Why do people want to harm me? Why do others want to harm you?

Why would others come to hurt you? You? Why? I guess it's the reason, right? Ah, some people are kind by nature and are easy to attract jealousy, so they will find ways to harm you.

I think there is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hatred for no reason, why others will come to harm you, is it that you have a little villain heart, then we can also hurt others like this, but we can have a heart of defense.

There must be a reason. Maybe it's jealousy of you. If you feel it yourself, you should be more careful. Ensuring the safety of one's own life is the most genuine.

Some people have to destroy if they can't get it, or they have to pull a cushion if they are uncomfortable.

Because you must be better than him in every way, and you are superior to him, because he is jealous of unfair people and things, and there are too many.

Why do others want to hurt you, there must be a reason, you know this reason, otherwise you won't know that others want to hurt you, think about you are violating each other, avoid it if you can avoid it, don't make things bigger, it's not good for anyone.

Villains are often an obstacle to our careers and a stepping stone to success. In real life, we all meet all kinds of villains, which really brings a lot of trouble to our lives. It has invisibly caused us pressure and played a certain destructive role, and many people have suffered in this regard.

It is very common for serious people to be brought to a halt in their careers, broken families, and discredited by villains, and their lives ruined.

It can be seen that villains are common in life and are not good for us, so we must prevent the occurrence of such incidents. This is what the ancients often said, "You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people."

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

How can someone else harm you like this for no reason.

What do you mean by that? How did you know what was going on to harm you?

What? Who are you and how did he hurt you?

Jealousy is at odds. There is a kind of person who always has a hard time accepting people who are better than themselves, so the mind is not normal. But there is another reason that the other party has a grudge against you.

When others want to harm you, they are jealous of you, envy you, and you are better off than them.

1. Speak cautiously and greet politely.

The villain is in the dark, and I am in the light. The villain usually does things with a purpose, such as deliberately saying something that leads you to reveal your secrets, deliberately saying something that angers you, so as to make you angry, and he can grab your sore feet and target you, and the goal has been achieved.

Therefore, in the face of the questioning of the villain in the workplace, what we have to do is: speak cautiously and greet politely.

Be cautious in your words, that is, don't know everything and say everything, the other party is not your friend, he just wants to take advantage of your words. If you can't say something, don't say it, and if you can, don't participate in some topics, so as not to get into trouble.

Greetings and politeness, that is, at the beginning, for the villain in the workplace, we should not take the initiative to provoke them, if you show a domineering state when you first contact him, it is easy to anger them. You know, you don't know when the villain will add salt and vinegar to the back, so avoid making it like poking a hornet's nest.

As a risky behavior, we can keep a low profile, just say polite greetings, and don't provoke them.

Stretch out your hand and don't hit the smiling person, so as to give the other party an illusion, so that they will think that you do not regard him as an enemy, then he will not calculate you casually.

2. Don't make deep friends, but don't break off friends.

For the villains in the workplace, we should not have close contact with them, and it is impossible to have deep friendships. However, don't break off your friendship with them, otherwise it will only deepen their hostile relationship with you, and they are trying to frame you all the time, which is really asking for trouble.

My colleague Brother Ming recently encountered an annoyance.

He didn't know who he had offended, and his annual fare reimbursement was actually reported to the ears of the big boss. You must know that the department has an unspoken rule that each employee can be reimbursed 1,000 yuan for the fare, which is tacitly approved by the department leader, and everyone does it.

Unexpectedly, Brother Ming just submitted the reimbursement application, and he was reported after a while. Even the department leaders were embarrassed, so they had to take Brother Ming and deduct part of the bonus as a punishment, and also give a good explanation to the big boss.

Looking back now, Brother Ming has palpitations. It turned out that Brother Ming had openly opposed an old employee before, and everyone knew that the old employee had a bad heart and often framed others, he was a safe and secure villain, and no one dared to offend him.

But the upright Brother Ming didn't like it, and directly scolded him publicly, but the other party's power was too great, and he recruited a group of people to squeeze out Brother Ming, and always tried to set up a situation to frame him, which was revenge for Brother Ming.

In terms of interpersonal communication, the superficial work still needs to be done, after all, everyone works in the same environment, and there is no need to make the relationship too rigid. Therefore, when dealing with villains in the workplace, we don't have deep friendships, but we don't break off friendships, just maintain a sense of balance, and in such a relationship, because the villains don't have too much conflict with you, they won't calculate against you behind your back.

3. Improve yourself and enhance your influence.

In the mixed workplace, the emphasis is on strength and status. If you have the strength and the right to speak, the villain will not dare to touch half of your hair.

People are like to pick soft persimmons to pinch, and when you have a strong aura, extraordinary strength,

Calm self-restraint: People have different cultivation qualities, but when others are malicious to themselves, they must be calm, learn to restrain themselves, don't try to be happy for a while, or let out a bad breath, they will be angry, argue with each other, and even scold, and in the end make themselves feel worse.

Ignore and stay away from each other: Others are malicious to themselves, just know it in their hearts, as long as they are not hurt or lost, then let the other party live their mouths and ignore such people.

Find a time to talk: If the other party is malicious against you more than once, then you can't bear it anymore, you can't calm down, and then pretend to be confused.

Someone wants to kill you, then there must be some tracks, and then there is some evidence, you collect the evidence that he killed you, and then go to the public security bureau and don't call 110110 is in charge of public security, unless that person does something to you and wants to kill you, then you call 110, they have to take care of it, like this, it is best to go to the public security bureau to report the evidence when you get evidence.

