What should I do if my loving parents don t approve?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, the family is also for your good, but if you really love her, you have to find a way to prove it to your family, and you are happy together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personal experience tells you that your parents' intentions are right and for your good.

    When in love, he is always desperate and reckless. But be calm, everyone is gambling, and so are you, you are betting on whether the man you fancy will have a future in the future, observe carefully, if he has it, then you continue, if not, listen to your mother.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can make your boyfriend work hard and become rich, but if your parents don't agree, your love will not be blessed.

    This society is such a reality.

    Parents also want their children to be good, who doesn't want their children to have a good life?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him have money. If there is really no future, no matter how great the love is, give it up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be too sad if your family doesn't agree with you, if you really love each other, you will definitely be able to get over this hurdle, if he really loves you, he will definitely try his best to prove it to you and your family. If you love, please love deeply, although the current era is more realistic, but the superiority of family conditions is not a ...... based on loveI have the same experience, I have been struggling for 3 years, and now I am finally relieved, parents are also thinking about their children, cheering, as long as there is true love, there is no ...... that cannot be overcomeIf you meet someone you really love, you must work hard to fight for the opportunity to be with him for a lifetime, because when he leaves, everything is too late, take advantage of it, I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, money is not the most important, but money is also very important, you have to understand your parents, they do this for your good, so don't have too fierce disputes with your parents, we have heard of poor couples in decline, have we heard of rich couples in decline? Whether a man has money or not is not the most important thing, the most important thing is to be willing to spend money on you, and if he listens to his parents in big and small things, and doesn't listen to you much, you don't have too much hope for him, if he still owes debts at home, he will not finish in recent years, you had better listen to your parents and leave him, after all, you are a woman, and a woman's youth is very short and precious, don't waste it. If he is particularly attentive to you, you can see for yourself whether money is important or he is important, after all, it is you who marry him, not your parents, I wish you a speedy solution!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, your home is also for your good, and I am afraid that you will suffer and be tired! I think if you see it, don't give up, everyone is from poor to rich! Let him work hard, I'm sure your parents will see it!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, this problem has been an old problem for several lifetimes, and I think that although there is no such thing as arranged marriage in the new society, there is no doubt that as parents of people, everyone wants their children to be happy, and it is also something that we should know in our hearts as children.

    But in your case, if you feel that your boyfriend is very reliable, self-motivated, and pioneering, can have a good yearning and unremitting pursuit for your future, can take your happiness and sadness, your good and bad to heart, and you also hope to have a better development with him, then I think you should try to convince your parents with actions, of course, I say that you are very happy together, and at the same time you are also very motivated and positive. In this way, the parents will be relieved to hand over their daughter to him, what do you say?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Divide it, as the saying goes, the right person is right, and now the feelings may be like in the past, when we used to study, we always thought we were right, and in the end we found ourselves emotional.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You love him, it proves that he has something worthy of your love, the poor family is not the boy's fault, the money can be earned.|

    What does the future hold for this man? Take a long-term view, find a good job, and push up 3 generations are not farmers?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The family can only give advice, mainly depends on your own choice. If you just stay the course, your parents can't do that.

    If he is the person you want to rely on in your heart, then you will go on firmly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That told him to work hard to make money.

    Money is indispensable in this world!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As a young person, you have the right to pursue your own love according to your own wishes. But there are times when parents interfere with their children's freedom to love. At this time, as a child, you can communicate and explain the situation rationally by calmly facing it.

    1. In the face of parents' interference in the freedom of love, children should face it calmly and communicate rationally.

    When one's parents interfere with the freedom of love, the first thing to do as a child is to face it calmly and communicate rationally. The key to doing this is to stay calm and make sure that both parties communicate sensibly and resolve each other's problems properly.

    2. No matter how big the contradiction between children and parents is, the family affection between each other is always the deepest. Because of this, even if parents do not agree with their children's free love, they still want their children to be happy in their hearts. When children are faced with their parents' interference in the freedom of love, they should explain the situation to their parents, so that they can effectively resolve each other's knots and achieve a happy ending.

