I don t hurt anyone! Someone else hurts me!!

Mencius said: "The difference between a gentleman and an ordinary person is that he has different thoughts in his heart. The thoughts in the gentleman's heart are benevolence and courtesy.

A loving person loves others, and a courteous person respects others. He who loves others is often loved by others; He who respects others often respects him. Suppose there is a man here who is rude to me, and the gentleman must ask himself

I must be unkind, I must be rude, otherwise, how could he do this to me? If it is benevolent and polite to ask himself, and the person is still rude, the gentleman must bow down again and ask himself: I must be disloyal, right?

If he asks himself to be faithful, and the man is still rude, the gentleman will say, 'This man is just a madman.' "What is the difference between such a man and an animal?

And what is there to blame for the beasts? So a gentleman has lifelong worries, but no overnight calamity. For example, there are such worries:

Shun is a human being, and I am also a human being; Shun is a model in the world, and his reputation will be passed on to future generations, but I am just an ordinary person. That's what worries. What about worry?

Just do it like Shun. As for the gentleman, there are no other troubles. Do not do what is not benevolent, and do not do what is not courteous.

Even if a calamity comes, the gentleman will not feel troubled. ”

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The mind is calm and naturally cool, and everything is good to think about.

When you see him, kick him. Then he appeared in front of him in the best condition and said, "What else is in your mouth, I won't dump you." ”

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.

Everyone has the possibility of being hurt by others, first of all, they don't hurt others, then they need to control their emotions, words and practices first, and then of course we can't be afraid of others, people with a good temperament don't mean that they don't have a temper, so it's good not to hurt others and not be afraid of others.

The only thing about this is not to socialize, not to communicate with the outside world.

At that moment, I was all concerned, not for fame and fortune, just to see your face again, that day, I begged to worship the gods, not for begging, just to wait for your arrival, that night, I listened to Sanskrit singing, not for enlightenment, just to find a trace of your breath.

Love you in my heart, text messages are my love!

Get along well with others, don't cause trouble, and don't be afraid of things.

You don't want to hurt people, but sometimes people come to hurt you.

Destroy the heart of harm, and always have the heart of letting people go.

Squat at home and don't go out to contact people.

Like me, it should be said that it is the same as I used to be, I never dared to say a bad word to others, for fear of hurting others

Especially with the same DAO

Sex, women, but casual workplace experience, I have changed, the more you behave well to everyone, and you don't say anything, they will think that if you don't dare to say it, they will treat you as a bully, and over time, you will not be respected, just like only by saying no to others, he will respect you.

You are right not to want to hurt others, and never hurt others, even if others hurt you because of the needle.

Front-to-head, try to ask who will be afraid of whom,-for-tat will only escalate the contradiction, in addition to this is meaningless, you are not wrong, you just lack a little, in kindness at the same time, you must know how to protect yourself, wary of people like snakes, because the story of the farmer and the snake also exists, you are not wrong, and your kindness is very valuable, to continue to preserve, the only thing to pay attention to is that at the same time, pay attention to protect yourself.

My experience is the same as yours, others will never understand the heart of the hurt person.

You are kind, you know how to respect people, you can't ask other people to do the same, be yourself, a person's inner quality is poor, this is not saved.

People are good and are bullied, they should be fierce, they should be ruthless, and soft-hearted is a kind of unfair kindness.

The heart is too soft, you respect others is your character, and if he doesn't respect him, he can only say that he is immature and very bad.

Only those who can say no will be emphasized, blindly forbearance, accommodating others will gain an inch!

Because you are a foreign dog, your fingers and arms are walking out.

The best way is to be dismissive, because time is the best proof, who is who will eventually be revealed to the world, be strong, no matter how great the pain is, don't explain, because it's useless, use your own way to solve your own things, this is the greatest maintenance of your own dignity, remember never to do the same thing as the villain.

