Escape and face. Which hurts deeper? Please, thank you

Running away is deeper than facing hurt, in fact, to be honest, running away is not necessarily the most difficult to hide, and facing is not necessarily the most uncomfortable. Why choose to escape? Escape is a cowardly behavior, a manifestation of weakness, a psychological factor of fear, a helpless failure, escape is a shadow of the soul, there is a bad heart to escape, the more fearful the heart, the more afraid the heart, the reality is always cruel, there is no need to be afraid of things, and then there is no way to escape, the most important thing is to make yourself strong, and dare to bear the courage to face problems when encountering problems, only dare to face it, everything will pass, but start all over again, In fact, people who are afraid of danger are 10,000 times more terrible than the danger itself, turning around is not necessarily the weakest, hesitation is not necessarily no choice, just don't want to be wrong, bravely go their own way, don't choose to escape.

In fact, some things are always sad, get through it, if you are hurt and wipe away the tears you accidentally dripped down, pretend that everything doesn't matter, and then drive it all out of your wounded heart, and if you don't want to bear it, forget about it, as a sad death. Make yourself strong, get out of the shadows, get out of trouble, face bravely, whoever can forgive others, who can save others, who can save yourself, you know, in fact, a second can be all, a tear can also be a lifetime.

Look what's going on. It depends on what you think. See which option works for you.

If escaping can solve the problem and allow you to continue to live happily, then what does it matter. Even if this is a sign of cowardice, it is not too much to throw the problem on others. We are just ordinary people, we all have the instinct to protect ourselves and don't want to get hurt.

Whether it is selfish or willful, it is normal and reasonable. So if you can run, you can run. If you care about the other person and can't just leave it alone, just face it bravely.

Or if escaping will not solve the problem at all, but only obtain temporary peace, then it is important to take countermeasures as soon as possible. Even if you may fail in the end and hurt yourself, you will not regret it if you work hard, and it is worth hurting. It's impossible not to get hurt, and the wounds are deep and shallow, but you will grow because of it.

Don't get lost, trust your instincts, don't be afraid of getting hurt, but think about what you can do if you can reduce it. There are a lot of facts, you may not be able to change them, but you can change your thinking, your practices, and thus the results. Sometimes, even if the choices in front of you are only A B, you can make their choices more complete, and it may have unexpected meanings.

You should know the situation of the company after working for four months, it doesn't matter if the workload is heavy, it's okay to be tired, the problem you are facing now is not this.

The first is the salary, which you feel is earning too little. Starting from the psychology of the boss, I hope that employees will do more and get less, but if you really do more, I don't believe your boss or manager can't see it, if you really do a lot of things every day, don't worry about the salary in the future.

The second relationship is one of the main problems, the pressure of **, since there is no possibility of being together, or it is not a good friend, then don't worry too much about it, to ask. Treat her (him) as your most ordinary friend, these are the things you must learn. It's hard not to mention this.

The third is the most important. It is whether you can learn something here, think about it carefully, unless you are eighty years old, otherwise this is the first thing you should think about, learn things for yourself to add points, and take photos for the future is what you should consider for yourself now.

Have a good time!

When working in a place, the most important thing is what you need to learn or can learn to help you in your future development (i.e., job hopping). Keep reviewing yourself. At the same time, pay attention to the external recruitment to see if your ability is up to it, or what are the shortcomings.

Is it competitive for me to go out for a job? That is, you have been working for a while, and you have increased your skills or expertise compared to when you first graduated.

Of course, there are other things to learn in addition to professional knowledge in the company.

You can imagine whether the things you do every day can still be used by changing companies, and if not, it means that what you are doing is only useful within that company.

In general, there are those who need to exercise:

1. Communication and coordination skills.

2. Project handling ability.

3. Cultivation of emotional intelligence and adverse quotient.

4. Organizational skills.

5. Skills for getting along with your boss, etc.

These are required by any company, and they can quickly adapt to the work of the industry and get started. And he is capable and beautiful, and is appreciated by the leader.

Before I quit my job, think about it, is there nothing worth learning from this place?

Have you applied for a job with Zhongyi?

If you're all ready, resign. But it is recommended that you choose a job that allows you to improve, and don't look for the same company as the current one, and then you will be mixed up again.

1. You treat work as a burden, not a pleasure.

2. You work with pure physical or mental strength, not with your mind.

3. You can't do the job perfectly or as required.

So you feel tired and end up being unhappy and unmotivated to work.

Think about it, it's time to leave. It's awkward to meet, no wonder I'm depressed.

Get a job.

Evade? Can you escape, can you be a stranger when you see them every day, rather than being able to escape, just face it bravely, maybe the three of you will become good friends in the future.

Since you have loved someone, you should also be a person worthy of your love, if you are not destined to be together, it is a better way to bless her, but I think that since you love her, you should strive for or face it bravely instead of running away