What should I do if my boyfriend is in a hurry to get married!!

It will take you an effort to get your parents to summon him. If you don't come up with something, how can your parents take the initiative first? If he has a good family, then it goes without saying.

Now his family is average, and your family is better. In fact, your parents are not the obstacle between you, the biggest obstacle between the two is each other. Have you ever thought that if he can't give you material things in the future, you can accept it?

Your friends are all well-dressed and well-fed, and you... Can you bear these realistic questions in your heart? If you feel like you've thought it through.

If you decide that you will be with him for the rest of your life, then take him directly to meet your parents. Tell your parents what you think and communicate well. In fact, parents want their children to be happy.

I won't be too embarrassed for you.

It's best if you work together, you try your best to convince your parents to meet him, he should show the attitude that will definitely give you a happy life in front of your parents, at least let your parents believe that he will fight for it, so that your parents can rest assured, but you have to let him not worry, don't be anxious when you see your parents, just say that he will do his best, and then do a good job in a period of time, so that your parents can feel at ease, so that your parents can accept it. After all, a person who has no ability to take care of his daughter, his parents will not rest assured that his daughter will hand it over to him.

Besides, his parents, at this time, you have to come forward to meet his family, let his family know that you really want to marry him, but you haven't passed your parents' pass, so that his parents will also cooperate with you and help him struggle. Come on, don't give up, as long as it's not a character problem, as long as he's willing to work hard, it should be fine. Unless your boyfriend makes a bad impression on your parents!

I wish you a lover who will eventually become a family, and when the time comes, you will be happy with candy!

Now the love of having a car and no house is basically not agreed to by your parents, because he can't even give you the most basic home, how can you let your parents hand you over to him, the most important thing to consider in this matter is you, do you really love him?

First set the marriage, and then get married in about a year, there is no need to get married at the age of 25 as your parents said, what are the girls doing when they get married so late, and they are not in a hurry to do their own business or something, generally not just get married at the age of the year, if you think you two can, be decisive and say your own opinions.

This kind of thing still has to take the initiative, if your parents find him, he will fall into place, and you are indeed relatively young, my suggestion is that if you want to get married, it is best to wait for two or three years, briefly introduce him to your parents, and then tell your parents that he wants to come to our house to see the second elder.

What's the hurry, your youth is capital! What are boys afraid of? Afraid that you will break up in the future?

Can't you get divorced if you get married, marriage should be considered slowly. Can't be in a hurry. If you are really unhappy, you will get married in two years, and it will be bad to divorce again, you are only 21 years old, very early, so you don't need to be in such a hurry.

Then you can get engaged first, get a marriage certificate first, your parents haven't summoned him yet, then your boyfriend should take the initiative to visit your parents and behave better. At the beginning, my husband and my parents did not agree to be together, but now I have both received marriage certificates. My mother-in-law is also urging me to get married, catering to my mother-in-law on the surface, but in private I told my husband that I don't have a house and don't get married.

He can't help me.

..What's the hurry, it's not too big for a man to be 30, you better observe your boyfriend's moral problems yourself.

It's better not to marry too early.

You're right, marriage and love need to be cautious, isn't there any other way but to get married? There's nothing wrong with you just thinking about your future, but he's so impatient and says you didn't give him security, so who gives you security? It's you who married and not he married, marrying out is equivalent to handing over everything you have to him, if he is anxious about something now and you don't agree, he is like this, then what if something similar happens after you get married in the future?

What if he asks you to promise him something, if you don't agree, it will be said that you are unfaithful to him? Marriage is a major event in life, and if you don't do it, it will affect whether you can be happy in the second half of your life.

And marriage is a matter of two people and two families, he can do whatever he wants, how can he not understand your feelings so much. And the families of both of you think about the relationship of interests, and don't think too much about whether the two of you love each other or understand each other, as long as it is good for his family. Therefore, you also have to have a certain understanding and understanding of their family, and you can't just put yourself in a strange place that you don't know at all, then you will only be sad.