Emotionally? It's hard to say who is right and who is wrong, and it's easy for a person who loves vanity to fall into the whole set of others. So whose fault is it?

Once tolerate him, twice give him a chance, three times return him, and four times cut the grass and eradicate the roots.

Learning from the hurt, we can only try to find some kind of meaning in the meaningless things, and what else can we do.

Treat people sincerely, cherish those who are worth cherishing, and give up decisively if they are not worth cherishing.

Eat salty and look light, and never be soft on those who hurt you.

It also depends on the reason, if it's you, then you have to apologize and correct, if it's someone else's wrong, depending on the situation, if the circumstances are serious, ignore him.

Find a corner where no one is around and cry or find a confidant to confide in to confide in and vent your grievances.

Who hasn't been hurt yet, you should learn to protect yourself.

Repay others in their own way.

If people don't offend me, I won't offend anyone, and if people offend me, fight back!!

Life is like a play, what to look down on

Some things always backfire, a good idea goes in the opposite direction in an inappropriate way...It's hard to avoid it....So some people are always annoyed after doing bad things with good intentions, maybe these people should calm down and whether they are using the wrong method...

Your mind is simple, you don't want to hurt others, but you always hurt others unintentionally, the reason is not that you can't control yourself or that you are really a person who wants to hurt others, but that you are very simple afraid of being hurt, just a kind of vigilance against the outside world, an unconscious protection of yourself! There's nothing wrong with this kind of protection, but it can also cost you a lot of true friends. Most people are kind!

If you want to make a sincere friend, you must treat each other sincerely, and the pay and the gain are equivalent in most cases! If you only know how to protect yourself, then no one will dare to approach you again. Try to pull out the thorns from yourself!

Even if it hurts, there will be gains! It must be worth it.

I'm too tired to do this. And there are soul winners. If you back down, he'll get an inch.

So don't want to hurt others. But there's no need to let others hurt you. Your own parents are reluctant to hurt you.

If they know someone else is hurting you. They will be more heartbroken.

Because you don't protect yourself, when you're strong enough, no one can hurt you But sometimes, it's a blessing to suffer, and you don't have to think too much.

Oh, and the angle ...... itself

Some people's personalities are ...... like thatPeople with different personalities will have different opinions about the same thing......This matter, you look at the problem from your point of view......For example: "Am I so annoying that even my relatives hate me?" This is the thought in your heart, and it is you who feel that your brother-in-law hates you.

But some people like to talk back, the more sarcastic you are, maybe the more they care about you and want to educate you, and at this time your heart is just the fact that you are constructing a family that hates you, but in fact, what does your uncle think in his heart, do you really know?

This is a joke, and it is a big blow ......"That's right. Saying that a person is thin is a compliment to a fat person, and saying it to a thin person may become a worrying ......So, it's you who feel like people are hitting you, but people have already stated that they are joking......People don't know that your bottom line is **, and it's normal to accidentally hurt you......It's not your ......

So I feel like you always measure others from your own point of view, with your own heart as a standard......Or, change the person's point of view, and the result will be different......

That's because you're too weak! It's not uncommon to suffer a little injury in this society!

Some people's personalities are like that, and people with different personalities will have different opinions about the same thing

Look away, maybe you think too much!

Appearance and personality are weak, or joking.

True love exists. But it usually leaves people with sad memories! From then on, the only difference is whether you will be sluggish or more mature and attractive!

Obviously you lack charisma! True love exists. But it usually leaves people with sad memories!

From then on, the only difference is whether you will be sluggish or more mature and attractive! Obviously you lack charisma!

Uh-huh, it is said that the heart of harming others should not be left.

However, it is also indispensable to be cautious and to guard against forgiveness.

In short, others respect you, and you respect others.

In short, if you are bullied to the head.

I can't help it.

Read more books on how to deal with people, face up to your weaknesses, and avoid the traps of others - be upright, down-to-earth, and not delusional, so that Sakura can avoid stepping into the trap and control your own emotions.