How to continue the 7 year relationship? What happiness is there in getting married?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is recommended that you don't get married It's better that no one's heart is gone What else will she care about Even if you are married, you may not be happy They all say that marriage is the grave of love It's very good when you're in love When you get married, it's all because of various reasons to quarrel Not to mention that you're like this now It's not necessarily easy to get married It's better not to get married Let's talk to each other in person to see if you still have the possibility If not, give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Marriage is not the solution, if her heart changes, no matter what you do, it is useless. If she still has feelings for you, you can try to pull her back, and the two of you will be better together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If possible, go to Beijing, work in Beijing for a period of time you may understand her more, I talk about my feelings, the pace of work and life in Beijing is too fast, maybe when you first arrive in Beijing, you must first find employment and then choose a job, so it is possible to earn not much money, you think about it, compared with the good time of the two of you together, it is simply heaven and earth, and the loss and helplessness in the heart are not experienced by others, so she is fragile and hopes to have a shoulder that can be tested. At this point, I have basically explained, and the main point I mean is to put yourself in her shoes and feel her feelings, so that we can understand each other, and I believe that the seven-year relationship will continue, and the marriage date can be postponed, no problem. Hope it helps.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you meet someone you really love, you must work hard to fight for a lifetime opportunity with her, because when she leaves, everything will be too late to ......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think this marriage should be maintained for the sake of the child, because for the child, he also especially wants to live in a happy family, if your relationship has broken down, in such an environment will affect the child's physical and mental health development.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, at this time, you must communicate more with your child, let your child understand your situation, and respect your choice, so that you can protect everyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think this marriage should be maintained anymore, because after the relationship breaks, the family atmosphere is not very harmonious, which is also a harm to the children.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If two people still have feelings for Sen You to get married, marriage will allow you to start a new chapter in your life, and will allow you to enter the next stage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It can be determined according to the emotional situation, if the two people are indeed cautious, of course, they choose to get married, and if the relationship between the two people has disappeared, it is best to choose to give up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think I should choose to get married and make this relationship a positive one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. I got a perfect you, a real you, an incomparable you, a you who want to pour out my whole love! Happy wedding anniversary to us!

    2. There need to be eight words between lovers, that is: trust, understanding, tolerance and tacit understanding. Now I use these eight words to bless our love, may we be happy for a lifetime, and love forever. Happy wedding anniversary to us!

    5. Without your city, I am like a man without the warmth of love; When I miss you so much, I quietly and softly call your name, I love you. It's a lifelong commitment! Happy wedding anniversary to us!

    4. I have no intention of meeting you, I know you is providential, I think you are affectionate, I am half-hearted when I don't see you, and I am single-minded when I see you.

    5. We met, and then we had love. We fell in love, and we got married. We got married, and we had a family. Wife, happy 7th wedding anniversary, let's work together to create a better life!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After marriage, it is often said: three years of pain, seven years of itching. Seven years is how many days and nights have passed for a family, and the marriage is not afraid of being long, but afraid of being dull.

    Marriage is not something that can be managed by one person, and it can only be maintained by two people with their hearts. I'm most afraid that if one doesn't cooperate with you, you'll slowly be in no mood to maintain your feelings.

    Two people discuss the problems encountered in the work, especially major issues, which need to be discussed and decided by two people, such as changing jobs, changing jobs, etc.

    Small things in life, such as buying a fitted sheet or changing to what brand of laundry detergent, have to tell your husband to let him know that I am worried about life. You have to say hello when you buy a large item, no. Maybe he asked you to do it, but you still have to share these life moments, and marriage focuses on communication.

    If there is too little communication, then slowly develop the habit of communication, starting with small things. No matter how trivial things are, such as going to the supermarket to shop, adding furniture and electrical appliances, two people will do it together, and there will be discussions and exchanges; Go out for a meal, a movie, or a short trip together. Don't be too passive, don't repeat the dull day after day, life needs new topics and new things.

    Before there were no children, the two of them were busy at work, and there were more times to eat, drink and have fun with colleagues, at that time, we were mostly together, staying together, shopping together, partying with friends, and the love period was almost the same, after having children, the two of them dating alone were generally to go out shopping and buy things, and travel more with children and parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How to manage one's own marriage is now a hot topic, and at least people are beginning to realize that the permanence and happiness of marriage is managed.

    But how to manage it, this needs to be treated differently, because there are differences in people's concepts and habits, and the generation and degree of feelings are naturally different, so it cannot be said to completely define how to operate.

    Running a good marriage, first of all, is a person's correct understanding of life, marriage, family, relationships and love, the reason why a person can have self-confidence is based on his understanding of things, because understanding will be sure, because with certainty, it is natural to be able to run well.

    When a person really continues to reflect, correct and improve from life and marriage, and know how to love people correctly, to guide life, to accommodate and coordinate differences and relationships, this person will naturally become more and more sure of life as he matures, then life itself will gradually smooth and stabilize.

    If a person can't have the mentality of improving and improving himself, and can't start from himself with the mentality of learning and reflecting, then managing a marriage is an empty talk. Whether life is happy or not, the key depends on one's own grasp and correct understanding, which is a necessary condition for managing married life.

    Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Buy two books to read, but the main thing is to look at yourself, such as whether you want to maintain this marriage...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Seven years of itching, find more new things, and try it together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What you say is too general can only make you smart and attentive.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Occasionally create surprises.

    It is also important to give a delicate little gift with a warm little card to create a surprise. The important thing is not what you send with Bu Liang, nor what you say, but your heart. Whether the gift is carefully prepared by you, and whether the card happens to be the color and style that your partner likes, this is the guarantee that your partner can receive your love!

    2. Sincere communication between husband and wife is very important.

    If you can do 30 minutes of communication with your partner every day, your partner can really feel love in the sweet and romantic things you do, and the relationship can deepen over time, rather than weakening over time. In the trivial life, each of us seems to be uneventful, but in fact, it changes every day. Keeping communication open is a good way to keep two people's minds and spirits in sync, and dedicate 30 minutes a day to turn off the computer and miss the electricity, talk about each other's moods, what happened on the day, exchange opinions on something at home, etc., so that your intimacy can always be maintained as it was when you were in love.

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