You already know that someone wants to harm you, and there are many measures you can take, either hide from it, or call the police, or you know the reason why he wants to harm you, just correct it. Now is a society with a legal system, how can it be so easy to harm a person.

If someone wants to harm you, you can choose to call the police, if you don't want to call the police, then you can choose to avoid him, go to a place where he can't find it, or install monitoring at home to protect yourself.

Someone is trying to harm you. What is he trying to do to you? And how can he harm you? Psychosodic bar! There is no hatred in the world for no reason, he hates you to the core, and he wants to harm you. So, what did you do to him?

You have to calm down and think about it. If you do something sorry for others, others carry the psychology of revenge. You can apply for a writ of habeas corpus before it harms you. Of course, you need to have enough reason.

If someone wants to harm you, you can call the police in a dangerous situation, and self-defense is the right of each of us.

If someone really wants to hurt you. Words that threaten your life. The best thing to do is to call the police. Let the law protect you.

If you are sure that someone is really trying to kill you and there is enough evidence, you can choose to call the police and the police will help you.

If your situation is true, please report to the police or go to the local police station as soon as possible, just in case.

You jump out of the circle, that is, you stand outside the circle of the small interest group you are in, or even the whole society.

Lang Lang Qiankun, there are people who are bold enough to harm others, is there no royal law? So if you are suspicious, you should get the evidence as soon as possible and report it to the police. Besides, you also have to think about whether you are overly nervous and stressed, so that you can't bear it, imagine what will happen after that.

So what is going on? If it's a joke, then laugh it off, if it's a little sober threat, you have to rely on a friend to help, if it's serious. Just call the police.

Bring a tape recorder, install a monitor, and find someone to accompany you in and out.

If there is evidence, go and report it.

If it's a workplace dispute, change companies.

Rich? With a little money, buy a train ticket casually, pay attention to whether there is any tracking, and if not, find a place to rent a house and work. I feel like I'm going home after it's over.

Someone wants to harm you, you can call the police immediately if you have evidence!

Since someone wants to harm you, you just need to find good evidence and call the police for the police to deal with.

Use the law to protect yourself, and if you endanger your life, you should call the police in time, and you can't take too many actions.

Now that you know, stay away and be prepared, so you can run away at any time.

Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. Why would anyone harm you? Find out why you want to do it first. It is best to be able to resolve it.

Someone wants to harm you, get the evidence and call the police immediately!

Then call the police! The police will definitely keep you safe.

You can call the police and seek legal protection, but you will only accept it if you have a basis.

As long as you have conclusive evidence, you can call the police.

The reason why someone wants to hurt you may be that they hurt unconsciously, or it may be because they are envious and jealous of you, so they will hurt you, and there may be that you may hurt others unintentionally, so others will hurt you. There is no trace of harming people for no reason. If someone wants to hurt you, then you have to think about it, have you ever harmed the interests of others?

There should be no harm for no reason, except for crazy people, people with unhealthy hearts. There are also people who have personalities. That's it.

I like it to hit people. The person who hurts you may also be intentional, you don't want to make a fuss because of these laughing oranges and things, you can look at it from another angle, these problems hurt you. If someone hurts you, don't take care of that person.

Be wary of him. Protect yourself.

First of all, you have to learn to avoid, those who hurt you, you have to protect yourself, and then you can dodge, and if you can't, you have to learn to fight back, and treat others in the same way.

Call the police if necessary to protect yourself.

Be sure to learn to fight back in time and don't give the person who bullied you a second chance. Forbearance is not a good way, "endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky", this is a certain environment, the first time others just glance at you, you didn't take action, the second he can pour water on your head, the third time on your head, the person who bullies you must not fantasize about his conscience, he will only continue to test your endurance.

2.If the other party's strength is much stronger than you, you can't hit it hard, you have to learn to use means, the so-called open guns are easy to dodge and dark arrows are difficult to defend, we can stumble on him behind our backs, and discredit the image of the individual, the specific approach here needs to be combined with the actual situation.

3.The last move is silent, Sun Ziyun, the sound is striking the west, I can take the action that I can not fight back at that time, and act like I don't care anymore, and paralyze him, and give him a fatal blow when he is weak, so that we can take revenge with a smaller loss.

We must learn to look at things with a wise eye, and we must not let others seize the opportunity to hurt you.

Arm yourself, be strong, and you'll know what to do.

If you have something to do with the police, don't be afraid of threats, the law is the most favorable to protect you**.

It depends on how he harms you, and you can use methods to deal with him.

Then don't give him a chance to harm you, when there is danger, first communicate with your parents, and then find a police uncle.

Stay sane. Jump out of your emotions and become a bystander.

1. Think of a few more solutions to find the one with the best chance of winning and the most feasible.

2. Analyze the cause through the results to avoid recurrence next time.

3. What should be done and the order in which to fight back.

4 It would be better to have someone to help together, but decide to do it yourself, and bear the consequences.

Be clear about the purpose. 1. What to take into account, what is the bottom line, and what result do you want.

2Don't affect those who help you.

Restore your mood. 1. Calm down and review and see things through.

2. Find a positive mindset.

3. Consider the possible consequences and find a way to deal with them.

Hello, when you feel that others will harm you, you can't deal with it alone, you have to find someone else to help you, for example, you have friends and family around you, they can help you.

Because when you can't protect yourself, you have to rely on the strength of others to protect you. The best thing for a person who threatens you is to stay away and not get along with him, so that others will not harm you, because you have no contradiction with him, and he will not come to harm you. Don't go into conflict with others, have contradictions, don't mix with people with strange personalities.

Because if such a person dislikes you, he will deal with you, so if you don't get along with them, there will be no conflict.