    3. The reason why parents will interfere with the freedom of love, its fundamental purpose is to hope that their children can find the most suitable partner, when children encounter the situation of parents interfering with the freedom of love, they should be empathetic, from the perspective of parents, so that it is more beneficial to understand the parents' thoughts, and finally properly solve the problem of love, and obtain the ideal result that both themselves and their parents are satisfied.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At present, the economic conditions are not good, but it is not a big problem, the key depends on whether the man and the man's family are calling for a group because of the poor economic conditions, and whether their thoughts and values are limited. If the thoughts, values, and personalities are all consistent, as long as you are willing to work hard and find the right direction, the economic conditions will still improve. If you really love each other, you can say that I love others and not my family, and his conditions are not good, we can work together to give us a certain amount of time to strive for improvement, if not, you can make a decision!

    I think my parents would agree. It's up to you to behave.

    There's really no way, just break up. Especially if the woman's family conditions are better than the man's, there will be a lot of quarrels after marriage, and the marriage that the parents do not agree to really don't insist on. Only the girl agrees, after all, you are responsible for the girl's happiness.

    If you really love each other, love is giving, it is giving. You have to dedicate your own happiness to achieve the happiness of the other person. This situation is also a paradox.

    <> love each other deeply, the condition is not a problem, the man must be brave to love, don't be afraid of anything, even if you are a poor bastard, as long as you win the woman's heart, you will succeed 90%, the remaining 10% you must work hard to start a business, only your efforts can make the woman live a happy life. If you don't work hard, you won't be reliable even if you're married. Young man, work hard to make your life better.

    On the parents' side, try to communicate and let the parents understand themselves, and you can use your actions to make up for these small shortcomings. Be kind to girls, do more work, be diligent, work harder, and let the other party's parents see that you are a strong person, and there is a future talent that every parent hopes that their children will be happy, and they will not be so unreasonable.

    Parents are the benefactors who gave birth to you and raised you, everything your parents do is of course for your good, second, parents are born people, and they have a lot of life experiences and insights. So the parents' opinions are very heavy. To be able to resist the family, to make the woman happy, to be diligent in work, to be good to the woman's parents, and to be motivated in work.

    Instead of-for-tat, don't give the other party a good look, and feel that the other party is targeting you everywhere.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, you have to figure out why your parents interfered in your love.

    Generally speaking, parents will meddle in their children's affairs out of a good attitude for their children. It is normal for parents to think that they have rich life experiences and have read countless people, so they hope to express their opinions and attitudes on their children's love, marriage and other matters.

    As children, you can first adjust your mentality, try to listen to your parents' opinions and suggestions calmly, and patiently understand what your parents think about your love and what they say about the person you fall in love.

    There is an ancient poem: "I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain." People who are in love are often easily carried away by love, resulting in blindness and inability to see the whole truth.

    For the person we fell in love with wholeheartedly at that moment, we always think that he or she is the best, shining, and even flawless. At this time, you need to be "a bystander", and you need the people around you, especially the parents who know you best, to carefully examine whether the person you fall in love with is reliable and worthy of your trust.

    Secondly, if your parents interfere with your love not because they feel that the person you love has problems with their character and internals, but because some material and external conditions do not meet their requirements, you should not be too angry at this time, so that you turn against your parents or even run away from home.

    If you believe that the person you love is worthy of trust, try talking to your parents to gain their trust and support. In any case, be patient with your parents, have a good attitude, and don't do everything against you.

    As an adult, you don't have to obey your parents in everything, you have to have your own thoughts and opinions. You don't have to do everything with your parents, after all, your parents are the people who love you the most in the world. The more parents don't allow you to do things, the more you have to do them, and to show that you are very assertive and individual—you don't have to—this is not a mature and responsible behavior.

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