It's normal for my parents to oppose it, I think I was with my wife back then, the families of both sides have never agreed, it has always been the two of us who love each other and protect each other, two people are separated, one Hunan and one Guangdong insisted on living together for 2 years, and after half a year of hard work, I finally got the approval of my family to marry my wife, and her family was helpless to agree to the two of us.

The more difficult it is to choose, the more difficult it is to wait, the more it can test the relationship between the two of you, he really cares about you, you have to let you marry him happily and with peace of mind, I don't know what his family thinks, and I don't know if I can get along harmoniously, so I will hand over my whole life, how can this matter be so unclear.

At least you have to understand what he thinks, whether it is good for you to get married like this, he should be in such a hurry to get married for your sake and not for his own sake. Therefore, there are three suggestions, 1. How much he loves you and cares about you; 2. Do you know him? Do you know his home? Will he treat you well, will you respect your family? 3. Do you love him or not, do you want to be with him;

He's getting less and less confident in himself, I'm afraid you're leaving. Of course, it is also explained. He is becoming less and less confident in you.

I'm also afraid that you'll leave! So. If you don't want to get married yet.

Then give him a certain sense of security! Let him know you're still around. It's always been there.

Never give up!

The girl is a bit old at 28 years old. It's even harder after the age of 30. Don't ask too much, if you pick others, people are also picking you.

Perfect. What are your conditions? What kind of people do you need to go on with?

I feel that people nowadays are too realistic and too focused on money. Money is important, but it's not everything. Having money is not necessarily good, plain and warm is true.

You don't have to be a mansion to live in, and a small living type is warm enough. As long as the husband is good to him, it is more important than anything else.

Examples: 1. Some people marry very beautifully, have a big feast, and the husband is very rich, and over time, the husband often comes back in the middle of the night (sometimes not coming back). Is it so happy?

2. I saw migrant workers who rented a house opposite my house, both husband and wife were working in the factory, both husband and wife went home from work on time to cook together, and went out for a walk every day after dinner, and their son was playing football in front, and the two husbands and wives were following, holding hands, although they did not have a big house to live in, and they did not have big fish and meat every day. But I think they are truly happy.

Life is your own choice, and your husband also chooses herself.

I'm the kind of person who likes to sit in the back of a bike and laugh rather than sit in a BMW and cry.

My boyfriend also has a car, and we usually ride our bikes and walk the dog if we don't go too far. I like to sit in the back of my bike and close my eyes and enjoy the breeze, I'm not saying I'm happy. I just want to say that following your feelings is more important than anything else, and true happiness is much more important than money.

Hello, above I don't mean you, I just represent my personal thoughts)

Men should get married, women should get married, you can't be lonely for life, right? 28 Have a child now, and in 20 years, your child just doesn't need you to raise it, think about you're 48, you can't do it! Who feeds you? Your family is good for you, so that you have something to rely on.

Rather than lack are the problems of people now! Ordinary life is happiness!

Fate is destined Since this is the case, you are from the family! Maybe the blind date will be good for you!

Oh fate this kind of thing can be encountered but not sought, after all, it is a lifelong thing, we can't just find someone to marry because the family is in a hurry, it is recommended that this kind of thing should be communicated with the family more, I think my parents will understand us.

It is time to seriously consider this issue. It is not easy for a woman to marry after the age of 30. But don't fool yourself.

Think about what qualities you care about the other person the most, and what conditions you have. Find one or two things that you must stick to, and if the other person has others, don't ask too much, because no one is perfect. It's best to get it right.

It's easier to do it this way.

Mobilize your relatives and friends to introduce blind dates, or register members on marriage and love networks (Jiayuan, Same-City Dating, Baihe.com) to chat with you in the same city.

On the premise of getting married, let's be cautious. If it's just playing or something, it's pleasing to the eye, and it's easy to use.

The more anxious you are, the hell, slow down, life really has to slow down!