reminder that you give her a sense of security, just like women always like to ask, "Do you love me?" Even when you know that you love her, you have to confirm with you over and over again, don't feel troublesome, she just cares about you too much, wants to make sure that your love has not changed, and wants to tell yourself that the security you give is still there.

    Of course, your girlfriend is forced to ask you for a gift, I personally don't agree with it, after all, real love is active, not passive, that kind of love has too much moisture, and it's not what a girl really wants.

    If her behavior has gone beyond the scope of normal boyfriends and girlfriends, so the festival, her purpose is just a gift, then, I think you can also judge her feelings for you, after all, the meaning of a gift is love, if you become a pure material woman, it should be another matter.

    And the question you raised, it means that you should have some resistance to your girlfriend's approach, after all, in your perception, she is forcing you to give gifts, then, you should also ask yourself, whether you really love her, because, really love her, you will prepare gifts in advance every holiday, but wait for her to ask you.

    Of course, it is not excluded that some girls are the character of little girls, and they are just coquettish with you when they ask for gifts, so everyone's situation is different, the situation between you and your girlfriend, and her own personality, you yourself as the party is the most clear, which requires your specific situation to be analyzed.

    Gifts are just an expression of love, I hope that if you really love each other, you don't have to have conflicts because of such things, you can communicate well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because girls are more romantic, she is obsessed with gifts because gifts can represent your mind and your love. The size of the gift is not the most important thing, the most important thing is your heart, so a woman cares about your heart, not your gift.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because women feel that holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries can reflect your concern for her, and you have her in your heart and take her to heart, because you need to be careful to prepare gifts. I don't care how expensive the gift is, but I need to have a sense of ceremony.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A woman may not care about those gifts, but about your attitude towards her, if you have a good attitude towards her, you can not buy gifts, but if you make him insecure, she will ask for it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because gifts are an expression of love, women are more sensual, so they will be attached to gifts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because gifts can satisfy their vanity and show off in front of their friends.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Probably because women want to be loved, and they also pay a lot of attention to rituals.

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